Sorry, to clarify:
what some women would do is act stupidly, and behave just as dumb as some of the guys. I have seen guys who do not deserve ridicule being ridiculed for no other reason that they spoke to someone (albeit they misread the signals) but still. Cock-teasing behaviour is also a massive no-no as though people do come to play, dangling ******* in front of their faces only to tease and then act insulted - stupid. Arguments started, slagging others off etc...stupid is as stupid does; and sometime stupid does some really fucking stupid *******.
I am against stupid behavior, bullying and/or harassment that spoils other mine or people's enjoyment, regardless of who it is that's doing it.
now don't get me wrong if a woman flirts with me but has no interest in paying with me , I appreciate the flirting for what it is, if a woman says 'no' to me then I accept that it is a 'no' not a 'maybe' but a 'no' so I accept and move on, I don't take it personally and I don't and won't label her because my ego got a little scuffed...meh; move on.
Helen who runs the night does a great job and the crew that work for her also are very good at weeding out the trouble makers, I'd say that 9/10 times the nights are good. I think though through expansion the other venues have benfitted from the better clientle attending; for example Arousals used to be very well attended and there used to be a better mix of people, now the last time I went it was a whole mess of guys, some couples and the vibe was more social than anything else. Radlett which was more a house party vibe used to be really vibrant, but it again the last time I went there appeared to be a large number of guys, couples and then a contingent of people who just happened to be there. Now I'm not sure about the other venues but I have heard they are more like how Arousals and Radlett used to be.
But here's the kicker I would and will be returning to those two venues, because even though the tone has changed slightly they are still the best around.