Have you ever felt, do you feel insecure about your dick size?

[Darkjumper]

Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.

No disrespect man.
However, even posting a thread like this may lead some to believe that you have some issues with your endowment.
Kind of pointless to be concerned about something that for the most part can't be changed... It's great that you're passed it. Especially if you have more than enough to please the mass majority of women. I know I have a "big" dick. This had been verified by the mass majority of women... Never compared myself to donkey dicked dudes. Actually, I'm under the impression it's more trouble than it's worth. Additionally, I bring a lot more to the table than my dick. Not least of which is technique and my more than willing desire to make the woman's pleasure my top priority. To be honest I've never had anybody say that my dick wasn't big enough for them. Ironically, not too long ago some bucket puss idiot who is no longer on the site said that I'm average at best. I guess that would depend on what you consider "average". I remember that animosity charged exchange being the best laugh I had that whole day. The advice that you offer is.
All the best to you Bro.

 

[Darkjumper]

No disrespect man.
However, even posting a thread like this may lead some to believe that you have some issues with your endowment.
Kind of pointless to be concerned about something that for the most part can't be changed... It's great that you're passed it. Especially if you have more than enough to please the mass majority of women. I know I have a "big" dick. This had been verified by the mass majority of women... Never compared myself to donkey dicked dudes. Actually, I'm under the impression it's more trouble than it's worth. Additionally, I bring a lot more to the table than my dick. Not least of which is technique and my more than willing desire to make the woman's pleasure my top priority. To be honest I've never had anybody say that my dick wasn't big enough for them. Ironically, not too long ago some bucket puss idiot who is no longer on the site said that I'm average at best. I guess that would depend on what you consider "average". I remember that animosity charged exchange being the best laugh I had that whole day. The advice that you offer is.
All the best to you Bro.

Oh I totally agree at the possibility of a misconception, but I hope that any who know me from all my posts on here, know I'm a very confident man. But you and I share the same mindset, that it's more than just the size, it's your skill set. If I see the post going left, I'll take it down. I appreciate the feedback and advice, thanks again. But oddly, I'm sure there are some that feel their large size create some level of doubt or insecurities. Believe it or not, there are women that will shun a man for being too large. I'm curious to see if this thread will spark some discussion around that end of the spectrum.

 

[geoffrya]

fely very insecure until i met sammy, she had had lods of differentcock and when i finally told her i was small i was pleasntyl surprised whch i didnt expect she told me i was bigger than many she had and equaly smaller than many she told me my 7inches was bigger than many having seen many fuck her its never bothered me since

 

[JohnEE]

Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.

Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.

Great body and great cock ...

 

[FrankiGoodGurl]

Too big can definitely cause some problems. My largest guy was ten inches and thick and it caused a good deal of pain (for many months)- especially as I met with him many times!!!

But I met with him because of all the other qualities he brought to the table - smart, funny, handsome, kind… and he knew how to use his fingers and tongue as well!! Date nights with him were always fantastic as we had a great friendship too.

I know you didn’t ask for validation (kind of the main reason for your post was being past needing it!)… but from what I can see, you have more than enough in thickness in particular to please most if not all women!!

I currently meet with a guy almost exclusively on my end who is 9 inches. He hits my cervix and what feels like beyond although that’s not technically possible lol. But he hits a spot that goes around, about and what feels like under my cervix and it’s a very good pain. Still painful and I can be sore.

But for all the other reasons, like above/ smart, handsome, super fun, great chemistry and respect on both sides - a great friendship on top- and I’ll take the (good) pain.

But again, I know I can also be satisfied with less. My husband is probably just slightly above average and thick. And even he does the job (plus can bring me to orgasm in literally 2 minutes with his tongue after knowing my body for 30 years!).

Keep on truckin’ - you’ve got the goods!

Also curious as to how other women and men might respond!!

 

[Darkjumper]

I welcome and appreciate all responses. True, no validation necessary, but there are no right or wrong answers either, it's open forum. I knew it would be a touchy/sensitive topic.

 

[Ebonythunder]

Look at the good side of being small (not tiny). Some woman are ok with anal if it’s not to big. And a woman can get all of your tool into their mouth and suck you off without stroking you.

 

[Darkjumper]

Look at the good side of being small (not tiny). Some woman are ok with anal if it’s not to big. And a woman can get all of your tool into their mouth and suck you off without stroking you.

 

[SwirlSexr775]

Oh I totally agree at the possibility of a misconception, but I hope that any who know me from all my posts on here, know I'm a very confident man. But you and I share the same mindset, that it's more than just the size, it's your skill set. If I see the post going left, I'll take it down. I appreciate the feedback and advice, thanks again. But oddly, I'm sure there are some that feel their large size create some level of doubt or insecurities. Believe it or not, there are women that will shun a man for being too large. I'm curious to see if this thread will spark some discussion around that end of the spectrum.

 

[AnnieS]

Hey guys, now this is probably a topic many won't share or be honest about, and that's understandable. I have went through that phase or feeling when I was very young. But as of my 30's, not any more. I have experienced, and even recently being rejected because she said my dick was too small. I just laughed and said that's fine, it's enough for someone else. I get asked all the time how big am I, and I always reply, never measured, you judge. I send a pic, if I don't get a response, fine. I don't let the size of my dick define me, and I know I'm not big, especially compared to those carrying a baby's arm lol. It's important to be honest with ourselves and more importantly, accept what can't change and find ways to use what we have to its full potential.

Your dicks fine- its how you use that matters.

 

[Darkjumper]

Your dicks fine- its how you use that matters.

