Couples...If in fact you are a couple

Charles Hardwood

Charles Hardwood

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A few tips for people on this site that encounter people listed as a couple.
  • It is all about the wife/gf.
  • It could be a single guy pretending he has a wife/gf. Some guys have become so porn addicted to an idea they will pretend they are with someone to fulfill that high they get from that idea.
  • If most of the posts are from the point of view of a male or focus on anal more than anything else it's likely just a guy and the wife/gf is unaware of what he's doing.
  • If the wife isn't aware of the fantasy then it is just the guy's fantasy and he's getting off just talking to you.
  • Guys pretending to be their wife give brief answers to questions or will slip up somewhere mid conversation
 
i suspect most posts on here are from men who have fantasies that their wives do not know about and that many of the pics are not from the person in the pic. it is disgusting when a man does this because it is a lie and disrespectful to everyone. we never had to share a pic in all our time and we met many men. most women do not want to be blacked they want to be fucked by a man they like
 
I'm on here as a man but my wife and I are a cuckold couple. So some of us are actually couples posing as single guys !

I just don't really use this site as a hook up place. I find that most people are not in the same area that we are (Malibu, CA) so it's a waste of time to try to meet people on forums that are not set up to specifically look for people to meet unless they are at least put in categories according to location. One of my pet peeves are people who post that they want to meet but don't mention where they are located; the world is a BIG place!

I also find that people who are more than a 45 minute drive away tend to not show up or just show up for a couple fun times and then disappear.

By the way, any black studs within 45 minutes of Malibu? Send me a private message on here, let's meet !
 
jamesriske said:
I'm on here as a man but my wife and I are a cuckold couple. So some of us are actually couples posing as single guys !

I just don't really use this site as a hook up place. I find that most people are not in the same area that we are (Malibu, CA) so it's a waste of time to try to meet people on forums that are not set up to specifically look for people to meet unless they are at least put in categories according to location. One of my pet peeves are people who post that they want to meet but don't mention where they are located; the world is a BIG place!

I also find that people who are more than a 45 minute drive away tend to not show up or just show up for a couple fun times and then disappear.

By the way, any black studs within 45 minutes of Malibu? Send me a private message on here, let's meet !
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once my wife had had a few men she asked me to find others and i did since it was easier but we never shared pictures and we never wanted bulls to dominate or abuse just men who were fun
 
jamesriske said:
I'm on here as a man but my wife and I are a cuckold couple. So some of us are actually couples posing as single guys !

I just don't really use this site as a hook up place. I find that most people are not in the same area that we are (Malibu, CA) so it's a waste of time to try to meet people on forums that are not set up to specifically look for people to meet unless they are at least put in categories according to location. One of my pet peeves are people who post that they want to meet but don't mention where they are located; the world is a BIG place!

I also find that people who are more than a 45 minute drive away tend to not show up or just show up for a couple fun times and then disappear.

By the way, any black studs within 45 minutes of Malibu? Send me a private message on here, let's meet !
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Now that's how you promote yourself
 
much of the vid on here are porn, most men like to kiss and they like to pump and thrist their cocks into a woman and few men would be willing to let a woman ride them or just suck them. Way too many bj vids on here or ones that show women worshipping cock , they do not need to si\nce any woman can have a li\ne of willing men
 
We’re on here as a couple. I’m the wife, and we both respond to messages or chats. I think you have had some bad experiences before. As for us my husband knows who and what I like. Often times my husband finds bulls I may interested to, he initiates the contact, after some communication (screening of his part to make sure the bull fits MY needs and OUR dynamic) he sends them over to my kik, at which point I get to the know the bull and decide if I’m interested in playing.
I do agree with you in some of the points you brought up, there may be men posing as a couple, their wife may not be aware. Unfortunately it’s part of the Lifestyle just do your due diligence and weed out those “couples” that don’t work for you.
 
I'm 100% sure you are correct that a lot of couples are in reality the husband. However, I'm sure that everyone on this site is lying about something. I'm also sure that the vast majority of people on here have no intention of meeting anyone. These site for the vast majority are about talking about fantasy.

It's just like the real world where there are facts and Alternative facts, Conspiracy Theories. We saw the results of that on Wednesday!

The truth the way I see it is recognize it for what it is. Your chances of hooking up on contact sites much larger than 1 in a 100 contacts. So while you are waiting around a year to meet someone why not engage in some pillow talk with a 300 pound gorella?

We all know that life is one big lie these days, but there are some real people out there who are more than interested in fucking you.

So educate me here. If you are talking on line to a husband who is setting you up to fuck his wife, why do you care?
 
VegascplXXX said:
I'm 100% sure you are correct that a lot of couples are in reality the husband. However, I'm sure that everyone on this site is lying about something. I'm also sure that the vast majority of people on here have no intention of meeting anyone. These site for the vast majority are about talking about fantasy.

It's just like the real world where there are facts and Alternative facts, Conspiracy Theories. We saw the results of that on Wednesday!

The truth the way I see it is recognize it for what it is. Your chances of hooking up on contact sites much larger than 1 in a 100 contacts. So while you are waiting around a year to meet someone why not engage in some pillow talk with a 300 pound gorella?

