if you submit to a woman you may have no choiceDefinitely won't like that.
if you submit to a woman you may have no choiceDefinitely won't like that.
i know and agree i am just being provocative. people are all different and often the submissive controlsJoke symptoms aside, this notion that you can't enjoy having your ass played with, without suddenly becoming a cross-dressing hull of your former self, completely overcome by gender dysphoria, is extremely silly. I've been with women who truly enjoy exploring a man's ass and the pleasure that stimulation of the prostate can bring. For them it's not even a power/domination thing. It's truly about opening one's mind up to appreciating your own body and the pleasures you can experience. I've had some very intimate sexual encounters that involved male anal and prostate play, and felt 100% straight and about mutual pleasure and satisfaction. I loved it, but apart from daydreaming about doing it again some time, no, it didn't somehow permanently alter who I am.
I love femdom play and can certainly get down with power exchange, role reversal, even some degradation/humiliation play. I love being submissive to my wife, I am proud and grateful to be her cuck, and I don't care what labels people want to slap on me in their minds because of the things we choose to do. I try to leave room for everyone's kinks and fantasies to be realized without too much judgment. But I have to say, I find it increasingly off-putting to read people talking about how no submissive, cuckold, or bisexual male could be a "real man," or some ******* about how all white hubbies should dress like little girls, stop having sex with their wives forever, and embrace being called a sissy or worse. It's cool if that's what YOU want to do, but why does this particular fantasy always have to be projected on others? Isn't it bad enough that most of society misunderstands all of this? Do we really have to perpetuate the stereotypes of worthlessness and self-loathing?
I'm willing to wager that my wife and I are deeper into femdom and cuckold play than the vast majority of people out there, and yet I'm still a functioning member of society, and a guy who doesn't hate himself. I don't draw any judgmental attention or raised eyebrows at work, and I'm still a masculine ******* figure to my children. I haven't magically become gay, or decided I better start hormone therapy. I've had play sessions where I felt more submissive afterward, because that was the intention from the beginning, but I've also had sessions where I bellowed like a lumberjack and roared like a lion and took some lady's hand or rubber cock in my ass like I owned it. I've put my butt up for a woman and said I was her bitch, but a couple of times I've also held another woman down and ridden her strap-on like a rodeo cowboy until I squirted on her tits. I've never thought that either approach is what everyone else should do, or worried that the things I've tried are going to be the ruin of all straight, masculine mankind.
Being submissive is a state of mind. It doesn't make you a weak or effeminate person, it just means you want someone else to be in control. It doesn't require that you're unsure of your sexuality or that you suddenly crave same-sex encounters. Similarly, being bisexual or gay doesn't automatically make you submissive. And neither of the above is caused by butt play, nor are they required in order to enjoy butt play. You can be any combination of these things, and more power to you for embracing your preferences. But no, you don't have to become someone else just because you let someone stuff a toy up your ass. You always have the option of just enjoying it and not being ashamed of yourself.
Joke symptoms aside, this notion that you can't enjoy having your ass played with, without suddenly becoming a cross-dressing hull of your former self, completely overcome by gender dysphoria, is extremely silly. I've been with women who truly enjoy exploring a man's ass and the pleasure that stimulation of the prostate can bring. For them it's not even a power/domination thing. It's truly about opening one's mind up to appreciating your own body and the pleasures you can experience. I've had some very intimate sexual encounters that involved having a woman play with my ass and prostate, and felt 100% straight afterward. It was about mutual pleasure and satisfaction. I loved it, but apart from daydreaming about doing it again some time, no, it didn't somehow permanently alter who I am.
I love femdom play and can certainly get down with power exchange, role reversal, even some degradation/humiliation play. I love being submissive to my wife, I am proud and grateful to be her cuck, and I don't care what labels people want to slap on me in their minds because of the things we choose to do in our own bedroom. I try to leave room for everyone's kinks and fantasies to be realized without too much judgment. But I have to say, I find it increasingly off-putting to read people talking about how no submissive, cuckold, or bisexual male could be a "real man," or some ******* about how all white hubbies should dress like little girls, stop having sex with their wives forever, and embrace being called a sissy or worse. It's cool if that's what YOU want to do, but why does this particular fantasy always have to be projected on others? Isn't it bad enough that most of society misunderstands all of this? Do we really have to perpetuate the stereotypes of sexual identity disorders, worthlessness and self-loathing?
I'm willing to wager that my wife and I are deeper into femdom and cuckold play than the vast majority of people out there, and yet I'm still a functioning member of society, and a guy who doesn't hate himself or being a man. I don't draw any judgmental attention or raised eyebrows at work, and I'm still a masculine ******* figure to my children. I haven't magically become gay, or decided I better start hormone therapy. I've had play sessions where I felt more submissive afterward, because that was the intention from the beginning, but I've also had sessions where I bellowed like a lumberjack or roared like a lion, and took some lady's hand or rubber cock in my ass like I owned it. I've put my butt up for a woman and said I was her bitch, but a couple of times I've also held another woman down and ridden her strap-on like a rodeo cowboy until I squirted on her tits. I've never thought that either approach is what everyone else should do, or worried that the things I've tried are going to be the ruin of all straight, masculine mankind.
