A Question For The REAL Bulls

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So, I’m trying to figure out if this would be fun to set up in our room at the next IR HOTEL party….and I need honest reaction from the real bulls. We like watching the Czech fantasy gangbang gloryhole videos.

If this set up was done in a hotel room—and you knew what the wife looked like— would you be interested in playing if there was a 5-10 minute time limit? Or would that just be a waste of your time?

I think it would be fun at a large scale event like Splash Mocha where there would be a lot of women, but not sure about with just one wife.
 
So, I’m trying to figure out if this would be fun to set up in our room at the next IR HOTEL party….and I need honest reaction from the real bulls. We like watching the Czech fantasy gangbang gloryhole videos.

If this set up was done in a hotel room—and you knew what the wife looked like— would you be interested in playing if there was a 5-10 minute time limit? Or would that just be a waste of your time?

I think it would be fun at a large scale event like Splash Mocha where there would be a lot of women, but not sure about with just one wife.
I think your post title is really good
This is a good "screening question"
The real bulls will tell you - its a waste of their time.
The wannabe bulls, who can't get laid and are using this lifestyle as a crutch to meet women and get their dick wet will say YES to anything
and then never show up.

But your suggestion to set it up at Splash Mocha is a better idea - because if the bulls are already there - then this might work. Because bulls do like to help women fulfill fantasies and if this is her fantasy - and they are already there - then im sure a lot of the bulls would be very open to it.

But for me - If I have a choice between spending time with a couple that I have an ongoing dynamic with and a woman that wants 5 minutes to suck or fuck me - yea?? I think you see where im going with this.

Real bulls dont need sex opportunities. We already have plenty of options to fuck women. What we are looking for are real dynamics and unique situations. For me, I am a super alpha, so I like full control and a lot of couples in the lifestyle or just swingers so they dont like the D/s element. So I am searching for couples that want more than just sex.
 
As an experienced Bull, I agree with you wholeheartedly on this one. My most recet Hotwife was wonderful. She had everything you could want in a hotwife, but Hubby was very wishywashy. So being around them, was great, but I knew that he'd always have somethinf to say about what happened the time before.

Everytime we would hang out after a night of fun, he'd bring up some new provisions. It became exhausting, and akin to walking on eggshells around him. So I let it go, which I hated to do, because she was great and he was cool. I just couldnt stick around, always wondering what's gonna set him off today.
hey brother!!

sorry to hear that. Yes, its just part of the things we have to deal with, being bulls. And the more experienced you get the more you realize--its best for your own mental health to walk away. Only the toxic men in this lifestyle see you as a "dick" and that alone. That's typically not how women see well endowed men. They like the big dick, but they want much much more than that.

I have become more and more selective as I have gotten older.
My time is more valuable now to me - so couples just can't text me an hour before and think im going to show up.

This website could be used to help so many couples, but I keep seeing the same issue. Not enough beta men on this site are willing to become foot-solders for the bulls. I have trained so many beta guys, along with 2 goddesses, one in Portland and one in DC. But beta men can really get in their own way--and the single ones are the worst.
 
hey brother!!

sorry to hear that. Yes, its just part of the things we have to deal with, being bulls. And the more experienced you get the more you realize--its best for your own mental health to walk away. Only the toxic men in this lifestyle see you as a "dick" and that alone. That's typically not how women see well endowed men. They like the big dick, but they want much much more than that.

I have become more and more selective as I have gotten older.
My time is more valuable now to me - so couples just can't text me an hour before and think im going to show up.

This website could be used to help so many couples, but I keep seeing the same issue. Not enough beta men on this site are willing to become foot-solders for the bulls. I have trained so many beta guys, along with 2 goddesses, one in Portland and one in DC. But beta men can really get in their own way--and the single ones are the worst.

Yes, and again, she was the best. She was very accomodating, quite submissive, and enthusiastic in most anything I introduced. He, was available... Thats about it. He was calm, and laid back, but there was always an issue. New rules each time we went out.

The worst part about this couple in particular, is that I really cared about both of them, and I could tell they genuinely cared about me. Thing is... it just didnt last.

Either way, Im in a new transition in life, and will move forward. Ive been in the lifestyle 20 years, so who knows whats next.
 
Yes, and again, she was the best. She was very accomodating, quite submissive, and enthusiastic in most anything I introduced. He, was available... Thats about it. He was calm, and laid back, but there was always an issue. New rules each time we went out.

The worst part about this couple in particular, is that I really cared about both of them, and I could tell they genuinely cared about me. Thing is... it just didnt last.

Either way, Im in a new transition in life, and will move forward. Ive been in the lifestyle 20 years, so who knows whats next.
Congrats and good luck!!
 
I need at least 5-10 minutes just to kiss a hotwife and put my hands all over her body feelings up her goodies to get her juicy 💧 before I start taking her clothes off and start putting my hands and my mouth all over her again so 5-10 minutes ain't gonna cut it for me!

