This topic comes up from time to time. In my personal experience, I was "turned out" by a GF who started with just a finger during a BJ, but we progressed to pegging, and she actively encouraged me to take cock and to fantasize about it. I wasn't "pussy free" - I'd fuck her to an orgasm or two, but by the end, after she'd gotten hers, she'd push me off and pull out the strap on (double ended) and encourage me to only have a "sissygasm"...she didn't really call it that, but she would always make a point of commenting on how much louder and harder I came, how hard my cock got, and how much more cum I produced from getting fucked in the ass. I had to admit that all of that was true: the orgasm was more intense (and up until then, my greatest orgasms were from fucking her in the ass). She encouraged me to look for a gay boyfriend; she would talk about how much I would just love feeling a guy shoot up my ass (get bred bareback), and swallow cum. I just never really found men attractive particularly (I tried), and while I find cocks beautiful (and BBC in particular) and some men handsome, with only one or two exceptions (both black guys), I never really had the same kind of *******/instinctual sexual attraction that I routinely experience with women. With that particular ex, I was (and this remains my top fantasy) always turned on by her getting fucked, preferably in multiple holes. This always took the form of dildos and me - I encouraged her to ponder getting fucked by other guys (in addition to me), but she wasn't into it.
After we split up, I did all of that, and I did it with a few BBCs. I agree with the advice to just do it. You will either get pulled into it totally and be addicted (and discover you are indeed more on the gay end of the spectrum), or you'll get it out of your system - even if you enjoy it, you may find that you still really like women better. That's what I found. I also found that I just love getting fucked in the ass...like seriously love it, and am "built to take dick". I have now had a number of male partners, mostly FWBs - gay tops who were happy to have a regular friend/fuck buddy. In particular a BBC "on the DL". Just do it. The only downside is discovering that you like both and that getting both is hard to do - the hardest part is finding a woman into this and willing to journey into this with you. That's what I come to this site for the most: to see the comments from women who are into it.
So, kind of a yes and no answer to your question. I enjoyed cumming from getting fucked immensely - for a while there in my life (about a year and a half) that was pretty much the only way I came (though I did get pussy and ass). If I met a woman/partner who was into being a BBC slut/Hotwife AND really was into me cumming from getting fucked,I'd probably be fine with it. I don't get turned on by being pussy free, and I wouldn't quit desiring to fuck my female partner just because I also had access to cock, but I would certainly be quite happy I think to have a female partner who was into the rest of it if the price of admission was being limited to things like giving her oral (I'm not a fan of cleanup, but I do love giving a woman oral).
EDIT: I would agree with those who say the terminology and labels are just overwrought, particularly here. I said I've got almost zero attraction to men - I think that's true. IRL, I pretty much publicly label as straight, just because I'm 100% hetero-romantic, and bisexuality is an unattractive trait to the vast majority of straight *and bi* women out there (this is nuts to me, but repeated survey data don't lie). All that said, I definitely just consider myself bisexual, because in terms of sexual behavior, I have thoroughly and shamelessly enjoyed sex with both men and women.
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