Black Guys: A question about the Husband watching
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Do you get more a kick out of him watching than about fucking the wife itself? Like showing you're the alpha male fucking his wife in front on him?
The first time, he should watch then cum inside his wife after I do.
As is how it should be!
"so respect and appreciate all in the lifestyle, and if you can't handle the dynamic of the couple you're engaging with ... I agree with others (and thank you, ido) - its time for you to move on, as this lifestyle is not for you!" So you respect the lifestyles as long as it fits your lifestyle? I think we need to respect that others have different needs from us and sometimes the same needs, but it's not up to you or anyone else to tell others it's "not for you". Lets try to stay open minded people, sometimes we don't know everything that others need.
Some watch, some jerk off, some film and take pics... some I've never even met.
Had one who 'hid' in the closet, yes... HID, while I fucked his woman.
Kinky, a bit weird, but wife was hella fun.
Had one who 'hid' in the closet, yes... HID, while I fucked his woman.
Kinky, a bit weird, but wife was hella fun.
"The lifestyle" I'm talking about is hotWIFE lifestyle, not cheating wife or hookup where it's primarily 1:1.
To try ignoring the husband perspective when contemplating engagement with wife is not engaging in this lifestyle, it's just wanting to hookup.
We don't play in all hot wife/cuckold dynamics, but my point here is that understanding that dynamic for all is primary, and then as others have said...if it's not the dynamic you're into, then move along. The piece I'm reading where guys fucking wives and being annoyed that the husband is there tells me you aren't really into that dynamic...so that guy probably isn't really a bull in this dynamic, so ...
Having a ******* with you a Sunday evening must be amazing. I bet you can spend hours relating delicious anecdotes.
Yes I do, Monica. Over 20 years worth of great stories.... With a break in-between for marriage lol
I used to have a Wordpress erotic blog called 'Confessions of A Reformed Player'. It was a huge hit... Until WP shut it down for being TOO explicit
Keep in mind, this was 4 years ago. I've since added to those sexploits
Also, drinks with me on any given evening will only lead to one thing..
I myself have had no problems letting the husband watch me with their wife if that’s what they want and that’s what we’ve agreed to. I’ve had my cock sucked while the husband stood by and watched and choose to jack off. He and the wife seemed to be extra turned in by this! I myself had no problem performing while the husband watched. I’ve also fucked while the husband got his dick sucked by his wife!
I didn't expect other type of answer from you, otherwise you would have disappointed me ... or it'd have seriously affected my self-esteem. 'Confessions of A Reformed Player'. It is such a suggestive title that fascinates me. Can't you send me some of those writtings?
And that is your dynamic, which is great and I certainly support. My point was merely those that solely want the wife solo and do not want to consider the husband in the equation really aren't playing in the lifestyle....they're just fucking your wife. And if you're good with that, awesome! I was reacting to many men who think that being in the lifestyle means denegrading the husband and ignoring him...and I'm in full alignment with the points that have been made on this thread earlier, there are all kinds of dynamics. And first order of business for any long term lifestyle player is to understand what your interests are and do they match with the couple your playing with....if yes, carry on.... If so, bugger off and don't bitch about the dynamic once you get there.
In all honesty - I think there are bullshit players on both sides of the equation - the couples also need to be clear of their interests with the bull as well...so I'm mainly advocating for communication
I could not agree with you more we all have to be on the same card for it to work long term, youre right on target, thank you
In one of Life's great, twisted tragedies... The external hard drive I saved them on CRASHED
I lost all my writings plus lots of memories. Someone suggested I do a recovery but I heard it's expensive
BUMP
I have never had an issue what the husband/boyfriend being in the room. I never understood how someone could claim to be in the LS, but only want to play one-on-one. I have seen Bulls that go the parties and get upset because the hubby will not let him have one-on-one time with the wife. With that being said, I get turned by the hubby watching me fuck his wife and take her to sexual heights he can’t take her. It does not mean that hubby and wife don’t have a satisfactory sex life. But the sex she gets from me (or any Bull) is not what she can get from him. Which is the point. Plus, my goal is to sexually please her by sexing her while giving him a good show so they both want a repeat. The only issue I do have with the hubby there is that I hate the “coaching hubby”. I never will claim to be the ultimate lover, but I don’t need to coached on how to fuck. I don’t mine 1 or 2 suggestions about what the wife likes, but not on every stroke. Lol. So, to sum up, I am cool with the hubby there. It adds to the sexual experience.
