Honestly I have gravitated to wanting to have sex with a black couple while my husband watches. I service her first then her husband joins. When I told my husband this he said, “honey we haven’t had a bbc yet” We thought several years ago we would have been well into the lifestyle but medical issues with family members takes up all of our time. Haven’t had a vacation in 3 years. Now our ******* lives way too close to us so hosting now isn’t even feasible. We continue to bide our time. Kudos to those who are younger and are able to have free time! We only dream about it!