I am going to be perfectly honest. I have never been in a relationship with anything other than a black woman. However the best sex I have had in my life is with white women (redheads rock). I was wondering with al thats going on here, while the desire to fuck black men is there, could it go beyond that for you? I was at Hedonism a few years back and I was chatting with the wife of a couple. She said she has always loved to have sex with black men as far back as she could remember but she never considered being in a relationship with one. I found that ODD. Any thoughts?
What an interesting thread - thank you !
In our situation,in Melbourne Australia,this is how it is :
I’ve been with my hubby for quite a number of years now. We have a very happy,close loving relationship that is never in question. I’m an older mature woman in her early 60’s (don’t remind me ! Lol).
In deciding to maybe slice up our already fun sex life,we both decided that my hubby would introduce me to bbc sex with respectful black gentlemen who was clean and d&d free,with whom we got to know. The social aspect was as important as the sexual aspect. I had to get to know the man,find a connection on a number of levels,feel comfortable, safe,respected and engaged,and see that this man was on the “same page” as me,before sex together took place.
Having enjoyed sex with a number of black gentlemen over the left half a dozen years or so,we found I was particularly attracted to a lovely guy from Ghana in West Africa. We all got on very well together socially,and the sex with him was fabulous. I’ve always loved cock,and sex,and my hubby was very happy to see me fucking other guys,they just happened to be black. He became a Stag, supporting and encouraging me to enjoy all the bbc I needed and desired. We seemed to be seeing this one guy in particular,and it soon became evident that he was become my black lover.
It was an all encompassing friendship between all 3 of us. We enjoyed one another’s company,in and out of the bedroom. We did things together socially and sexually,in public and in private. My hubby is my hubby,and my black lover is my black lover. We were all happy with this situation.
My black lover has a wife and 3 children back over in Ghana. He lives,works and studies over here with his siblings in Melbourne. He doesn’t have sex, except with me. I only have sex with him,and occasionally with my hubby. That suits all of us. My black lover’s wife back in Ghana knows about me and is happy for her husband to enjoy sex with a white female lover here in Melbourne.
She knows his need for regular sex - these black men have a huge stamina for sex and a copious amount of spunk they have on offer. I can accommodate his sexual needs,and we can offer him the social interaction and warm friendship he was seeking.
He doesn’t want a relationship,and nor do I. We both have that with our other partners ! We’re perfectly happy with our situation. If our situation was different,who knows what it would be like. Neither of us would be adverse to enjoying a relationship together. We’d be very happy being in a relationship together. He like *******,and wants more. He tells me his black seed is very potent ! Whilst I was very fertile and could easily get pregnant when I was much younger,I’m now obviously no longer fertile and able to bear children. That could be a “sticking point” if we were both single and contemplating a relationship. But we’re not.
He’s aiming to hopefully bring his family out here in the next few years,and although his situation (and freedom) will change when he does,he doesn’t think our friendship/relationship will change,or at least he hopes it doesn’t ! But who knows ?
So for the time being,all we can deal with is what we can control. It’s no point worrying about something down the track that may or may not happen.
So,to summarise,if we weren’t both in prior relationships,yes,we wouldn’t be opposed to a relationship together. However,we are both in prior relationships and are happy with that and don’t wish to change. We don’t know what the future may hold,but expect the current situation to continue. So we can only enjoy what we have at present,for all it’s worth ! And we are,and we’re happy and very comfortable in our current arrangement !
We all love each other in our own particular way,and that’s a beautiful thing ! The sex with my beautiful black lover is euphoric and heavenly,and my relationship with my hubby is beautiful,very loving very special ! I wouldn’t change a thing !
Aren’t I greedy ! Lol But I’m honest and true to the 2 beautiful men in my life ! Thanks. xxx