Hubby is usually at the door handling everything while I'm playing.That sucks you can't find enough people to attend a cuckold party! Looks like you'd throw an awesome party, too! At the same time, I can understand people's hesitation to go. I feel some people in this lifestyle are a bit private. Have you tried make a post/ event on fetlife?
Also, another, more important question - what's hubby doing when you and your bulls are partying?