Thanks, not worried or insecure about mine at all. I was watching one of those pure white underbelly episodes and it talked about insecurities. And it was mentioned that a lot of men experienced that at some point of their lives, I know I did when I was much younger. I've even encountered women that told me I was too small. But as I got older I stopped worrying about it and really didn't care any more about anyone's opinions. I developed a take it or leave it mentality.

 

[AnnieS]

The sixe of a dick is really sort of meaningless. If you dick is 6" long and you fuck like a mad man and have stamina and technique its a free for all. If your dick is 10" long and you fuck like a 10 year old and you blow your nut in 30 seconds it doesnt really matter does it? Ive had an average sized or slightly smaller guy rock my world. I ve had a guy with a 9" dick absolutely suck in bed and never was with him again. Technique, foreplay, sensuality and stamina make for a wild evening. Pounding away with no regard to your partner and only to get yourself off makes for a 2 minute deal and a thanks but no thanks reply.

 

[GaBlackSnake]

Just my two cents worth adding, I am around 7 2 8 inches but girth and I work a MEAN tongue. I had this guy wife yelling so loud once , well several occasions that the people in the next room to us came to the door when we were leaving and asked what were y'all doing in there. I even made one of my co-workers squirted with my tongue. But I never heard anyone complain of my dick size. Keep doing you and it should be based upon your character inside and outside the bedroom.

 

[dafeeak365]

Good thread. These abyss pussy chicks who been ran through by dozens of men try to make you feel imadequate and worthless, because they only gain pleasure being impaled by a light pole or multiple light poles. I'm like you bro, "Ok, whatever." Any chick advertising herself as a size queen should be avoided. They have no shame or modesty, and have done things that would make a pornstar blush.

 

[Darkjumper]

The sixe of a dick is really sort of meaningless. If you dick is 6" long and you fuck like a mad man and have stamina and technique its a free for all. If your dick is 10" long and you fuck like a 10 year old and you blow your nut in 30 seconds it doesnt really matter does it? Ive had an average sized or slightly smaller guy rock my world. I ve had a guy with a 9" dick absolutely suck in bed and never was with him again. Technique, foreplay, sensuality and stamina make for a wild evening. Pounding away with no regard to your partner and only to get yourself off makes for a 2 minute deal and a thanks but no thanks reply.

Well said.

 

[Darkjumper]

Good thread. These abyss pussy chicks who been ran through by dozens of men try to make you feel imadequate and worthless, because they only gain pleasure being impaled by a light pole or multiple light poles. I'm like you bro, "Ok, whatever." Any chick advertising herself as a size queen should be avoided. They have no shame or modesty, and have done things that would make a pornstar blush.

I mean I won't shame or bash a woman that's a size queen, to each his or her own. If she is, then I know not to waste my time with her and move on.
Ok let me flip the script for a bit. Ladies, I'm sure some of you have went thru the same feeling of lack of confidence regarding some body part, be it bre3ast or Vagina. Some you can fix others you can't. You can get boob jobs, do kegels, even get vaginal rejuvenation. Do share if you dare.

 

[dafeeak365]

I mean I won't shame or bash a woman that's a size queen, to each his or her own. If she is, then I know not to waste my time with her and move on.
Ok let me flip the script for a bit. Ladies, I'm sure some of you have went thru the same feeling of lack of confidence regarding some body part, be it bre3ast or Vagina. Some you can fix others you can't. You can get boob jobs, do kegels, even get vaginal rejuvenation. Do share if you dare.

Let me expound, these type of women have a disease in their heart, which I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy : ingratitude. This type of person will never find contement or pleasure in anything or anyone, there is always a constant desire of more or something better plauging them. These type of people tend to have the worst of human qualities or atttributes and do the most evil in the world.

 

[MartezDuke]

Nah, I don't really care that much for how average sized I am down below as often in recent memory. Not on this site yet, but I've managed to meetup and fuck a fair amount of women who didn't seem TOO bothered about my dick during our sessions, and a few complaints I gotten for being "big", was those who were giving me a snoresville-level BJ and just switched to something else.

Speaking of size queens, there was this one individual wife that came off as a tad too self-proclaimed, contacted me through some ads I posted a few years ago looking to get fucked by a BBC, only to turn around and say she only wanted "9 - 12 inches" instead after showing her mines. While it did discourage me to some extent, My interest towards her quickly diminished over time through later replies in my inbox starting to have this rather, stench of arrogance and ambition to them claiming that she can take it, while showing off photos.

No skin off my bones, probably wasn't missing out on much.

 

[Darkjumper]

Nah, I don't really care that much for how average sized I am down below as often in recent memory. Not on this site yet, but I've managed to meetup and fuck a fair amount of women who didn't seem TOO bothered about my dick during our sessions, and a few complaints I gotten for being "big", was those who were giving me a snoresville-level BJ and just switched to something else.

Speaking of size queens, there was this one individual wife that came off as self-proclaimed, contacted me through some ads I posted a few years ago, looking to get fucked by a BBC, only to turn around and say she only wanted 9 - 12 inches instead after showing her mines. While it did discourage me to some extent, I chose not to deal with her after seeing later replies in my inbox have this rather, stench of arrogance to them which honestly ruined it for me entirely.

Oh well, no skin off my bones.

Yeah this is similar to what I've encountered. I recall when I lived in Hawaii, this other female soldier I tried (yes tried) to mess with. I went up in there, and no lie, I felt nothing, but I played it off. Then she said 'I don't feel you' , I laughed and said, 'I don't feel you either.' Ironically, she got mad and said I'm too small. I was younger and my ego took over so I told her she had big coochie that was warn out. If she had said that to me now, it would not phased me one bit.