Now if it's a gangbang then 5-10 minutes each turn is cool. I don't want to mess up the rotation! I can wait my turn in that hotwife pussy!
 
So, I’m trying to figure out if this would be fun to set up in our room at the next IR HOTEL party….and I need honest reaction from the real bulls. We like watching the Czech fantasy gangbang gloryhole videos.

If this set up was done in a hotel room—and you knew what the wife looked like— would you be interested in playing if there was a 5-10 minute time limit? Or would that just be a waste of your time?

I think it would be fun at a large scale event like Splash Mocha where there would be a lot of women, but not sure about with just one wife.
 
I need at least 5-10 minutes just to kiss a hotwife and put my hands all over her body feelings up her goodies to get her juicy 💧 before I start taking her clothes off and start putting my hands and my mouth all over her again so 5-10 minutes ain't gonna cut it for me!

Now if it's a gangbang then 5-10 minutes each turn is cool. I don't want to mess up the rotation! I can wait my turn in that hotwife pussy!
Love your way of doing thing,
 
OUR opinion: if you pre-agree to a particular 10 minute scene, cool. But respect for your bull and for your girl, you want your girl to embrace, relax, worship, absorb, let her hair down with her black lover, yes? Tell them to take all the time they want, her pussy isn't on the timeclock unless, again, it's part of a scene you're having fun with. I keep trying to tell you guys, making these things happen isn't about YOU scripting it, it's about enjoying the slow flow, the eye winks, the way she rubs her ass against him when the three of you are at a concert, it's about you following behind them at the art show while he squeezes her ass (in tight short shorts) while you take pictures of it, it's about her sitting next to him on your couch, and him telling her to finger her pussy while the three of you watch blackedraw.com, and it's about him telling you to go get the knee-pads that you bought at Home Depot because he wants her on her knees now for awhile, sucking his black balls until he's ready to explode. THAT takes time to develop. Hours and hours....4candiD.jpgcandihouseA.jpg
 
As an experienced Bull, I agree with you wholeheartedly on this one. My most recet Hotwife was wonderful. She had everything you could want in a hotwife, but Hubby was very wishywashy. So being around them, was great, but I knew that he'd always have somethinf to say about what happened the time before.

Everytime we would hang out after a night of fun, he'd bring up some new provisions. It became exhausting, and akin to walking on eggshells around him. So I let it go, which I hated to do, because she was great and he was cool. I just couldnt stick around, always wondering what's gonna set him off today.

It sounds like he needed to be put in his place by both of you.
 
I think your post title is really good
This is a good "screening question"
The real bulls will tell you - its a waste of their time.
The wannabe bulls, who can't get laid and are using this lifestyle as a crutch to meet women and get their dick wet will say YES to anything
and then never show up.

But your suggestion to set it up at Splash Mocha is a better idea - because if the bulls are already there - then this might work. Because bulls do like to help women fulfill fantasies and if this is her fantasy - and they are already there - then im sure a lot of the bulls would be very open to it.

But for me - If I have a choice between spending time with a couple that I have an ongoing dynamic with and a woman that wants 5 minutes to suck or fuck me - yea?? I think you see where im going with this.

Real bulls dont need sex opportunities. We already have plenty of options to fuck women. What we are looking for are real dynamics and unique situations. For me, I am a super alpha, so I like full control and a lot of couples in the lifestyle or just swingers so they dont like the D/s element. So I am searching for couples that want more than just sex.
Bingo is his name, oh.
 
I think your post title is really good
This is a good "screening question"
The real bulls will tell you - its a waste of their time.
The wannabe bulls, who can't get laid and are using this lifestyle as a crutch to meet women and get their dick wet will say YES to anything
and then never show up.

But your suggestion to set it up at Splash Mocha is a better idea - because if the bulls are already there - then this might work. Because bulls do like to help women fulfill fantasies and if this is her fantasy - and they are already there - then im sure a lot of the bulls would be very open to it.

But for me - If I have a choice between spending time with a couple that I have an ongoing dynamic with and a woman that wants 5 minutes to suck or fuck me - yea?? I think you see where im going with this.

Real bulls dont need sex opportunities. We already have plenty of options to fuck women. What we are looking for are real dynamics and unique situations. For me, I am a super alpha, so I like full control and a lot of couples in the lifestyle or just swingers so they dont like the D/s element. So I am searching for couples that want more than just sex.
This response is the only one you need.
 
So, I’m trying to figure out if this would be fun to set up in our room at the next IR HOTEL party….and I need honest reaction from the real bulls. We like watching the Czech fantasy gangbang gloryhole videos.

If this set up was done in a hotel room—and you knew what the wife looked like— would you be interested in playing if there was a 5-10 minute time limit? Or would that just be a waste of your time?

