Does your interest in black men go past sex?

Yes, because that's how most hookups are, regardless of race. I can hookup with people and still respect them. If I do date someone, it's not going to be because of their race.
If I'm dating someone or marrying them, it's not going to be because of their race but because of their other traits like personality and whether or not, we can be a good team together in this life. I'm not into race play or racist superiority either.
 
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I am going to be perfectly honest. I have never been in a relationship with anything other than a black woman. However the best sex I have had in my life is with white women (redheads rock). I was wondering with al thats going on here, while the desire to fuck black men is there, could it go beyond that for you? I was at Hedonism a few years back and I was chatting with the wife of a couple. She said she has always loved to have sex with black men as far back as she could remember but she never considered being in a relationship with one. I found that ODD. Any thoughts?
Anyone can love anyone if it's a person they respect and find attractive.
 
Here's a question for black men. If you know without a doubt that the white woman you're considering fucking only wants sex and would never consider a relationship with you, do you still want to fuck her? There's no right answer- I'm sure many men have a different opinion on this. Just curious to hear what you all have to say.
no i would not fuck her, its probably the reason i have not met anyone on this site. I hate being called a bull or bbc or some one's boy toy. If you cant come at me respectfully then dont come at all. But as i said in another posting, to each his own, for me i am looking for a single white woman who actually wants a relationship, then we can get into the kink. i just figured this site provides the opportunity to talk like adults and not beat around the bush on the things we like sexually. yeah i am still hoping to find that type of white woman on here, i know she is we just have not come across one another yet.
 
I am going to be perfectly honest. I have never been in a relationship with anything other than a black woman. However the best sex I have had in my life is with white women (redheads rock). I was wondering with al thats going on here, while the desire to fuck black men is there, could it go beyond that for you? I was at Hedonism a few years back and I was chatting with the wife of a couple. She said she has always loved to have sex with black men as far back as she could remember but she never considered being in a relationship with one. I found that ODD. Any thoughts?
I only think like that..... I won't just have sex....have to have the relationship as well. With the times changing, anything. Works. If he can rock my world in and out of bed.....why would I want anything else? Lol
( I am a redhead too.... Lol).
 
I am going to be perfectly honest. I have never been in a relationship with anything other than a black woman. However the best sex I have had in my life is with white women (redheads rock). I was wondering with al thats going on here, while the desire to fuck black men is there, could it go beyond that for you? I was at Hedonism a few years back and I was chatting with the wife of a couple. She said she has always loved to have sex with black men as far back as she could remember but she never considered being in a relationship with one. I found that ODD. Any thoughts?
What an interesting thread - thank you !
In our situation,in Melbourne Australia,this is how it is :
I’ve been with my hubby for quite a number of years now. We have a very happy,close loving relationship that is never in question. I’m an older mature woman in her early 60’s (don’t remind me ! Lol).
In deciding to maybe slice up our already fun sex life,we both decided that my hubby would introduce me to bbc sex with respectful black gentlemen who was clean and d&d free,with whom we got to know. The social aspect was as important as the sexual aspect. I had to get to know the man,find a connection on a number of levels,feel comfortable, safe,respected and engaged,and see that this man was on the “same page” as me,before sex together took place.
Having enjoyed sex with a number of black gentlemen over the left half a dozen years or so,we found I was particularly attracted to a lovely guy from Ghana in West Africa. We all got on very well together socially,and the sex with him was fabulous. I’ve always loved cock,and sex,and my hubby was very happy to see me fucking other guys,they just happened to be black. He became a Stag, supporting and encouraging me to enjoy all the bbc I needed and desired. We seemed to be seeing this one guy in particular,and it soon became evident that he was become my black lover.
It was an all encompassing friendship between all 3 of us. We enjoyed one another’s company,in and out of the bedroom. We did things together socially and sexually,in public and in private. My hubby is my hubby,and my black lover is my black lover. We were all happy with this situation.
My black lover has a wife and 3 children back over in Ghana. He lives,works and studies over here with his siblings in Melbourne. He doesn’t have sex, except with me. I only have sex with him,and occasionally with my hubby. That suits all of us. My black lover’s wife back in Ghana knows about me and is happy for her husband to enjoy sex with a white female lover here in Melbourne.
She knows his need for regular sex - these black men have a huge stamina for sex and a copious amount of spunk they have on offer. I can accommodate his sexual needs,and we can offer him the social interaction and warm friendship he was seeking.
He doesn’t want a relationship,and nor do I. We both have that with our other partners ! We’re perfectly happy with our situation. If our situation was different,who knows what it would be like. Neither of us would be adverse to enjoying a relationship together. We’d be very happy being in a relationship together. He like *******,and wants more. He tells me his black seed is very potent ! Whilst I was very fertile and could easily get pregnant when I was much younger,I’m now obviously no longer fertile and able to bear children. That could be a “sticking point” if we were both single and contemplating a relationship. But we’re not.
He’s aiming to hopefully bring his family out here in the next few years,and although his situation (and freedom) will change when he does,he doesn’t think our friendship/relationship will change,or at least he hopes it doesn’t ! But who knows ?
So for the time being,all we can deal with is what we can control. It’s no point worrying about something down the track that may or may not happen.
So,to summarise,if we weren’t both in prior relationships,yes,we wouldn’t be opposed to a relationship together. However,we are both in prior relationships and are happy with that and don’t wish to change. We don’t know what the future may hold,but expect the current situation to continue. So we can only enjoy what we have at present,for all it’s worth ! And we are,and we’re happy and very comfortable in our current arrangement !
We all love each other in our own particular way,and that’s a beautiful thing ! The sex with my beautiful black lover is euphoric and heavenly,and my relationship with my hubby is beautiful,very loving very special ! I wouldn’t change a thing !
Aren’t I greedy ! Lol But I’m honest and true to the 2 beautiful men in my life ! Thanks. xxx
 
