Well, I had what I thought was a good possibility with a guy from here. We had some fun together, or so it seemed, but he turned out to not be able to handle the age difference (he was younger). We had a pretty good connection to go on, or so I thought. Apparently, I was wrong. I was left with the feeling of being just another notch on the belt, which is not what I was aiming for.
I'm more careful now in my choices, even in who to meet at all, and don't trust my first impressions anymore. The only other local guy is from a different site, and , as far as how he treats me is concerned, he is worlds ahead of the guy on this one.
Even if the woman is willing, it doesn't necessarily mean that the guy will automatically want to go ahead.I guess it's always a lot easier for women to meet men in this site. Men usually have to wait until a lady or her man feel comfortable going through with it. Men are pretty much a go when it's ladies willing to meet up. On this site their seem to be a lot of fakers and Chat typing Queens.
Even if the woman is willing, it doesn't necessarily mean that the guy will automatically want to go ahead.
Well, I'm not a fake, so I guess I know where the rest of the answer lies. I think guys are looking for a woman with a model's figure, a perfect body and face. They turn away a real woman because she has flaws that they can't handle.Only if a man just don't like what he see or thinks she is a fake. Besides that we are ready to roll.
Well, I'm not a fake, so I guess I know where the rest of the answer lies. I think guys are looking for a woman with a model's figure, a perfect body and face. They turn away a real woman because she has flaws that they can't handle.
That's a nice attitude to have.Well that's TV that influences all these people. I like women period Big, Fat, Short or Tall. Where do u live?
Aren't u married? What are u looking for a relationship?That's a nice attitude to have.
I'm in Toronto, but not looking.to start anything at a distance. Thanks, though.
Yes, I'm married but hubby gives me his blessing to play.Aren't u married? What are u looking for a relationship?
I have been part of a group for several years and I guess I had forgotten how difficult it is to connect with someone compatible. Your head is in the right place and your expectations are realistic. Patience is required. The worst mistake you can make is to lower your standards. Sounds like that you have found someone that can curl your toesYes, I'm married but hubby gives me his blessing to play.
Any man I get involved with will need to understand that my husband will always be my husband and he will always come first. Beyond that, I look for intelligence, wit and, in general, that intangible "connection". Not looking for love, but there should at least be friendship and respect.
Thanks, Torpedo! Yes, he does curl my toes. ;-)I have been part of a group for several years and I guess I had forgotten how difficult it is to connect with someone compatible. Your head is in the right place and your expectations are realistic. Patience is required. The worst mistake you can make is to lower your standards. Sounds like that you have found someone that can curl your toes
I think there are a lot of people like me that are more interested in sharing ideas and opinions than we are in meeting people. I have all the pussy I could possibly want or need locally. So hooking up isn't something I am after. I do enjoy conversing with people that share the lifestyleIt seems to me that there are a lot of CHATTERS on this Site and no DOERS! People on here talk a good game I see, but when it's time to meet up they disappear. I would like to here from the people who had success.
Exactly, for that reason I think this site is very succesful. There is no way I could discuss with my family, friends or work colleagues about having a QoS tatt to attract black guys, or preferring a cock up my bum to having it in my mouth. You can talk about things that you have done or would like to do. I have also made 'friendships' on here with guys, they are mainly friendly, sexy and dont push the rudeness limits.I think there are a lot of people like me that are more interested in sharing ideas and opinions than we are in meeting people. I have all the pussy I could possibly want or need locally. So hooking up isn't something I am after. I do enjoy conversing with people that share the lifestyle
I don't think a site like this would appeal to me as a way of meeting people. Long before I joined the group I had no problems meeting people. I have always preferred getting to know a person to some extent before sharing a bed. Self preservation was once a much more major concern in past years there is always a certain risk of a black man being set up by some bigoted ass. Mainly though I have always preferred to know the person that I am sharing my bed with. It also gives the opportunity to exchange medical information, birth control and things that most people don't think about in the heat of the moment. It is probably a good part of the reason that I am 62 YO and disease freeExactly, for that reason I think this site is very succesful. There is no way I could discuss with my family, friends or work colleagues about having a QoS tatt to attract black guys, or preferring a cock up my bum to having it in my mouth. You can talk about things that you have done or would like to do. I have also made 'friendships' on here with guys, they are mainly friendly, sexy and dont push the rudeness limits.