Cuckoldry gone wrong
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Your observations are pretty much spot on.
For those who have not read about our experiences, they describe our great times as well as the problems we have encountered in this lifestyle. You can read them here:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...re-stories-on-literotica-check-them-out.3826/
Syscom, Just read the stories. There is way TOO much detail to go into in a forum thread.
1) Real adults are smart enough NOT to allow the situation escalate into an all out physical altercation.
2) There is resentment when a Wife wants, and gets, a bit more sex than the Husband is willing to allow/give up.
3) There is resentment when the Wife begins to form a bond with the Bull.
4) And there is concern over the Loss of Control when the Wife is pressured by the Bull....(or, does the wife WANT the Bull to do those things in the first place? Women are so complicated)
So, in short, the 'Bad Experience' stems from a loss of control when another sexual partner is brought into the mix. Triangles, ya know?
1) Real adults are smart enough NOT to allow the situation escalate into an all out physical altercation.
2) There is resentment when a Wife wants, and gets, a bit more sex than the Husband is willing to allow/give up.
3) There is resentment when the Wife begins to form a bond with the Bull.
4) And there is concern over the Loss of Control when the Wife is pressured by the Bull....(or, does the wife WANT the Bull to do those things in the first place? Women are so complicated)
So, in short, the 'Bad Experience' stems from a loss of control when another sexual partner is brought into the mix. Triangles, ya know?
I know all that. I want to know the experiences of the people in this forum.
I think every thread on this site needs a picture. Witnessing a black man take Amie likes this makes me have a funny feeling in the pit of my stomach.
I think that's "Cuckoldry going on" not "Cuckoldry gone wrong". It is very hot though, I'll give you that.
no i was a member of this site and i still enjoy reading the post
i guess you did not understand what i wrote
the lifestyle is ok as long as your real life does not get fucked over by the desire for BBC or when one forgets commitments responsibilities etc
and my ex wanted it both ways wanted to lifestyle the BBC but was forgetting the ******* or my needs so i dumped her
and yes i would like to find someone who can enjoy the lifestyle while not losing sight of the relationship
It is slowly getting back but will never be the same and it was him who wanted me to go black
Muff, what would you do differently this time? Did you learn anything?
You know there's that old saying "those who fail to remember the past, are prone to repeat it!"
I'd really encourage you to establish good trust & communication, set parameters, and not allow her to swing alone. Even with that, there's no guarantees.
There are no gaurantees for sure and not sure what I would do differently
I think really having a Heart to heart talk with the partner and open communication is important
The biggest impact was to my ******* and as they get older the trauma will reduce
I think really having a Heart to heart talk with the partner and open communication is important
The biggest impact was to my ******* and as they get older the trauma will reduce
Probably so, but then the resentment will set in, I think, as they begin to think through the event. There's sometimes a big price to pay for adults acting irresponsibly. When our ******* got old enough to know better, that's when we declared a hiatus. Family comes first ... always with no exceptions.
I have one more explanation. The spaces are always filled. When the husband can not fill it, the wife needs another man and the husband knows it too. Then that arrogant man uses his meat to do it.
You think a relationship is just about sex?
It depends. I think %99 of relationships are not just about sex but for sure there some of them. I think cuckoldry relationships are just about sex but I don't mean only the physical pleasure. Sex is not only physical.
To be honest I have never experienced the cuckoldry relationship. With all that I can imagine that the cuckoldry may go wrong if the expectations of the couple and the bull may not match. For instance some couples want to do that with a gentleman but the bull may be just an arrogant prick just because of his skills and capacity of doing sex. On the other hand, as you said, if the emotions take a place in that, the marriage can end with divorce as well... Sure there are many ways of failure.
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