Does a bull need a large cock to truly be considered "a bull"?

CammieCummz

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I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
 
I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
Good topic. A bull is a state of mind. Size of your dick don’t make pussy cum. It’s stamina. A dude can be large but dick is a dud. It’s about doing the freaky ******* she don’t get at home. Turning her ass out. I love asking a woman what she will and won’t do with me in a FWB situation. After a few meets she doing what she said she wouldn’t do to me. That’s turning her ass out.
 
Good topic. A bull is a state of mind. Size of your dick don’t make pussy cum. It’s stamina. A dude can be large but dick is a dud. It’s about doing the freaky ******* she don’t get at home. Turning her ass out. I love asking a woman what she will and won’t do with me in a FWB situation. After a few meets she doing what she said she wouldn’t do to me. That’s turning her ass out.
you re right
 
I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
It depends how a man carries & values himself. A man who’s comfortable in their own masculine and feminine energies can get far in life, especially with women he wants to hook up with 💯.
 
a bull is a male cow that still has it's balls elsewise it is a steer but in most cases they are kept in a stall and used for breeding lol. We never called men bulls or bbc because they are people and often become friends. Thing with sex if you have it often enough with the same person it will vary from ho hum to awesum regardless of anything
 
A lot of ppl are still on fantasy sex. Fetishes which is good. I still feel some white couples/females look at the blk male as a piece of meat for pleasure. As a black man I’m not afraid to say around homeboys, blk homegirls I would fuck tht white girl or I would join tht couple. Most white women aren’t on tht level with letting others know about letting a black man fuck.
 
I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
Im a white guy and prettys ure u are partly correct, as my body ****** me to become partly bull after I progressed immensely far beyond most people in strength in body and mind and endurance..
I literally started digging myself far into lightly rude women completely destroying their resistance and it was ******..
Nature herself ****** me to become a human bull, and I have fought against myself the last 2 years bcause of it.

I am not world class elite, but I am far above average in strength physically.. 200 kg deadlifts 100 pushups etc.. which is alot for a guy weighing 90 kg..
I know the rock barely did 80 pushups once.

Also down on 10 minutes in 3 km running.. 40 minutes 10 km, fit to run quite fast marathons while also being far above average physically in weightlifting did something to my body..
I started aggressively destroying all my insecurity within as I found no reason to be insecure anymore and a huge monster started controlling me from within.
As I saw these puny women and men I so obviously could see I literally could throw 20 meters across the room if I chose to do so..

So SEX as a BULL became the only NICE way to be..

I also started getting much bigger orgasms after I reached the 80 pushup mark and 10 km 40 minute mark.. and lots of other physical achievements..

I am grateful that a few africans still has the abillity to make me feel slightly weak..
And of course some white guys too.

Dont underestimate the uncalled confidence you get when u literally reach ur goals..
U may very well lose all ur friends, maybe positive maybe not.
In my case I started getting self destructive also because I missed the feeling of inferiority.
which is why I am here on this site.
Pretty sure I could beat 80% of all the bulls on this site's ass.
 
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For us it’s the satisfaction that her BBC’s much bigger cock gives her, stretching her pussy both in width and length giving her multiple orgasm’s every time they fuck.
For me it’s seeing his black cock entering her cunt then fucking her deep and hard . It’s like a ******* with the colour contrast.
So for me as long as his black cock is bigger than my little white cock then I’m happy
 
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A lot of ppl are still on fantasy sex. Fetishes which is good. I still feel some white couples/females look at the blk male as a piece of meat for pleasure. As a black man I’m not afraid to say around homeboys, blk homegirls I would fuck tht white girl or I would join tht couple. Most white women aren’t on tht level with letting others know about letting a black man fuck.
That’s a lot of assumption there.
 
I was just thinking - what make a man "a bull"? I mean obviously theres sex involved but a man who you fuck (on the side) could just be a lover, fwb or fuck boy. And it seems there has to be some dominant personality traits where you dont become his teacher or worse: his mommy.

