A suggestion made without consideration for the safety of the person you made it to.
Your "suggestion": "Let them "******* you" it will be more fun for everyone.",
while encouraging the poster to go ahead and make his fantasy real, didn't take into account that his idea of fun might be simply being told to get on his knees, open his mouth and suck dick, whereas their idea of fun might be to hold him down and yank out all his teeth before skull fucking him.
That might be his idea of a fun time as well, but perhaps not.
Therefore, my "suggestion": "As long as everyone understands and agrees that the "forsing" is a consensual part of the experience, all is well.
REAL ******* is *******.
",
seemed rather timely, in case in his excitement to follow your suggestion, Alanm neglected to determine if those he makes the request of to "*******" him are of the same understanding as to what "*******" meant.
Of course, this is such an obvious thing to do when one has fantasies about being "******" or raped that no one ever complains that that wasn't what they thought would happen or they didn't mean for it to be like this, because everyone always does the obvious and plans for their safety.