It has always been discussed, there were a few scares too.... but the main issue is how to handle it among family and friends. One could disappear for a while, claim the baby was adopted.

But honestly, I couldn´t quite bear the thought of having a baby of mine believe he was adopted. Also, I would like the ******* to be as present as the situation allows, which obviously add a whole new layer of complexity.
You can always just be honest about it. I have a ch-ild with a MWW. Her husband is a minister in a local church. The ch-ild was born during Covid and they claimed it was adopted. Jump ahead a couple of years and we now have a second baby and the cat is out of the bag. Would have been a lot easier if they were honest from the beginning.
 
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