Cuckoldry gone wrong

[one2submit]

Well I can contribute a little something to this topic. Years ago when I was married my wife had been talking with a girl from her work and she was sharing how her and her husband or boyfriend, I can't remember which, liked to watch porn and have kinky sex. My wife was talking about it for weeks as her friend was telling her stuff all along. My wife asked if I would be okay when her friend asked her to go hang with them one evening. I thought it was exciting and was turned on like crazy watching her get ready to go out. The problem was I did nothing over the next many hours but think what they must be doing. At fist being turned on then feeling left out as the hours clicked by. Had I been patient I was probably going to be included at some point but being young I got overcome by jealousy. I know something happened but ill never know what because I showed my inability to play along. I blurted out something I can't remember what but two sentences and it was undone.

 

[syscom3]

Well I can contribute a little something to this topic. Years ago when I was married my wife had been talking with a girl from her work and she was sharing how her and her husband or boyfriend, I can't remember which, liked to watch porn and have kinky sex. My wife was talking about it for weeks as her friend was telling her stuff all along. My wife asked if I would be okay when her friend asked her to go hang with them one evening. I thought it was exciting and was turned on like crazy watching her get ready to go out. The problem was I did nothing over the next many hours but think what they must be doing. At fist being turned on then feeling left out as the hours clicked by. Had I been patient I was probably going to be included at some point but being young I got overcome by jealousy. I know something happened but ill never know what because I showed my inability to play along. I blurted out something I can't remember what but two sentences and it was undone.

It was in bad form for her to exclude you in the first place. You did nothing wrong and dont forget it.

 

[one2submit]

Thanks for that but in hind site if I could have exercised some patients there is no telling what would have happened. She was telling me something when I cut her off and I do wonder from time to time what I missed out on back then. Live and learn.

 

[MacNfries]

Believe me, I have learned from the experience! .... I obviously wouldn't condone him not coming home though - my actions were wrong and I know that.

I'm glad to hear that, Sarah. Mostly what my wife and I have participated in are 3-somes, both MMFs and FFMs. We use the 3-somes to elevate our own personal sexual desires as a couple. That's why we feel it so important that we do these activities as a couple.
Ten or so years ago we got to know a cute redhead bartender at our local Outback restaurant that we go to regularly. She acted as if she really liked us both as a couple, and later my wife asked me if I found her attractive, and I immediately said yes. She smiled and said that she could tell the girl liked me a lot as well; I hadn't really noticed, but my wife had. Anyways, she invited the young lady over to our house, and our ******* (around 3 & 5 at the time) really liked her because she gave them so much attention, even mentioning that if we ever needed a babysitter, that she would love to baby sit them if she wasn't working. So, we took her up on that a couple times, and our relationship with her got really close, to the point that my wife ended up inviting her to stay the night with us. It turned out to be everything a guy could desire ... 2 beautiful ladies at the same time. And, my wife was actually turned on by her, and my wife is not normally attracted to other females.
One thing that I found out with this FFM relationship, however, was that my wife went through the same power pill of emotions as I did when we did MMFs, and our sex together was always strongest the week after our 3-somes.
So, there's really something to be said about involving the spouse ... it can be just as good for them, as they watch, and it can certainly revitalize an otherwise ho-hum marital sexual relationship.
Best wishes ... Mac

 

[syscom3]

Lets keep things on track for the subject. When things go bad.

 

[Bbc4wife]

But have you encountered something along the lines where the man told you to stop or apologize? Or you even tell them NO!

No? More often than not it's a no from me. I usually talk to the husband first, I'm not into the cheating wife thing, and I make sure that he understands that if his wife is willing I'm going to give it to her.

 

[syscom3]

No? More often than not it's a no from me. I usually talk to the husband first, I'm not into the cheating wife thing, and I make sure that he understands that if his wife is willing I'm going to give it to her.

So you haven't had any problems like if the man suddenly has second thoughts and tells you to stop? Or gets agitated and leaves, or spooks you?

We don't want to hear about the successes; just the failures.