I think it would be fun at a large scale event like Splash Mocha where there would be a lot of women, but not sure about with just one wife.

Waste of my time. This is why I don't do large Gatherings and parties. I'm a grown man.... I like to take my time with the woman. I'm not the kind of guy to stand around with a bunch of strange dudes.... waiting to bust a quick nut 🤦🏽‍♂️
 
So, I’m trying to figure out if this would be fun to set up in our room at the next IR HOTEL party….and I need honest reaction from the real bulls. We like watching the Czech fantasy gangbang gloryhole videos.

If this set up was done in a hotel room—and you knew what the wife looked like— would you be interested in playing if there was a 5-10 minute time limit? Or would that just be a waste of your time?

I think it would be fun at a large scale event like Splash Mocha where there would be a lot of women, but not sure about with just one wife.
I'm just trying to make sure I'm understanding you correctly. If you are talking about a reverse glory hole type of situation where a women is hidden with just her ass/pussy exposed and random guys are fucking her and you are talking about doing this in your room at splash.....if this is what you are talking about, they actually already have this as one of the playrooms at splash. They have a regular gloryhole for the guys that have "stations" for multiple guys and they also have a reverse glory hole for the ladies that can accommodate multiple women. It's very well run and they have monitors there to make sure the guys act right. Now doing something like this in your room at splash might be a bit of a challenge since it's available right downstairs. Now if you wanted to do a standard gangbang or line guys up to come into your room one after the other, that would be easier to pull off at a splash event because you'd have so many people there.
 
Actually did this with the ex wife at an adult theater (fantasyland in Tampa) 13 years ago
On a Wednesday at noon
(the theater at the time had there own site that you could post events and we spend 3 weeks vetting men.)
The rules where if there was anyone waiting you had a max. of 15 min to cum or i would ask you to make way for the next guy.
We invited 20 men to come
Of the 20 guys 9 of those we invited actually showed up
In 2 and a half hours she was fucked by those 9 men + 4 guys that happened to be at the theater...
some more than once - I only had to ask one guy to either cum or move for the next guy
It was awesome
 

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Actually did this with the ex wife at an adult theater (fantasyland in Tampa) 13 years ago
On a Wednesday at noon
(the theater at the time had there own site that you could post events and we spend 3 weeks vetting men.)
The rules where if there was anyone waiting you had a max. of 15 min to cum or i would ask you to make way for the next guy.
We invited 20 men to come
Of the 20 guys 9 of those we invited actually showed up
In 2 and a half hours she was fucked by those 9 men + 4 guys that happened to be at the theater...
some more than once - I only had to ask one guy to either cum or move for the next guy
It was awesome
Wow that is so hot, we’ve never seen an adult theater with those facilities, I would love to do that, private parties sometimes happen in similar fashion although not invited guests, and we know of a couple swing clubs have a gang bang night which is really more like you are talking about one at a time the others watching and waiting their turns. I never recall my man having to ask someone to finish for the next guy, but most guys finish quickly, only once in a while have I ever seen a guy go more than 10-15 min, with exception of a few but they were porn stars. Today we mostly host at home with one to five men, and the black men know how to fuck long time but also know how to share. My man is also my mediator and he also participates usually last or sometimes first before everyone arrives to get me warmed up and juicy wet, LOL. Thank you for sharing an amazing event you and your ex had. That would be so hot in a Public theater! 💋
 
As an experienced Bull, I agree with you wholeheartedly on this one. My most recet Hotwife was wonderful. She had everything you could want in a hotwife, but Hubby was very wishywashy. So being around them, was great, but I knew that he'd always have somethinf to say about what happened the time before.

Everytime we would hang out after a night of fun, he'd bring up some new provisions. It became exhausting, and akin to walking on eggshells around him. So I let it go, which I hated to do, because she was great and he was cool. I just couldnt stick around, always wondering what's gonna set him off today.
So what was his problem if I can ask. It seems that if your in this situation you should be behind this petty control issue stuff or he had no self confidence and was over controlling?
 
Wow that is so hot, we’ve never seen an adult theater with those facilities, I would love to do that, private parties sometimes happen in similar fashion although not invited guests, and we know of a couple swing clubs have a gang bang night which is really more like you are talking about one at a time the others watching and waiting their turns. I never recall my man having to ask someone to finish for the next guy, but most guys finish quickly, only once in a while have I ever seen a guy go more than 10-15 min, with exception of a few but they were porn stars. Today we mostly host at home with one to five men, and the black men know how to fuck long time but also know how to share. My man is also my mediator and he also participates usually last or sometimes first before everyone arrives to get me warmed up and juicy wet, LOL. Thank you for sharing an amazing event you and your ex had. That would be so hot in a Public theater! 💋
Fantasyland In Tampa Florida
I believe its still in the top 5 adult theaters in the country :)
 
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