All that said, we definitely have discussed what would happen if she got pregnant. I loved getting to witness the amazing changes in my wife's body when she became pregnant with our children, and how sexy she was while carrying, giving birth to and nursing them. I got a vasectomy when we were done having *******, but we've discussed what we would tell family, friends, our *******' teachers, etc. if we ever changed our minds. She knows I would have had no issue supporting her through pregnancy and would have enthusiastically co-parented any baby she had with one of her bulls, just as if he or she was another we'd conceived together, IF we decided we wanted to have more *******. She's far more against the idea than I am, to be honest. But there's absolutely no truth to the idea that my voice and my feelings weren't part of the decisions we've made together.