The general concept is a fucking excellent idea! I would be able to get my wife to take the leap much easier if she had more regular contact with black men in her everyday life, especially if they expressed interest in her. I have been priming her for BBC since I shared my fantasy before we got married. She was so sheltered and had so few partners and experience before we hooked up, she literally had never heard “once you go black you never go back.” But she DEFINITELY knows what that is about now, she’s usually pointing out famous white women who prefer dating black guys like Katie Holmes. But we live in one of the whitest communities around. It makes it hard because when you don’t have contact to see black men in more regular settings, being thrown into contact in a more high pressure one can be scary because you don’t know what to expect and some of those fear mongering racist stereotypes that have been perpetuated by society for generations might subconsciously tinge their perceptions. Regular contact is a game changer. Instead of seeing black men and not knowing what interacting with them might be like, and only having your husband’s fantasy of them pleasuring her with their big cocks like I can’t, and everything else is unfamiliar and potentially scary, versus having regular contact with black men, see them as just regular, decent people…. Many of whom just might have a big cock that can rock their world more than their husbands, it’s a whole new ballgame. Seriously.
Church choir might be a good Avenue but that’s not really in our wheelhouse so can’t comment further. Book clubs. My wife is in one now but it’s a private one just her and some former work colleagues started so that’s out. But maybe I could encourage her to join a broader one in our community once this book is over. Probably depends on the group. I can see some choosing books that are really woman centric which would make a black man’s participation in seem very awkward unless he passed himself off as gay or bi (a stealthy white wife fucking Trojan Horse… degrees of difficulty high!)
For us it would likely have to be another activity. A low key, fun cycling club would be good. Or a hiking club. I was exchanging messages with one black man around us who cycles and he said he wore bike shorts and had to choose which leg his cock would have to go down. Fucking hot as hell. My wife and other white women might run off the road checking that out. No doubt my wife would take more than one peek and I’d likely have hot sex later that night. But a biking or hiking club would be good because they are social, non threatening, etc.
I do have to comment on the suggestion of us attending more black events. In a perfect world that would be GREAT. But my wife brought up a good point many years ago when I suggested we visit some predominantly black night clubs so I could watch her dance and get talked, looked and hopefully felt up. “I would be scared, not of the black guys who I’m sure would be very motivated to get me comfortable and would make me feel desired, but I can’t help but think that us going to a black club and I’m dancing with black guys while my white husband stares and might even get an erection? How would black women view me or treat me? My guess is they would be outraged, pissed, disgusted etc. I would be really worried about what they would say and even possibly do to me.” Like I said she had a good point. But then again, maybe other black events where something as obvious as me watching her dance with black guys might be more low key. I’ll have to give it some thought.
There is a lot of merit to this idea. Guarantee that more low pressure interaction between black males and our white wives, especially when our wives know we would like nothing more than to watch them fuck a black guy, would result in a LOT more action and happiness for all involved.