Simple.... a mutual respect for the husband allowing me to play with his wife in his presence while, developing a trusting relationship that yeild incredible long-term benefits as indicated after 25-years in the Lifestyle.Might I ask why? Since I Arrange dates for a number of ladies (not my wife as I am a widower). For some ladies I am there for company while waiting for their date to arrive and again after the date has left. Others like to have someone to witness their date, this include being outside the room and listening to them.
One of the guys wants me there as it is a turn on for him.