The women I meet in the lifestyle(swinging/hotwifeing) are almost (95% of them) all married or have a significant other, thus they're not looking for a realtionship with me nor I with them.
Does your interest in black men go past sex?
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The women I meet in the lifestyle(swinging/hotwifeing) are almost (95% of them) all married or have a significant other, thus they're not looking for a realtionship with me nor I with them.
Ok, seems like everyone is having fun with this topic. My husband, now cuck, wanted (begged) for me to "try this lifestyle". His basic idea was for us to meet and have sex with any Negro male for fun. I told him that I could not do anything with anyone I was not attracted to but I was finally ready to try, mostly to make him happy. So he set out to find men that I might be attracted to. A little over a year later we had actually hooked up with four guys and number 4 was it for me. Handsome, smart, interesting and well endowed. Nine months later I love him, and my husband. Hoping he will move in with us so we can all be together. My answer is YES, I only want to have sex with men that I am interested in having a relationship with.
"Negro" ? Did this happen in the 1950's? LOL.
Yeah, that was the point that I was trying to make... lol.
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Ummmm, huh?
i do not know where you got your psych degree from but your points are right on. Seems like you didnt miss to many classes
niknik
Female
I must live in a bubble, because I personally have never had a relationship that was not a black man. It is my personal preference, it is driven solely by attraction and mutual respect, not some fantasy. Yes I was brought into the lifestyle very young, and yes I still live in the life, but my relationship is very real, loving, and committed. It is odd to me that women would want to fuck a man just because he is black. Don't get me wrong I could see the appeal for those who are curious, but what happened to actually getting to know someone. Dicks come in all shapes and sizes, but the measure of a man is not in his cock. Read some of my posts, I am as real as they get, and can be the most submissive slut on the planet, or a complete whore if that is what my "daddy" wants from me, but outside the bedroom I am a women who finds no shame is my sexual or life choices. All the people on this site living a fantasy, reality is always better than fantasy.
Dixonyalips: Jamaica is a beautiful place, with the most loving people I just fell in love with it. I did not see it as poverty, but more so a simpler life, that spoiled Americans can not always appreciate. I too would move there in a split second.
Dixonyalips: Jamaica is a beautiful place, with the most loving people I just fell in love with it. I did not see it as poverty, but more so a simpler life, that spoiled Americans can not always appreciate. I too would move there in a split second.
MarriedWhite
Couple
NO, not at all. There is quite a difference between being in LIKE with someone and being in LOVE with him. My wife would never have sex with someone she didn't like. Like is necessary for her
niknik
Female
Dixonyalips: You have just not found the right women yet.
kay461962
Female
Maybe a night out to have fun, dinner, dancing etc
I posted a thread a long time ago, that in what little I have seen, there are two "types", with a lot of people somewhere along the line.
One type was the typical suburban wife, married a white guy, never dated a black guy. Got interested in this, tried it, and enjoyed the sex. Still loves her husband, but loves what the black guy can do that the husband cannot.
The other type was somewhat like you. Grew up dating black guys. Has dated few or no white guys. Doesn't see the appeal of having a white, conventional husband and a black guy (or guys) on the side for just the sex.
Many women are somewhere along the line, not purely one type or the other.
Unless this is a one-night stand, naturally it's all about relationship. Good sex comes only when you can relax. And I can relax only with a person I trust and enjoy to be with. Yes, my interest goes well beyond sex.
Smart answers all throughout this thread.
My 2 cents. My wife only dated white guys prior to us getting married when she was 23 back in 1984, and she dated quite a few guys. But I know damn well had society not dictated that "good" little white girls do not date outside their race she would have dated a black guy at some point. I met her at Charleston AFB and she was a single young thing, and cute as hell, with guys chasing her and she was outgoing and promiscuous. She actually came close to sleeping with a black guy she met at the NCO club but found a way to back out because people might have found out.
I'm not naive to think she could not have liked a black guy.
There are many issues here. First of all, many European women may be curious about the myth of black masculinity and want to try, but even if the sexual experience is very satisfactory their criteria for a life partner are based on feelings or even mundane factors such as educational levels and social status. Secondly, being in vacations in a foreign country, these ladies can develop a promiscuous behavior that in their own countries would bring social backlash. Moreover, it seems that whiteness is an added female value in many non European countries, so a mature or unattractive woman can be suscessful among young and atletic black/brown guys, something that don't happen in her own country.
Finally, although it is politically incorrect to say, many interracial couples between people of different countries are seen as a relationship of convenience to obtain a European passport or financial security. At least in my country, any mature man married to a Cuban (or a Russian or Ukrainian) is automatically considered someone who has used his nationality or bank account to 'seduce' his partner.
On the other hand, there are also black guys trying to use the BBC myth in their own profit. There are men from touristic countries that know female foreign visitors are easier targets in sexual terms and take advantage of it. And there are ceirtainly a lot of guys from Latin America and Africa eager to get a European pussy, despising their own women. In general, I think sex tourism is a phenomenom rooted in economic inequality and a way to escape from social sex norms, and it is related with other factors that have little to do with race.
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I agree with you.
Having my wife fall in love with her last Black lover was the best thing that ever happened to us at the time.
I understand it's not for everybody and accept that totally.
But for me it worked and, obviously for my wife and her BF it did too for a number of years.
As a mature white woman who enjoys with oral sex, this parragraph is funny to read, as previously you have described my profile of person as "White MILF Porn star". I don't know why labels such as "BBC" are dehumanizing and these others are not.
Well, actually I do know it: because are not used to describe you.
stayjaymac
Male
How is it strange? It is life. The black man (and woman for that matter) is sexualized AND otherized. Created taboo. Taboo=hot. Hot is for sex not relationships. Not to mention you yourself said you'd only been in relationships with black women so you obviously understand the dichotomy.
stayjaymac
Male
This thread is weird and a little bit pitiable as it speaks to the true underlying desire that many black men have getting into these relationships. That desire is not to be satisfied providing sexual services. In fact it helps to contribute to the opposite if the goal is to be taken seriously as a human being outside of the bedroom. All that servile black dick is gonna blend together.
Half the men i was in a relationship were black
I don't recall having a conversation with you. Wrong person
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