I'm an attractive, 40-something Black man. I've been pretty successful in my dating life with women of different ethnic backgrounds, both inside and outside the lifestyle. I've noticed that it doesn't take much for the average white woman to consider extramarital sex so long as it's discreet. In the "vanilla" world I've experienced this more times than I can count.
One instance that stands out is me and my homeboy went to a bar one night and a bachelorette party came in. They started flirting with us and me and the bride to be hit it off. At one point her girls dared her to lick shots off my chest and she did, sucking my nipples as she did. Long story short, by the end of the night the bride-to-be sucked me off while my dude fucked one if the bridesmaids. That was a Friday night. The bride was getting married on Sunday.
I'm just saying there's a lotta overlap between how open swingers and white women in relationships operate.
One instance that stands out is me and my homeboy went to a bar one night and a bachelorette party came in. They started flirting with us and me and the bride to be hit it off. At one point her girls dared her to lick shots off my chest and she did, sucking my nipples as she did. Long story short, by the end of the night the bride-to-be sucked me off while my dude fucked one if the bridesmaids. That was a Friday night. The bride was getting married on Sunday.
I'm just saying there's a lotta overlap between how open swingers and white women in relationships operate.
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