Being submissive is a state of mind. It doesn't make you a weak or effeminate person, it just means you want someone else to be in control. It doesn't require that you're unsure of your sexuality or that you suddenly crave same-sex encounters. Similarly, being bisexual or gay doesn't automatically make you submissive. And neither of the above is caused by butt play, nor are they required in order to enjoy butt play. You can be any combination of these things, and more power to you for embracing your preferences. But no, you don't have to become someone else just because you let someone stuff a toy up your ass. You always have the option of just enjoying it and not being ashamed of yourself.
Yes. There are different kinds of men / persons. I met a woman who would never fulfill her promises re sex. She was pegging and conditioning me all the time and had me taken by surprise by one of her friends in a moresome and infront of other ladies. That was rock bottom and I broke with her.i know and agree i am just being provocative. people are all different and often the submissive controls
You got a good wife that worries for you! congratulatios!In my case, I was a cuck before the pegging started started. But she volunteered to finger me before marrying as I had an injury preventing me from getting hard.
You had an alpha role in your marriage? If so, and this is what your life looks like now, I highly doubt pegging was the single activity you can trace it all back to.It's her taking your alpha role in the marriage away and shoving it up your ass. Her girl friends that know I'm a cuck peg me on cocktail nights at our house.
I'm always amused by the self professed experts on here and their convictions in their own definitions being the only definitions. This is not a one size fits all lifestyle. Stop judging and analyzing and just stay in your lane.You had an alpha role in your marriage? If so, and this is what your life looks like now, I highly doubt pegging was the single activity you can trace it all back to.
If what you say is true, that your wife's friends come over and take turns pegging you, that's hot as fuck. Could you introduce them to my wife please? But if anything about it is degrading, that's because you're a beta. I enjoy some nice femdom, submission, subjugation, power inversions, role reversal, and humiliation play too, but that's WHY I like a rough pegging from a dominant woman. It's the affect, not the cause.
I believe there have been virtually zero cases where a strong, masculine, alpha man was like, "you know what, baby? I want to try something different tonight. Since you're done with the dishes and putting away the laundry, I want you fetch your favorite dildo, strap it to you waist, and ram that sucker up my ass," and later found himself getting gang fucked by his wife's book club, wondering why he ever decided to let her try it. That's not how it works, and I think everyone here knows it.
If you like butt play, awesome! Play with your butt! It feels great! If you're beta, cool! Get someone to take the lead and bang the hell out of you. If you're submissive, awesome! Find somebody that likes giving orders and enjoys service and worship. None of that is anything to be ashamed of. But the ******* you decide to try doesn't change who you are. It appeals to you BECAUSE of who you are.
I almost couldn't tell if you were directing that at me or agreeing with me. I'm definitely not a self-professed expert on this (or anything) and when I join conversations like this one, my point is almost always that there are a million ways to do this stuff and none of them is the right or wrong way.I'm always amused by the self professed experts on here and their convictions in their own definitions being the only definitions. This is not a one size fits all lifestyle. Stop judging and analyzing and just stay in your lane.
Perhaps that is what it was like for you, but that's not what you said. You said it "absolutely changes you," and went on to describe what it means – shoving your alpha role in the marriage up your ass – and how "there's no going back," as if there's no other possible outcome. To me THAT is the kind of response that borders on "self proclaimed experts" indicating a one-size-fits-all outcome to the hypothetical scenario being discussed.It absolutely changes you.
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Having your wife peg you is giving up your manhood completely. There is no going back from that. It has nothing to do with her fucking other men. It's her taking your alpha role in the marriage away and shoving it up your ass.
Very true, take away a man’s penetration of a female will turn into a sissy! My wife started pegging me in a regular basis and her bull also fucks my ass. I have learned to love it as the cum just starts leaking out of my tiny dick while they hammer away at my ass. I’ve also started to wear panties with our bull…..once a woman starts putting things up your ass it changes the relationship because it makes you submissive and she starts seeing you in a different way. If a woman wants to cuck her man she should start by making him cum from anal stimulation
you are gonna love it....and it wll change u bothIve never tried pegging him and so when mine and hubbys bfs cant come over for whatever reason and im in a horny mood he just eats me out at the moment. Hubby obviously isnt allowed to put his dick inside me but I feel like me pegging him would be a great alternative and let us have some penetrative sex still. I have no idea how to go about pegging him though so ill be keeping my eye on this thread for advice lol!
my girl cums like crazy while she pegs me....there is a huge power element to it which really gets her going too..and she gets all her dick from her sexy black bull, zero from me, but knowng how much i love taking her dick she makes sure to fill me full of her cock2-3 tmes a dayI can't imagine that taking a peg up your ass doesn't change you... by a lot. In addition to surrendering the bulk of your manhood to you wife's black lovers, you then lose the rest of it by getting humped like a girl. My question is, what does your wife get out of fucking you v. you fucking her. Does she cum when humping? Or is it just a domination thing?
Is he hard while you pound him?Hubby has been open to trying, started with a plug but can get an 8" toy in now. Has never cum from it, any advice?
Exactly what happened to my husbandVery true, take away a man’s penetration of a female will turn into a sissy! My wife started pegging me in a regular basis and her bull also fucks my ass. I have learned to love it as the cum just starts leaking out of my tiny dick while they hammer away at my ass. I’ve also started to wear panties with our bull…..