We all know that life is one big lie these days, but there are some real people out there who are more than interested in fucking you.

So educate me here. If you are talking on line to a husband who is setting you up to fuck his wife, why do you care?
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<removed> if you want to chat
 
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Charles Hardwood said:
A few tips for people on this site that encounter people listed as a couple.
  • It is all about the wife/gf.
  • It could be a single guy pretending he has a wife/gf. Some guys have become so porn addicted to an idea they will pretend they are with someone to fulfill that high they get from that idea.
  • If most of the posts are from the point of view of a male or focus on anal more than anything else it's likely just a guy and the wife/gf is unaware of what he's doing.
  • If the wife isn't aware of the fantasy then it is just the guy's fantasy and he's getting off just talking to you.
  • Guys pretending to be their wife give brief answers to questions or will slip up somewhere mid conversation
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I've definitely encountered all of the above, but there are real people here as well. I created our account here with my wife's full support. She approves all the pics I've shared here or anywhere else online. She's posted in her own voice 3 or 4 times when we were looking at the site together (in our case, her posts are way shorter than mine), but otherwise she lets me manage the account and I show her people or posts I think she'll find interesting. She doesn't like to spend a lot of time in internet forums in general, but likes that I'm active. I'm generally tasked with finding potential bulls. I spend a lot of time discussing this lifestyle with others. She only pays attention to what actually influences our sex life, whether that means trying to arrange actual playdates or just finding stimulating conversation starters when the two of us are playing and/or fantasizing. She loved browsing the site with me almost nightly before our trip to Splash Mocha last year, but she gets frustrated looking at people we couldn't meet even if she wanted to, so since the start of the pandemic, she's had to be in the right mood to browse with me. These days that happens maybe a few minutes at a time, maybe twice a week or so. but I expect she'll be back over my shoulder more frequently as the situation improves this year.

We've met more than one black man on this site in real life, so real connections with real people absolutely CAN happen here. But I agree, there are a lot more posers, wannabes, closet cases and flakes here than you typically find on a dating/swingers site. I haven't seen a single excuse that makes sense for not verifying. I'll always be polite and give people the benefit of the doubt in conversation, but I take interaction with a grain of salt if I'm taking to someone who refuses to verify and can't/won't prove authenticity directly either.
 
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my wife fucked a man who has an account on here and i sucked three loads from him so yes there are people who are real
 
We have been in lifestyle over 20 years and while she enjoys her chocolate gang bangs and play we still swap with other cpls and single females. We are not a cuck cpl and not into the cuck play at all. We are on SDC, Lifestyle Lounge and Swinglifestyle as lifetime members with validations on all three sites. We have only met a cpl of guys from this site and one cpl and all was good and fun times had by all. Not into bi males of any kind but she does like female play as long as cocks are involved.
 
Nich&Billy said:
SDC is the same way 70% of the couples are single men. their wife or girlfriends always working late, just not playing right now, but I can meet, if your a single guy don't be a scumbag
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We have been on SDC for 20 years and have meet tons of people off the site here in Texas to Florida, Vegas, Cali, NC, TN, and LA. We only meet folks with validations. Same for other sites as well.
 
jamesriske said:
I'm on here as a man but my wife and I are a cuckold couple. So some of us are actually couples posing as single guys !

I just don't really use this site as a hook up place. I find that most people are not in the same area that we are (Malibu, CA) so it's a waste of time to try to meet people on forums that are not set up to specifically look for people to meet unless they are at least put in categories according to location. One of my pet peeves are people who post that they want to meet but don't mention where they are located; the world is a BIG place!

I also find that people who are more than a 45 minute drive away tend to not show up or just show up for a couple fun times and then disappear.

By the way, any black studs within 45 minutes of Malibu? Send me a private message on here, let's meet !
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We have met two of my Slut's favorite BBC bulls on this site. Here is my Slut sucking each of these bulls.1.png
 

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We are listed as a couple. My hubby does not like coming on here, he only created the page for me so that I could see that I’m not alone. After my first bbc encounter with his friend, I was feeling very weird, having just had sex with a black man in my home, directly following sex with my husband. I pretty much shut down for a few days, a middle aged professional mom of four who had only had sex with her ex husband and current husband before now. I was very much in my own head and not feeling right. This page is not about finding a “hook up” for me. It’s about learning and seeing that it’s ok to do what I am doing with D and any others whom stop over to visit. I have since, because of this page, embraced that what we are doing is ok and it’s our life and our journey that matters, no one else’s! ❤️
 
Shelbygrl❤️ said:
We are listed as a couple. My hubby does not like coming on here, he only created the page for me so that I could see that I’m not alone. After my first bbc encounter with his friend, I was feeling very weird, having just had sex with a black man in my home, directly following sex with my husband. I pretty much shut down for a few days, a middle aged professional mom of four who had only had sex with her ex husband and current husband before now. I was very much in my own head and not feeling right. This page is not about finding a “hook up” for me. It’s about learning and seeing that it’s ok to do what I am doing with D and any others whom stop over to visit. I have since, because of this page, embraced that what we are doing is ok and it’s our life and our journey that matters, no one else’s! ❤️
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What made you start at all?

was it your curiosity or needing a bigger penis? Or did your hubby push for it.
 
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