He is not a lover, nor will he be but I still love him
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If you are unable to talk to him about this or he isn't open to discussing it, you have four choices: continue as you are and remain unsatisfied, cheat on him, leave him or get professional help.
I suggest that you get him to go to a marriage counselor that specializes in intimacy and sexual issues with you and see if perhaps this helps to make him understand your needs and how to find ways to accommodate you.
At the very least it could help the two of you begin to communicate better.
You say he has always been disinterested in sex, but has he ever been tested for low testosterone or other issues that can cause low libido?
I don't know if he has or not, I just know he was always like this.
Then you should go with him to his next physical and discuss it with his doctor so that he will do the ******* panel to see if that may be part of the problem.
They can if not fitted properly. Otherwise they are more of a discomfort when your cock tries to become erect.
As with anything else, if used improperly there is a possibility of injury.
However, the most common are minor: fluid retention, bruising, skin rash and superficial laceration. These are usually caused by improper fitting of the device, allergic reaction to the materials the device is made from, poor hygiene and, in the case of the hard plastic types, splits in the plastic can catch and tear the skin.
The more drastic injuries, although less common are infection due to the mentioned rashes and/or lacerations if left untreated and deep bruising which under extremely rare circumstance could result in a ******* clot.
Using a properly fitted, medical grade stainless steel or other hypoallergenic material device with due consideration to proper hygiene and of the activities one participates in, is relatively safe.
Keep in mind that some activities may need to be discontinued or modified to accommodate the use of the device such as bicycle riding and other sports or work functions that may cause a restriction of movement or pressure on the device.
While actual injury due to the use of a properly fitted and maintained device is unlikely, there will be some discomfort inherent to it's use.
Obviously, full erection is impossible unless one utilizes a cage large enough to permit one, orgasm is also extremely difficult if not impossible, occasional pinching of skin, needing to sit to urinate and the weight of the unit as well as the limits it places on your movements may be annoying at times. Of course, some of these discomforts (ie: inability to orgasm or masturbate) are desirable as they are intended as part of the experience. Just the weight of the unit alone serves as a constant reminder that one's sex life is under the control of another and tends to keep you focused on pleasing your key-holder.
There is also the slight possibility of having a testicle squeezed through the capture ring if too large a ring is used and enough pressure is exerted pulling the device away from the body. While not damaging, this can be extremely painful, especially if the testicle is caught and stays caught until you can ******* it back out of the ring. Similar to someone squeezing your testicle between their fingers.
Truly an experience one will be careful to not repeat, especially if it occurred in public and one had to wait to access a restroom or other private area in order to gain relief.
Again, this is avoidable with proper fitting of the ring.
Chastity is not for everyone, but for the couples who enjoy tease and denial games or use of it in D/s relationships, it can be a great addition. Considering the number of men who have purchased and used these devices for the many decades they have been available and the lack of any identified injuries due to their use or any qualified studies to indicate adverse health effects, other than those I have addressed here, it is a relatively safe activity as long as the proper precautions are exercised.
Where do you buy these from?
So, basically, you're just trolling now, eh?
we all know your opinion on the matter, so why keep it up?
you've made you point loud and clear, dude. Why keep beating the dead horse?
Again, Jesse, I never claimed to be a doctor and I never called you an idiot. As far as you being totally wrong, I would never accuse you of that either, as even a broken clock is correct twice a day.
I did state that the nonsense you were spouting was just that: nonsense as it was based on NOTHING but supposition and opinion by a source that even admitted having no first hand experience and that there were NO studies to support his opinion.
If you choose to accept your source's opinion as fact, you are free to do so. I, however, prefer to base my decisions regarding the subject on my own experiences and that of others.
While there is ZERO documented medical history of study regarding the use of chastity devices, there is a wealth of information available on line from those who actually use them, detailing both the problems and fixes that they have experienced.
I have always explained the various issues regarding chastity device use as far as the inherent dangers and how to avoid them. I try to make sure that anyone considering their use learn about proper fit, hygiene and consideration for things like allergic reactions and poor craftsmanship. All you do is spout "THE SKY IS FALLING!" and allude to racist crap like black men wanting white penises to stop working and oxygen deprivation.
If your real issue is that you have a driving need to compete with me, please stop wasting your time and the website's bandwidth.
It seems that the effects of living alone on a ranch with only sheep and a mule to converse with is much more detrimental than loosing a little sleep due to being woke up by the occasional nocturnal erection while in chastity.
Sheep are kewl ... 
Look folks, Jesse often speaks from his heart, not his "grey matter". He's the kind of guy that would pull over and help you with a flat tire or road side emergency ... I think he's a sincere guy that takes things at face value. We could probably be a bit more like him in some ways. Mac
Look folks, Jesse often speaks from his heart, not his "grey matter". He's the kind of guy that would pull over and help you with a flat tire or road side emergency ... I think he's a sincere guy that takes things at face value. We could probably be a bit more like him in some ways. Mac
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I think that all white men should serve the Superior Black Race, we have become sexual servants to both Black men and women and I feel that it's very proper for our masters to get in our faces and remind us of our place in this new world order and follow the white womens lead and allow ourselves to be used and degraded for their pleasure!!! It's the only good thing that the white race can do to repay the Black race for all of our mistakes!!!
New World Order, huh? Similar to Africa, maybe? Corrupt political governance, blurred borders, sects & tribes running amuk with their death squads, rebel groups, coups, radical islamists ... yeah, we really need that kind of New World Order alright! Love to sun on the beaches of Somalia while my house is being robbed and family killed.
Is this the New World Order you wish to turn the country over too?
If you wish to concede in living your life as a subservient due to learning some exciting expression as "new world order" , go right ahead. Personally, I suspect you don't have the slightest clue as to ramifications of what you desire. "Yeah, new world order ... take what you want ... do what you want ... screw the human rights of everyone ... screw laws and governing!"
As for me, I'll take my chances in the trenches of a more civilized society.
Is this the New World Order you wish to turn the country over too?
If you wish to concede in living your life as a subservient due to learning some exciting expression as "new world order" , go right ahead. Personally, I suspect you don't have the slightest clue as to ramifications of what you desire. "Yeah, new world order ... take what you want ... do what you want ... screw the human rights of everyone ... screw laws and governing!"
As for me, I'll take my chances in the trenches of a more civilized society.
Clayton Elmy
Couple
A civilized society where you are a cuckold in a chastity cage and your wife is fucking and sucking and breeding with immigrants from the Congo! Yes that is a civilized society I can get behind. I support you in your struggle Mac. The sooner you accept the process, the happier you will be. Accept your position. You know you want it.
