I think you have to be safe about it - doing it with Bulls who are tested and/or you really know. But then, it's the only way....
Even then, there are risks. I guess I should mention here, as I wrote about elsewhere last fall when it happened, my GF did get pregnant from our play with the Bulls, even though she is the serious safe-sex one and thought she was well enough protected. That was an unwelcome and not-fun episode, though it could have happened in any situation or relationship.
Lanie
We got lucky, and got hooked up with some Bulls who also play on the swinger scene, so they have paperwork and expect it....Exactly. It’s a different story if you know them or they can prove they’re clean being regularly tested but I can’t ever remember a guy at a meet offering to show me paperwork.
Tell me about the risks....There are risks, but there are also ways to minimize them. You can never be 100% certain about anything, but we feel that this experience wouldn't be worth it if we had to be paranoid instead of enjoying it to the fullest. Laura has taken all her black lovers so far without condoms, and we plan to keep it that way.
Test results and knowing the guy a bit to be able to trust him go a long way in disease prevention, and she's on the pill, which isn't 100% effective in preventing pregnancy either, but only abstaining really is. You have to look at it as a bit of an added thrill and excitement to enjoy it...
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