BMFC Parties

We've been six times and always had fun. Twice in Radlett and four times in Arousals (Dunstable). The atmosphere is very good for couples who want to start slowly in the lifestyle, as the guys are not pushy. They're usually as shy as the wives and girlfriends. Like all swing clubs, there's always one or two guys who don't leave you alone, following you wherever you go, but this is something go you have to learn to deal with. What's good about the atmosphere is that if you also want to fuck and suck all night, the guys will certainly accommodate, but you'll usually have to take the lead to get things going, with some smiling and flirting.
 
Loriana San Román said:
We've been six times and always had fun. Twice in Radlett and four times in Arousals (Dunstable). The atmosphere is very good for couples who want to start slowly in the lifestyle, as the guys are not pushy. They're usually as shy as the wives and girlfriends. Like all swing clubs, there's always one or two guys who don't leave you alone, following you wherever you go, but this is something go you have to learn to deal with. What's good about the atmosphere is that if you also want to fuck and suck all night, the guys will certainly accommodate, but you'll usually have to take the lead to get things going, with some smiling and flirting.
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Were there any women there who were single?
 
i remember on occasions one or two women who were unescorted, but they seemed to be friends of the organizer and were often unattractive. They were sometimes the most aggressive of all.
 
We went to BMFC at Xtasia a couple of times...didn't really get what we were looking for...xtasia is actually a good enough club...big dance floor...plenty of places to play...but there was hardly anyone there...ok so we may have been expecting a bit too much...we were thinking there would be all kinds of super hot black guys all over the place and we would be intimidated and it would be a bit overwhelming...it was the exact opposite...both times...very few people there...really boring...it may well be that something else was going on...both nights...and it may well be that the other venues get way more guests attending, but we were asking ourselves questions like "how can they actually stay in business when they only get about 20 people in a club that can clearly handle 150+?"
 
Well I used to attend the parties from near the beginning of BMFC when they used to have just two regular venues, and I can say that in that time I have had great times and bad times. Great time: FFM threesome, which I enjoyed also I had some other great times. I have had some experiences with stupid guys and I am a guy. I nearly had to stop playing with a woman as this guy would not leave her only he claimed he "was next" as he had paid his money and demanded to be next. I explained to him it doesn't work that way and he got a little stupid so I had to remind him of his manners; another time this guy walked up to a woman I was fucking and just said to her face "You eat kebab?" this made us both stop and laugh.

now both of these guys have not been back as far as I know and two individuals who had a reputation for bein arseholes have been banned. So I would say that give it a go, if you can find someone to ******* you or a female friend who is happy to go along then do so. I have spoken and played with women who have turned up by themselves and they have had a lot of fun its ust that you have to be firm and say "no". Most guys will back off, those that don't usually will end up sat with a glum look o their faces as once word get round they are marked, as word get round quick between the women, couples and even the guys that one guy is being an arsehole.

Although it is worth noting though that some women who act like arseholes are usually not reported or even banned, and I have witnessed women being fucking stupid and continually being allowed to remain.
 
bigblack9ins said:
Well I used to attend the parties from near the beginning of BMFC when they used to have just two regular venues, and I can say that in that time I have had great times and bad times. Great time: FFM threesome, which I enjoyed also I had some other great times. I have had some experiences with stupid guys and I am a guy. I nearly had to stop playing with a woman as this guy would not leave her only he claimed he "was next" as he had paid his money and demanded to be next. I explained to him it doesn't work that way and he got a little stupid so I had to remind him of his manners; another time this guy walked up to a woman I was fucking and just said to her face "You eat kebab?" this made us both stop and laugh.

now both of these guys have not been back as far as I know and two individuals who had a reputation for bein arseholes have been banned. So I would say that give it a go, if you can find someone to ******* you or a female friend who is happy to go along then do so. I have spoken and played with women who have turned up by themselves and they have had a lot of fun its ust that you have to be firm and say "no". Most guys will back off, those that don't usually will end up sat with a glum look o their faces as once word get round they are marked, as word get round quick between the women, couples and even the guys that one guy is being an arsehole.