The first time I went to Hedonism in Negril Jamaica, I noticed a lot of American, Canadian, and European white women have fuck buddies over there. During a conversation with a white couple one night the wife narrated how they live in conservative America and they come to Jamaica specifically for "black cock." I was just taking it all in that this white woman loved to fuck black men....but could only do it in another country. We live in a fucked up society where you can lust after a type of person, but only involve yourselves wit them for sex only, nothing more.
 
The first time I went to Hedonism in Negril Jamaica, I noticed a lot of American, Canadian, and European white women have fuck buddies over there. During a conversation with a white couple one night the wife narrated how they live in conservative America and they come to Jamaica specifically for "black cock." I was just taking it all in that this white woman loved to fuck black men....but could only do it in another country. We live in a fucked up society where you can lust after a type of person, but only involve yourselves wit them for sex only, nothing more.
There are lots of lifestyle(swinging) folk who only play where they're out of town.
 
Unless this is a one-night stand, naturally it's all about relationship. Good sex comes only when you can relax. And I can relax only with a person I trust and enjoy to be with. Yes, my interest goes well beyond sex.
This right here. If there is no personal connection, what's the point?
 
Here's a question for black men. If you know without a doubt that the white woman you're considering fucking only wants sex and would never consider a relationship with you, do you still want to fuck her? There's no right answer- I'm sure many men have a different opinion on this. Just curious to hear what you all have to say.
Hell no. That's why I dont watch porn with certain pornstars. I think Alexis Texas is fine as fuck... but she only has sex on camera with non black men... ok now I dont watch her scenes.... even worse is that it seems she does like black men in real life!!!
 
Hell no. That's why I dont watch porn with certain pornstars. I think Alexis Texas is fine as fuck... but she only has sex on camera with non black men... ok now I dont watch her scenes.... even worse is that it seems she does like black men in real life!!!
I was watching the documentary "After Porn 2.0" last night and Lisa Ann was on there and she was talking about how some porn starlets are led to believe if they fuck a black dude on camera it would hurt their marketability and she said it actually increased hers
 
I was watching the documentary "After Porn 2.0" last night and Lisa Ann was on there and she was talking about how some porn starlets are led to believe if they fuck a black dude on camera it would hurt their marketability and she said it actually increased hers
Ya I've heard this also
 
When black men are referred to as "Bulls" or a "BBC" it dehumanizes them. It reduces them to a piece of meat only good for providing sexual satisfaction. So often you see that people are looking someone with "a minimum of 9 inches" or some other crazy number- you never see someone on here say that they are looking for "a black man who's into jazz, likes french cuisine and enjoys cycling and laying on the beach."

To be fair a lot of the black men on this site seem to only be looking to get laid too.

In the real world outside of this website there are plenty of white women who are in relationships with black men and it has nothing to do with sex. They're in those relationships for the same reasons people are in relationships with people of their own race; shared interests, physical attraction, love, etc. It's a completely different world in online kink websites. People aren't looking for relationships. They're looking to get off. If you want a relationship try Match.com.
Without all the complexities, prejudices, idiosyncrasies or indifferent realities, this site is devoted to getting people with interracial fetishes of like minds laid. It would be wonderful if the acts performed by the members here, or any other sexually orientated venue would lead to a better utopian society in the world. Perhaps marginally it has. However, in retrospect the old social mores are confirmed, as you see by comments made here. It is the pleasure of being a women with provocative and erotic desires and that of a Black man who satisfy those desires and thus himself as well. It is without question, important to be keenly aware, when the deed is done and the reason why we're here start to fade; the social mores will return; if you did nothing Blackman except Fuck.
 
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