Is this a bad idea?

[425oldsmar]

I know I’ll get heat for this. What about ordering a bbc dildo and having it addressed to someone else but shipped to my house. That might intrigue her or just scare her off

Great idea

 

[cindycd]

That is a safer idea unless she checks your account or calls to ask about the delivery. Depends on how inquisitive she is.

 

[Imakeithappennow]

I think what you’ve proposed is manipulative and despicable to be honest. Your fetishes are yours and aren’t necessarily hers. I hate every single one of these posts that starts off with “how do I make my wife/gf… etc… etc…”
Don’t be a dirtbag and instead try talking with her about what turns you on and maybe you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results. Then you can evolve your sex life and relationship in a healthy way without being a sociopath.

I agree. If you want to be a cuck be a cuck about it and be straight up. That doesn't mean you have to drop the hammer on her but let her know your likes your turn ons, your cucky thoughts. Don't set her up for something that may backfire in your face.

 

[MrandMrsIvyblu]

So I haven’t been able to tell my girl about my fetish for bbc porn and I don’t know if I would be able to handle watching her go black but it def sounds hot

So I was thinking…

How bad of an idea would it be to find a bbc on fetlife or b2w and have him IG message her. Maybe this could spark her interest and Atleast open the dialogue.

What’re your thoughts?

If you can't talk through it this is a horrendous idea! Put down the btw overtly sexualized site and really think about what you BOTH want! Start with something simple see if she enjoys sucking your finger while y'all have sex. Most people especially ladies are either afraid you will use it as a license to cheat or that you don't love them because you want to see them with someone else!... Open relationships require honest communication and boundaries. Most people don't go as drastic as some here claim to do or actually do. My wife has had myself, two white guys, one who was so small because she didn't think the whole size thing through that I don't count, and one black guy who was the same size or close to the same size as me. There's been a level of regret with each because of how we were raised that sex outside of marriage is bad, and without open communication or with a jealous mate it would have been devastating to our marriage. Introduce something SMALL new and see if she enjoys and then move forward to something else but keep your relationship in first place each step of the way. You might find that non monogamy is better on paper than in practice or you may find non monogamy or cuckolding is. There's a ton of levels to the scene it's not right for all, but it can be great if you are both invested in one another first and foremost. Hopefully this helps. Best of luck with your journey.

 

[EarthC137]

COMMUNICATION!! If you don't talk and be open and honest any other route WILL DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP. If you love her and trust her you need to talk this through in a mundane setting

 

[OleMissQoScple]

I think what you’ve proposed is manipulative and despicable to be honest. Your fetishes are yours and aren’t necessarily hers. I hate every single one of these posts that starts off with “how do I make my wife/gf… etc… etc…”
Don’t be a dirtbag and instead try talking with her about what turns you on and maybe you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results. Then you can evolve your sex life and relationship in a healthy way without being a sociopath.

Yes, 100% agree with you.

 

[Shavedguysa]

I know I’ll get heat for this. What about ordering a bbc dildo and having it addressed to someone else but shipped to my house. That might intrigue her or just scare her off

You need to think about manning up and talking with your girl. Find out her desires and share yours.

 

[jewbro]

If you are doing this, just get the best bull you can so he is attractive for her enough that she is ready for everything, and of course with a big pipe.

 

[petco]

So I haven’t been able to tell my girl about my fetish for bbc porn and I don’t know if I would be able to handle watching her go black but it def sounds hot

So I was thinking…

How bad of an idea would it be to find a bbc on fetlife or b2w and have him IG message her. Maybe this could spark her interest and Atleast open the dialogue.

What’re your thoughts?

Nice idea - but do nt carry it out . talk to her .