in my world everything is consensual. ******* and coercion r not only distasteful to me but immoral. i'm sorry but what ur describing is a very shallow, unenlightened and sad social structure. my new cucky pet comes to me because he wants to. we have a mutually exciting and satisfying relationship. it's an honest relationship. the same is true for my "friends with benefits" lovers. what ur describing is nothing more than one having power over another. shallow. very sad if this is all they have
Which is why all this talk of how things are done in these African nations shows neither black superiority nor dominance, only criminality.
True dominance is displayed by people like you, Sally.
Having that something, that causes someone to serve you because they want to, is half of what dominance is all about. The other half is learning how to use that power, preferably in a benevolent manner, that results in a mutually satisfying and loving relationship.
From what I read, I'd have to say that anyone lucky enough to serve you as your adoring cuckold or as a lover is fortunate indeed!