19 and slept with 4 guys? I would say that she has a sense of adventure and is fairly uninhibited. You might suggest a three way with the two of you and another guy. If she agrees ask if she has any prejudices. If she doesn't find a bull for the third person.Not the response i was expecting but fair point... She is 19, blonde, UK size 8 and 32c bra. She's only slept with 4 guys including myself and hasn't given any real indication of wanting to sleep with anyone else. This is more of a fantasy of mine from a previous relationship. I would like to see how she would respond to doing something like this for real as we have only joked about stuff like this is the past.
The link you sent was perfect in my eyes, im just worried it may be a little too early to pull out a black dildo yet haha.
Have you been cuckolded?
Dude...lighten up.jrc ... to get serious answers & responses to your posts, you really need to provide us readers a bit more detail about you and your GF. You're moving along at lightning speed with your posts and requests, and you've posted a total of 5 times, yet you've given us no information about your GF. For one, it's not all that simple, and two, it involves HER interest and input, which it doesn't sound like you're even considering. You show us a verification pic of you, and to be honest with you, you're not at all small in the dick department ... a lot of white girls could be very content with your cock, assuming you know how to use it. Has your GF given you any indication that she would like to have sex with other guys, black, white, green, purple ... whatever? Has she ever mentioned or had sexual fantasies about black guys?
The reason(s) women might have sex with other men is usually totally different from the reason(s) men might have sex with other women. Women are very senstive about "cheating", and I imagine your GF looks at either of you having sex with someone else as cheating or being disloyal to the relationship, and she'll probably find it very confusing as to WHY you want her to fuck other men. She could very possibly be very, very happy with eventually getting banged by a black man, but what indications have you seen or heard that she's receptive to banging ANY guys at all?
First of all, it might be helpful if the two of you shared your sexual fantasies with each other. This gives you some clue as to where she is in being receptive to what you desire. She may not be turned on by black men at all, and therefore you'd be wasting a lot of effort until she did have an interest. If she is interested, possibly set up a 3-some with you and another man to show her you're comfortable with sharing her. This is really important ... she's got to be convinced that your desire to do these things is all about HER enjoyment, not yours. Also, if she's as naive & inexperienced as you indicated in one of your posts, you're chancing losing her to another man.
That said, I got my wife one of those life-like dildos ... foreskin, the whole thing ... its about 7" long, and she loves me using it on her while sucking her nipples, earlobes, and playing with her clit. They come in 3 colors ... white, black, olive; most adult book stores have 'em and they're about $40-50. Do some fantasy play with one of the black ones and see how she responds ... if good, then start working at making it a "real experience". Mac
http://www.venuspleasures.com/dildos/life-like/realistic-cock-8-inch-brown.html
Not really. Hence why im questioning her reaction to the ideais she adventurous when it comes to sex ??
just get her a nice, sexy BBC!! simba (a BLACKMAN)Do you guys have any ideas for gifts that might get her into this scene? I was this thinking a black dildo but not sure if its suttle enough?! Any ideas or thoughts are appreciated!
Have you been cuckolded?
That's exactly what i thought originally but now im leaning towards just getting her any colour dildoas it will be her first and then ease her to bigger and blacker things. After all i don't want to push her away, i want to ease her in!You've already gotten some good ideas, it looks like.....
My suggestion would be a nice black realistic dildo just a little bit bigger than you are, for starters...in your size range I especially like the "cyberskin" and other soft ones you can get.....
If she is already into anal, there are some nifty little black butt plugs you can get in a couple of sizes that are penis-shaped with a head and veins, but a thin "neck" so they stay in back there.....if not, you could start off with a pretty jeweled butt plug, I was given one as a gift that I love, and still enjoy wearing on dates and special occasions
Lanie
I wondered about my recommendation for the black color while I was writing - one excuse is that it's a better color for anal, but you didn't respond with anything about where you two stand with that...but you are right to avoid if if you have any concern about how it would be accepted.....That's exactly what i thought originally but now im leaning towards just getting her any colour dildoas it will be her first and then ease her to bigger and blacker things. After all i don't want to push her away, i want to ease her in!
For what's its worth, I didn't ease my ultra conservative wife into it...I went for two big black dildos right away. Took a little adjustment but now she loves em. She has thanked me for making our sex life, as she puts it, more "interesting".That's exactly what i thought originally but now im leaning towards just getting her any colour dildoas it will be her first and then ease her to bigger and blacker things. After all i don't want to push her away, i want to ease her in!
Very decent! Lucky you!I bought my gal this one for Christmas, she just sent these while I am at workView attachment 162746 View attachment 162747 View attachment 162748 View attachment 162749
Do you guys have any ideas for gifts that might get her into this scene? I was this thinking a black dildo but not sure if its suttle enough?! Any ideas or thoughts are appreciated!