There is definitely some misconception about the term, and many are just bias in their thinking.I agree with you and also with the previous post of mywayintermsofs. I think as long as a woman is attracted to black men, though maybe not exclusively, then she is a QOS. However, I think some people do believe that a woman has to be exclusive to black men and in addition that the woman has to be white. Different strokes for different folks I guess.