But then I was thinking of the physical and that a man doesnt need to look like a NFL player in order to be a bull. Nor does he need to be tall or even in shape. But what about his penis size? Can an average dick get you into the bull club?

A guy could be dominant, built like a god, great looking, great chemistry BUT if his dick is only average (even if it makes you orgasm) is he a bull or just a lover? And if you're married and your bull is no bigger than you're hubby, then what?

In my (pornstar slut) mind being labeled a bull is like an elite status - something you only get if you can check off a few boxes that separate you from the masses (like a professional sports player vs other people who play sports)

What r ur thoughts?
Very cool thread.

Ive been a bull for many couples. And you can also be a Bull fo single women too.
Being a Bull means a few things
1. You understand your role - The only reason to be a bull is for sexual pleasure. Not your own, but the woman's sexual pleasure
2. You have technique - if all you bring to the table is jackhammer, you are not a bull. Learn how to please a woman sexually and you can start to consider yourself in this category
3. You know how to seduce - in my experience, women who seek Bull's for sex want an experience they will remember. Meeting men, or having sex with a man is just normal. No big deal, but having sex with a bull is an experience, that's why finding a real bull is not as common and something to covet.
4. No BS - This is advice for both Bulls and Women. Guys, if you want to be a Bull, stop being a pain in the ass. There are protocols you need to follow and once you learn them, stick to them. Don't go off script. Women, think of Bulls like vampires. We need your invitation to engage. A real bull knows that a woman's body and her being should be respected and cared for, so we won't cross that "line" unless you invite us to cross that line. But once you do, you need to be open to just leaning in to the situation. There is nothing wrong with telling a Bull your limits, your boundaries and what you feel comfortable doing. A good bull listens and will make sure that he does not cross those boundary lines, but you need to communicate those to him. A Bull is there for one reason and one reason only, to give you sexual pleasure. Treat it like the relationship it needs to be.

For me, I prefer ongoing relationships with women. I dont like one night stands. I think there are Bulls out there that do very well with one night stand situations, but for me, I prefer to have regular partners and relationships with women.
 
As far as kink and how it always went “A bull would be the -Upgrade- to what the husband doesn’t have” but would generally still be a playmate. Size may be a factor but that’s probably just due to the “upgrade” part. When all races can be a bull to begin with size now doesn’t bear any regards to the kink.
 
Very cool thread.

Ive been a bull for many couples. And you can also be a Bull fo single women too.
Being a Bull means a few things
1. You understand your role - The only reason to be a bull is for sexual pleasure. Not your own, but the woman's sexual pleasure
2. You have technique - if all you bring to the table is jackhammer, you are not a bull. Learn how to please a woman sexually and you can start to consider yourself in this category
3. You know how to seduce - in my experience, women who seek Bull's for sex want an experience they will remember. Meeting men, or having sex with a man is just normal. No big deal, but having sex with a bull is an experience, that's why finding a real bull is not as common and something to covet.
4. No BS - This is advice for both Bulls and Women. Guys, if you want to be a Bull, stop being a pain in the ass. There are protocols you need to follow and once you learn them, stick to them. Don't go off script. Women, think of Bulls like vampires. We need your invitation to engage. A real bull knows that a woman's body and her being should be respected and cared for, so we won't cross that "line" unless you invite us to cross that line. But once you do, you need to be open to just leaning in to the situation. There is nothing wrong with telling a Bull your limits, your boundaries and what you feel comfortable doing. A good bull listens and will make sure that he does not cross those boundary lines, but you need to communicate those to him. A Bull is there for one reason and one reason only, to give you sexual pleasure. Treat it like the relationship it needs to be.

For me, I prefer ongoing relationships with women. I dont like one night stands. I think there are Bulls out there that do very well with one night stand situations, but for me, I prefer to have regular partners and relationships with women.
I like it
 
A big cock isn't necessary but it is an asset if properly wielded. I think to be defined as a bull a man needs to be dominant but also needs to be aware of his partners limitations and desires. Really great sex is just as much about giving pleasure as it is about getting pleasure. Oral skills are just as important as fucking skills. A real bull should be able to curl his partners toes with is tongue or his cock.
 
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