 

[Muffdive75]

I am just going through a separation and divorce and I junk the swinging BBC lifestyle played a part in it

Married for over 15 years and wife wanted to try swinging and as a loving caring husband found swinging partners for her slowly things moved to BBC and in the begining I participated and our sex life was great

Eventually one of the bulls seduced Her and she fell for him lost track of family ******* and woild go see him for weekends and never come home
She was eventually used by the Bulls friends for bb sex


Last year I asked her to move out
And the ******* decided to stay with me

The Bulls did not want to take
Care of her

We are close to divorce and I
Dating another woman

The moment the couples forget that this is just for sex and not some emotional committed realtionship

And especially the
Wives and women mistake a big dick as replacent for family husband ******* and love It is the end of that relationship

Usually to the detremrnt of the women


My ex did not do so well after the divorce and separation

She threw away 15 year marriage ******* family for a BBC and on the end lost that too

 

[syscom3]

Thanks for your honesty. Do your ******* know what happened? That has to be ******* for them.

 

[nothinguc]

Me and a former girlfriend got high with a new bull and we were pretty much *******. Ended up robbed and she got fucked by an unknown number of men he let in.

Less extreme had numerous black guys promise 8 or 9 inches and show up with 6 or 7 inches max.

 

[syscom3]

Me and a former girlfriend got high with a new bull and we were pretty much *******. Ended up robbed and she got fucked by an unknown number of men he let in.

Less extreme had numerous black guys promise 8 or 9 inches and show up with 6 or 7 inches max.

What the heck did you get high on? I hope the both of you weren't *******.

 

[MacNfries]

I am just going through a separation and divorce and I junk the swinging BBC lifestyle played a part in it

That must of been a devastating experience. Is that what drove you to join this interracial cuckold site?

 

[syscom3]

That must of been a devastating experience. Is that what drove you to join this interracial cuckold site? View attachment 491405

He still likes the lifestyle. Just not the slutwifery.

At least thats what i can tell.

 

[NEHIGHLANDER]

While it has been the most erotic thing I have ever witnessed when my wife has sex with black men, it has not always been smooth sailing. I was the one that wanted Amie to screw them while I watched and initially it was an incredible turn on for me but I also felt pangs of jealousy seeing her enjoy herself so much with them. I was also taken aback at how aggressive they were with her and how willing she was to let them do anything they wanted to her.
There was one situation where one man seemed to fall in love with her and she also seemed very smitten by him. There was also another situation where I really disliked one of them while Amie was really turned on by him. He's an arrogant prick and I cannot stand his smug attitude but Amie still insisted she wanted to fuck him. There were also some boundaries crossed and I have been very upset about it.

 

[syscom3]

Well, tell us. What boundaries were violated? Was your wife scared of any of them? Did you ever get close to being violent? Or have you and your wife backout of the whole thing after the activities commenced?

 

[cuckhappy]

My husband and I went through tha same situation ,at first all was great he loved me enjoying a huge cock especially black but as I have read my lover took over and hubby was left out and I let it happen to the point hubby lost interest and moved on. We still see each other but the relationship is very weak my friend used me until he found a younger woman , so I have been on the roundabout and sympathize with this thread

 

[syscom3]

cuckhappy, the bull leaving you in the end seems to be a recurring theme. Too bad your relationship suffered.

 

[weaknfunny]

There was also another situation where I really disliked one of them while Amie was really turned on by him. He's an arrogant prick and I cannot stand his smug attitude but Amie still insisted she wanted to fuck him. There were also some boundaries crossed and I have been very upset about it.

I don't think that this situation went wrong. Yes, he was an arrogant prick. Yes, your wife still wanted to open her legs for that bastard. Yes, he did his job really good. Yes, your wife was fucked really well by the man you hated (maybe she hates him too) and everything look perfect.

 

[Got2]

Well, tell us. What boundaries were violated? Was your wife scared of any of them? Did you ever get close to being violent? Or have you and your wife backout of the whole thing after the activities commenced?

He has told of his and his wife's experiences on the site 'Literotica'. Perhaps real life experiences, perhaps with some embellishments to add flavor to the stories (I think they are mostly true). Read his stories under the same name over there to get a feel for the psychological implications of the Cuckold experience

 

[Got2]

I don't think that this situation went wrong. Yes, he was an arrogant prick. Yes, your wife still wanted to open her legs for that bastard. Yes, he did his job really good. Yes, your wife was fucked really well by the man you hated (maybe she hates him too) and everything look perfect.

Oh?

Think about it. There is a Power Relationship when it comes to SEX. Not love, but sex.

There is Power in turning over one's wife to have sex with another man. To see her used as a sexual object.

But, there is, of course, another side to that power----The WILLINGNESS of the wife to giver herself over, body AND Soul to the other man. A 'reverse the Taboo' action.

This is the main crux of the Cuckold Dilemma. What begins as a rush of power descends into a loss of control.