Although it is worth noting though that some women who act like arseholes are usually not reported or even banned, and I have witnessed women being fucking stupid and continually being allowed to remain.
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What do you mean by women being stupid, what did they do?
 
Lana uk said:
What do you mean by women being stupid, what did they do?
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Sorry, to clarify:

what some women would do is act stupidly, and behave just as dumb as some of the guys. I have seen guys who do not deserve ridicule being ridiculed for no other reason that they spoke to someone (albeit they misread the signals) but still. Cock-teasing behaviour is also a massive no-no as though people do come to play, dangling ******* in front of their faces only to tease and then act insulted - stupid. Arguments started, slagging others off etc...stupid is as stupid does; and sometime stupid does some really fucking stupid *******.

I am against stupid behavior, bullying and/or harassment that spoils other mine or people's enjoyment, regardless of who it is that's doing it.

now don't get me wrong if a woman flirts with me but has no interest in paying with me , I appreciate the flirting for what it is, if a woman says 'no' to me then I accept that it is a 'no' not a 'maybe' but a 'no' so I accept and move on, I don't take it personally and I don't and won't label her because my ego got a little scuffed...meh; move on.

Helen who runs the night does a great job and the crew that work for her also are very good at weeding out the trouble makers, I'd say that 9/10 times the nights are good. I think though through expansion the other venues have benfitted from the better clientle attending; for example Arousals used to be very well attended and there used to be a better mix of people, now the last time I went it was a whole mess of guys, some couples and the vibe was more social than anything else. Radlett which was more a house party vibe used to be really vibrant, but it again the last time I went there appeared to be a large number of guys, couples and then a contingent of people who just happened to be there. Now I'm not sure about the other venues but I have heard they are more like how Arousals and Radlett used to be.

But here's the kicker I would and will be returning to those two venues, because even though the tone has changed slightly they are still the best around.
 
bigblack9ins said:
Sorry, to clarify:

what some women would do is act stupidly, and behave just as dumb as some of the guys. I have seen guys who do not deserve ridicule being ridiculed for no other reason that they spoke to someone (albeit they misread the signals) but still. Cock-teasing behaviour is also a massive no-no as though people do come to play, dangling ******* in front of their faces only to tease and then act insulted - stupid. Arguments started, slagging others off etc...stupid is as stupid does; and sometime stupid does some really fucking stupid *******.

I am against stupid behavior, bullying and/or harassment that spoils other mine or people's enjoyment, regardless of who it is that's doing it.

now don't get me wrong if a woman flirts with me but has no interest in paying with me , I appreciate the flirting for what it is, if a woman says 'no' to me then I accept that it is a 'no' not a 'maybe' but a 'no' so I accept and move on, I don't take it personally and I don't and won't label her because my ego got a little scuffed...meh; move on.

Helen who runs the night does a great job and the crew that work for her also are very good at weeding out the trouble makers, I'd say that 9/10 times the nights are good. I think though through expansion the other venues have benfitted from the better clientle attending; for example Arousals used to be very well attended and there used to be a better mix of people, now the last time I went it was a whole mess of guys, some couples and the vibe was more social than anything else. Radlett which was more a house party vibe used to be really vibrant, but it again the last time I went there appeared to be a large number of guys, couples and then a contingent of people who just happened to be there. Now I'm not sure about the other venues but I have heard they are more like how Arousals and Radlett used to be.

But here's the kicker I would and will be returning to those two venues, because even though the tone has changed slightly they are still the best around.
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Ah ok I see, thanks for that.
I don't get the teasing behaviour only to insult them, what's the point in that?!?
I'd love to go to one alone but I think I'll wait until I have someone to go with, at least for the first time.
 
I would be more than happy to ******* any ladies wishing to go. I have attended Taboo Noir with an ex girlfriend, it was a a great party and a lot fun! Hit me up if this interests any single ladies!
 
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