Has anyone ever had their wife successfully seduced? Without her knowing you set it up?

There is no accidental seduction. This is your fantasy. If she allows seduction and eventual sex consensually it was because she wanted it and tge relationship was already flawed or broken.
This was the case with one of my acquaintances who I knew my wife had the hots for. I didn’t socialize much with him, but knew he was married. My ex and I were going to meet up at a club. His wife ended up not showing up with him. I later found out they were going through a separation. My ex wife was a flirt and took the opportunity to dance with him and flirt with him. It usually took maybe two drinks for my wife to get horny. I had encouraged my wife to be open and let herself go in our marriage. (That’s another story) So I wasn’t opposed to her flirting as long as I was in on the action later and could watch. We ended up leaving early to our house as she had him rock hard on the dance floor.
 
Just curious if anyone has set up their wife to get seduced by a bbc without her knowing? I have asked my wife in a somewhat straightforward but indirect way and she had no interest in being shared. I know she would love a bbc tho.

I am curious if anyone has done this and if so, pros and cons? I could obviously give the seducer all sorts of keys to seduce her quickly, but she would ultimately think she’s “cheating” and I of course would want the seducer to provide me with photos and details.

Anyway, cons? Pros? Am I crazy?
Something I have been toying with trying myself
 
There is no accidental seduction. This is your fantasy. If she allows seduction and eventual sex consensually it was because she wanted it and tge relationship was already flawed or broken.
Well a true cuck probably sees that differently
 
Three times, all worked perfectly
This drives me nuts. As the youngsters would say, “Deets man, deets!” (Aka details).

Personally I’m not going to tell a guy she is down to fuck. I just need to create a low stress situation where a black guy, if he’s attracted to her, hits on her. Then it’s totally her call, her discretion what if anything happens. I could be dead and buried waiting for this to happen in real life given my wife being shy, very few black men around our area, and we don’t do a lot of adventurous exploring if different areas.

She doesn’t think other guys find her sexy. I think some black guys proving her wrong would be a game changer.

But again, some details on what you did that worked. Thanks,
 
What a terrible idea. "Secretly" getting your wife seduced is only going to end in distrust. Either it works and she’s cheated on you, or it doesn’t, and you couldnt be honest with her about what your fantasy is. Never a good idea.
 
What a terrible idea. "Secretly" getting your wife seduced is only going to end in distrust. Either it works and she’s cheated on you, or it doesn’t, and you couldnt be honest with her about what your fantasy is. Never a good idea.
Different scenario for us. I have been totally transparent about my fantasy. The guy hitting on her, it would be with me around. She knows this fantasy is scorching hot for me.

A direct approach with my wife won’t work. But if I didn’t push her to get out of her comfort zone nothing would have happened sexually, besides really watered down vanilla sex. No sex talk, no role play, no toys, no porn, no oral sex. Not kidding at all. She has resisted all of that initially, but has gotten beyond her inhibitions/hang ups and had amazing oragsms as a result.

Her self esteem is low so besides her normal initial baggage due to her Catholic upbringing, if I told her I wanted to arrange a meet up she would assume I paid the guy or somehow had to talk him into it. A guy who comes on to her and expresses attraction “out in the wild” would be a big boost for her confidence. That coupled with being away from home and in vaca mode, I can see her really letting loose and possibly making my fantasy a reality. No guarantees but she’s a very kind, nice person so even if she were to reject his advances she would do so with a big smile on her blushing face and we’d fuck like rabbits later. It’s totally her call as to what if anything happens, where and with whom. I just want to create opportunities for her to make the call.

Make sense?
 
I still recall in detail the night my wife was seduced by a black man (suit and tie Business Man) in a bar/nightclub. It still get me rock hard. I wrote down in detail what happened and tried to reach out to him in an ad because we lost his personal information.
 
Just curious if anyone has set up their wife to get seduced by a bbc without her knowing? I have asked my wife in a somewhat straightforward but indirect way and she had no interest in being shared. I know she would love a bbc tho.

I am curious if anyone has done this and if so, pros and cons? I could obviously give the seducer all sorts of keys to seduce her quickly, but she would ultimately think she’s “cheating” and I of course would want the seducer to provide me with photos and details.

Anyway, cons? Pros? Am I crazy?
Yes
 
I did this once with her trainer from the gym she worked out at. Her female trainer switched gyms and she was transferred to a very good looking black guy that I could tell she was attracted to.

I went into her phone, found his number and i reached out to him and he and I coordinated the entire first meeting.

It was really good in the beginning but went bad quickly as he was extreme with isolating me and she developed real feelings for him.

I’ve also set her up with two couples that turned into long term relationships.

It can work just make the effort to be thorough in your vetting process because the first time he uses your wife you likely won’t be there.
 
I’ve set my wife up twice and on both occasions “something“ happened, but not sex. The first time the guy sensually felt her up outside her clothes in the dark corner of the bar. The second time, the guy flirted with her, and then asked where the bathrooms were. She looked at me and volunteered to take him and then they kissed and made out for about five minutes in the hallway leading to the bathroom. She claims she’s not interested in being shared, but on both occasions she participated in some type of sensual act with other men. Hopefully it’s just a matter of time.
 
Though years of sex talk in bed I convinced my wife to accept the advances of a younger very good looking very well built Black co-worker….the key in convincing her was she didn’t have to tell me… when I would whisper that in her ear she’d cum… then after sex she’d say “ so I don’t have to tell you ?”…. That when I knew it was inevitable…. And then it happened naturally.
 
Its a difficult one as, as much as i would love to set something up, she would be cheating in her mind and doesn't that make it more problematic?
 
Different scenario for us. I have been totally transparent about my fantasy. The guy hitting on her, it would be with me around. She knows this fantasy is scorching hot for me.

A direct approach with my wife won’t work. But if I didn’t push her to get out of her comfort zone nothing would have happened sexually, besides really watered down vanilla sex. No sex talk, no role play, no toys, no porn, no oral sex. Not kidding at all. She has resisted all of that initially, but has gotten beyond her inhibitions/hang ups and had amazing oragsms as a result.

Her self esteem is low so besides her normal initial baggage due to her Catholic upbringing, if I told her I wanted to arrange a meet up she would assume I paid the guy or somehow had to talk him into it. A guy who comes on to her and expresses attraction “out in the wild” would be a big boost for her confidence. That coupled with being away from home and in vaca mode, I can see her really letting loose and possibly making my fantasy a reality. No guarantees but she’s a very kind, nice person so even if she were to reject his advances she would do so with a big smile on her blushing face and we’d fuck like rabbits later. It’s totally her call as to what if anything happens, where and with whom. I just want to create opportunities for her to make the call.

Make sense?
I certainly does.
 
Though years of sex talk in bed I convinced my wife to accept the advances of a younger very good looking very well built Black co-worker….the key in convincing her was she didn’t have to tell me… when I would whisper that in her ear she’d cum… then after sex she’d say “ so I don’t have to tell you ?”…. That when I knew it was inevitable…. And then it happened naturally.
It’s alway hotter for the husband when “it” happens naturally—especially with a younger, way better built and better looking spunkier rival.

In such instances the husband can be reasonably sure that true sexual love has played it’s “inevitable” part.

And what could be hotter than that for him?
 
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