So in the past, I hosted kik groups as well as run Happy Hours at bars in Manhattan.
My mentor, the esteemed
@Idowives0763 runs parties, before things shut down, he is also a host of a nationally recognized podcast on Cuckolding. I encourage any man or couple in the NY, PA and NJ area to follow him and support anything he does. You should support him both by following and also by purchasing any merch he sells. He helps couples for basically nothing, so the community needs to pitch in.
anyway, at his encouragement I opened the Bull Academy of NY in 2016, it was going to feed bulls, well trained bulls, into the Cuckold Society of NY. I had been doing sex coaching and training for almost 10 years at that point, and there was a huge need. There were 20 couples in the CSNY, and there were only 5 active bulls. Yikes! Those numbers do not work for that many couples.
Since 2016, I have learned 2 things.
1) The biggest obstacle to cuckolding is the "cuckold wannabe"
2) The biggest obstacle to women enjoying sex is the "cuckold wannabe"
I dont know what it is, but there is a HUGE mental block for guys that say they want cuckolding. I receive these emails all the time, and I know any bull that has been in the LS at least 2 or 3 years, gets these messages too.
ADVICE: Guys, if you are concerned about how honest the Bull is, then stop talking to the bull. It is the Bull's responsibility to make you and your wife feel comfortable. OK? So stop being a pain in the ass. If you don't want bulls talking to your wife, then dont message a bull until you are ready for a bull to talk to your wife.
I hear you "But I want to screen the guys!" Of course you do, but why? Whats the point, if your wife is not ready to talk to anyone.
If you need help with the screening process, I can help you do that. I am setting up a Screening Checklist for Couples, you can contact me for access to it. It's easy and simple to use and it outlines the steps to ensure that you are talking to someone who knows what a bull is and how to be a good bull to your wife. But do not start the process if you are not 100% ready to start meeting and having sex with bulls.
thats the bottom line.