thanks, she wouldnt do a gang bang yet, she is curious about going on a vacation and dressing up to meet someone but not a gang bang, we did post on a swing site and have been invited to a party but as i said not ready for that yet. what is a social gathering, where do we find out about them?Swing parties can take on about any form that a person can imagine. There can be everything from orgies to one on one encounters and anything in between. The cardinal rule of the vast majority of swing clubs is "consenting adults" everyone is a legal adult and no means no. If you are looking to add spice to you life contact a swing club in your area and find out when they plan to have a social gathering. At a social gathering like a mixer you can meet people that share you fantasies and may very well get pointed in the right direction to fulfill them. Unless you female half is accustomed to a large man I would not recommend a gangbang until she has some idea what she is capable of handling. In a swing club you can often be introduced to someone that can properly initiate her into the world of large men