Excellent questions: First having as many women as you please doesn't mean you don't have to look for them, find them and convince them (although for black males expecially in S Florida, this is very easy). Moreover, although many men have untapped potential, and usually a gift when it comes to black men, a staggering number of them do not always yet know how to actualize it. Moreover, I find that many of the black studs on this sight are gifted sexually, confident, intelligent and patient. They also get laid a lot.
To your second question I remind you that you stated in another forum thread, "white people haven't cornered the market on mental illness."While many things are true of most people, nothing is true of everyone. Often when we speak, we generalize, not so as to imply that what we state represents the totality of those in question, but rather, to exemplify a tendency, trend or commonality. Others as you know are quick to be accusatory and point out that when one does generalize he or she is missing the fact that not everyone is X,Y or Z. This always reveals a desire in the accuser to be right as opposed to wanting to find the truth.
I hope that answer will suffice.