i would agree with that. black or whitte, a guy has to be willing and able to do the mating dance a bit. just shoving a pic of a big dickk in my face and offering to fuck me silly jsut isn't going to do it.
I appreciate the confirmation and you hit on the the most common advice I get in trying to "turn" my wife...and I quote: "show her pics, just show her pics and she'll do it". Bullshit...tried it and no-go so what you say Sally is right on about the mating dance.
Unfortunately for me, nothing's worked yet for me.