Does a bull need a large cock to truly be considered "a bull"?

The way I see it... no, a man does not need to have a huge dick to be considered a bull. While I love dick in my mouth and pussy, I don't make love to his dick. I make love to him. The person. He makes me cum. Not his dick. My lips suck on his cock, but I give HIM the blow job. My definition of a bull is a black man who runs the show. Has major swag and confidence, both in and out of bed. A man who talks dirty, and makes me submit to his power... allowing me to feel emotionally close to him... trusting him in the moment, giving myself fully to him... until I cum on his dick and he cums in my pussy.
 
Well if he makes you moan and groan and it hurts so good and he makes you cum every time then the Guy is a Bull Having a large BBC and knowing how to use it to get the results you both want then everybody should be happy

in my humble opinion from one bull to another

Would you agree ladies
 
Nothing to do with size IMHO it is to do with the females feelings, if she is prepared to be dominated and the guy dominates her, he is a Bull, If the girl wants to meet him on and equal basis then he is a lover. Same applies to the girls partner.

KimiXXXX
 
Some of the comments in this tread remind me of a joke I heard a few years ago. During a hot July evening, a man decides to go to his neighbor bar for a cold beer and to engage in guy talk with the bartender. Their conversation is going strong when the bartender stops and is staring at the entrance door. The man realizes that the bar is completely silent. He turns to look at the entrance door. Coming thru the door is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. Shoulder length blond hair, green eyes, full red lips and a peaches and cream skin tone. The man estimates the woman's figure to be 39D-24-35; all encased in a tight, red mini-dress which is backless and cut low in the front. Her shapely legs are clad in black nylons; a pair of 3" black high heels complete the picture. The woman walks up to the other side of the bar and orders a *******. The man leers at the woman while he decides should I put a move on her. The man decides that such a beauty would never go for an average looking guy like him. The woman crosses her legs, and the man gets a glance at a hot-looking pussy with a small runway of blond hair. He decides to make his move; figuring nothing ventured/nothing gained. He tells the bartender to serve the woman a bottle of his most expensive champagne. The woman smiles at the man and invites him to take the stool next to hers. They make small talk for awhile, until the man decides to make his move. He tells the woman that she has got to be the most beautiful woman in the world. That the only way he can show his admiration for her is to invite her to his apartment where he intends to make passionate love to her all night, giving her orgasm after orgasm. The woman eyes up the man and tells him that she finds him to be attractive and that she is super horny at the time. However, the woman tells him that she only has sex with guys whose cocks are 12" in length. The man grows silent and starts staring at his *******. The woman puts her hand on his shoulder and tells him: "There, there. Don't be ashamed; there are few men whose erection can meet my 12" rule". The man replies: "No, No, I am not ashamed. I am just trying to decide if you are worth it for me to cut off 3".
 
Don't have to be huge no. For me to share my wife though they must be big . Reason being is the visual side of it for the husband. Needs to be something special .
 
I would prefer them to be large. My husband is no slouch so if they are bigger than him thats a great bonus and an in with me.
 
I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
Great question. For my last relationship the only rule I had was the bull had to be bigger than me. If he's not wtf the point. I'm 7-7.5" so 8+ seemed perfect. But after the ex wife's research we changed it to 9+". The average penis is 5.5" hard where we live. Being my 7-7.5' puts me in the top 20% of men. So if we lined up 100 men statistically I got 80 beat, and I'll be on the lower end of the 80's.

But if your 9"+ your in the top 2% of men. So line up 100 men, and they have 98 beat statistically. Now mathematically that sounds like a bull to me.

Personally I clown "Bulls" with average dicks. So many 7"BBC's SMH. I've literally put my cock under a 7" BBC so you could see I was longer and fatter. At first he thought I was trying to play with both at once. But then he saw, and when his shoulders shrunk I said, "your not supposed to call this a BBC"

This brings me to the whole why tf are we here?
I know why I'm here, and here's how I got here which I think is important.

This goes to answer your original question in a different way, and from real life experience. My ex wanted to be with a girl, and she wanted to be top. So we bought a strap on, and the standard piece was like 6", and she couldn't keep it in a girl. So we got a thick 10" that was for the harness, and had a suction cup.

After we started playing with the 10" on her there was a change. Eventually we used it on her everyday. That's when she first couldn't feel me during sex. She told me crying that since she had that toy, and came harder than ever before she really wants to try a real 10+". She knew I was ok with that stuff already.

She had a BBC that was 13". All he had to do was ease it in slowly, and when he couldn't go any further. She had the most intense trembling orgasm Ive ever seen, and she cremed all over. They did that like 7 times before she could take him, and the sex started.

That first orgasm that took him 10-30 seconds to achieve. I had listened to what she said she liked, used toys she choose, and put in hella effort for years. I had never made her creme, or tremble like that, period.

So from my experience we are here because on a scale of 1-10 highest. Some guys can give a level 6 orgasm at most. And that's pedal to the metal, all money in, all tricks played because that's his max. Others are where they fall. But a bull should be a 10.

If your bull isn't giving you orgasms so intense you don't say stupid ******* both my exes said independently. "I didn't know you could really cum like that, I thought all pornwas faking." And the classic, "I finally get Madonna's like a virgin" it's time to find the right bull, or communicate
-wants
-needs
-desires
To see what's off, and what direction to go from there
 
Don't have to be huge no. For me to share my wife though they must be big . Reason being is the visual side of it for the husband. Needs to be something special .
With all due respect I got a few questions if you don't mind.
-what's the biggest you have ever had?
-if you had a orgasm scale 1-10 highest what level was your highest?
-finally how many orgasms is the most you have had at one time?
 
I think like anything else, if the woman is pleased by another man that's all that matters. the 'Bull' is the reserve that comes in and gives her what she doesn't normally get in my opinion. Having larger equipment doesn't hurt, but it all depends on what the lady wants.
So by that reasoning if the wife desired a feminine lesbian, would the feminine lesbian be a bull?
 
I’m sure it varies for every couple and one size doesn’t fit all. For us, the guy has to be bigger than I am to be considered unless there is an extreme attraction on the Mrs’ behalf then the rules can be bent. She typically seeks out guys who are taller, better endowed and in better shape than I am.
 
The defining aspect of a cuck / bull relationship is all in the mind. It's about one party's assertion of their place, and the other's submission.

A large cock is a nice bonus and there are certainly some women that prefer a certain size, but I wouldn't consider it a requirement.
 
Mental strength is required in order to be a bull, to me.
It is about mental and sexual dominance.

Having a bigger size than the husband makes more sense, fits better dominance-wise, but not a requirement.

As for me, the husband belongs under my feet. That is his place. He should know his place
 
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