I am married. And we’re happy as far as I know. I was just pointing out that there are husbands, for example, who desire their wives to fuck other guys but are too afraid to broach the subject with their wives for a variety of reasons, one of which is fear of her reaction. If you are that guy and then your marriage begins going south then maybe you figure fuck it, what have I got to lose or so what if she flips out, I’m thinking about bailing anyway. There are tons of wanna be’s on any and all hotwife/cuck sites. A lot more of them than real folks already living the life. I’ve read plenty of posts from these guys saying they don’t know how to go about introducing the subject or are just flat out worried that if they do, their wife might dump em for being a freak. That was what I was trying to say.