Are some men born as natural cuckolds?

Borncuckold

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As you can tell from my username I consider myself to have been born a cuckold. Let me explain why and what this means. First, nature clearly has multiple examples of cuckolding. Situations where the female seeks the dominate male for impregnation and a beta male for maternal care or groups in which there is a single dominate male who has full sexual rights over the females of the group. In the situations the beta males naturally take their place as providers, caregivers and companions to the females. (Sex for them is often rare if ever and they accept this.) The wide spread interest and practice of cuckolding among humans combined with research that shows this practice was present among ancient tribal groups, suggest that humans are also designed for cuckolding relationships. If this is the case and clearly there is more evidence for than against! Than there are males who are born to be alpha bulls and males that are born to be beta cuckolds.
I consider myself to obviously be a beta cuckold for the following reasons. The most obvious indication is the fact that I have very small testicles and a small penis. So, naturally I am not physically designed to be a bull. Also, a very real scientific paper recently stated that men with small testicles make better dads. (For the record, yes I am a great highly involved dad!) This points once again to cuckolds being born and not "made." The research shows all the reasons that there is a direct link between small testicles and faithful men who are naturally great caregivers. This is what cuckolds; not the men who have the sex but rather the men who care for the females and their young after the alphas provided for them sexually.
Personally, I have always been the a beta to any female I have been with. And certainly willing to stay loyal and forgive any infidelity on her part. (Before I was married I had two girlfriends cheat on me and I "forgave" them both and tired to "make it work." One stayed with me for several more months and yes she cheated several more times. The other was ready to end the relationship when I found out about her cheating on me.) My wife cuckold me after four years of marriage and I was not only fine with it, I encouraged her to do so. I was not "into" interracial cuckolding before marriage, that was something my wife basically introduced to me.
After we had been married a few years I got her to open up about her fantasies and past experiences. She told me that when she was in high school she had a black friend whom she danced with one night at a school dance. He got close and started grinding his cock up against her and became erect. She said it was by far the biggest cock she had ever felt and bigger than she dreamed of or thought possible. (This was the early 80's before internet porn. For the most part small town southern white girls did not know about big black cock. And when they did hear about them white guys assured them it was a "myth.") She said that after that she would masturbate over and over thinking about his big cock.
This lead to us watching interracial porn together and of course our mutual interest in big black cock. Now I do not even like the idea of cuckolding that involves white men it and neither does she! Over our 24 years of marriage my wife has cuckold me with four black men. Two of which were long term relationships! I have never been jealous or upset about this at all instead I accepted it and loved every minute of it. In fact, at the time she does not have a bull in her life and I honestly wish she would! Anyway, back to the my understanding of means to be a naturally born cuckold and why I say that I am one. Hopefully, you have enjoyed this and maybe you relate to it. I would love the hear other peoples thoughts and experiences on the subject!
 
I am with you on this one... I definitively was born to be cuckolded I understood my situation early in my marriage, (even when I have no idea about the word Cuckold or that I was one, so I accepted it since the beginning of our marriage and we still together after all these years!!!
 
Sharing more of my thoughts regarding natural cuckolds.
Some men believe that because they are strong leaders or successful business men in the public life they must not be "naturally born cuckolds" They tell themselves that for them this is something contrary to their personality and must simply be an form of relief from their day to day stress and that they are alpha males as evidenced by their work life. I disagree with this and while it may help some men deal with the emotions of being a cuckold, it is not reality. Instead I think we should look at it this way and yes I am speaking from personal experience.
Cuckolds in nature provide different "benefits" to the table than alpha do and therefor they are designed to be good a certain things. What do they provided to their females (or in nature the females of the community) they provide provision, emotional support and nurture to young. All of which require various skills in the nature but in human terms they require a good work ethic and some degree of competence in business.
Personally, I have always been a good provider with a high work ethic. (Although I have learned to take it easy as I have gotten older. But that was after providing a good life for my wife and children.) This is not at odds with being a cuckold, my ability to take charge in public does not disqualify my natural cuckold tendencies, instead they reflect them. I am man who puts his wife and her needs first, so I naturally go out and try to be a good provider, after all that is one of the things I bring to the relationship. (That does not mean that is all I am, we also have a great emotional bond and as I said in the first post I am an attentive dad.) All of this is in harmony with my wiliness to "step aside" in sexual matters. After all I always want the best for my wife and while I can provide care in a number of ways, I am not really good at providing raw sexual pleasure. As you can see being a leader publicly does not disqualify a man as a naturally born cuckold, it may even prove the point.
I think you will find a number of white men who fit this description perfectly and are like myself naturally born to be cuckolds.
I plan to share more on this matter in coming post. And hopefully we can have a good conversation about this. If nothing else I hope to help other cuckolds out there come to terms with their desires. (I know that this can be difficult.)
 
Thank you for your input Lana Chambers. I agree with you completely. I hope that one day cuckolds will find social acceptance and the ability to feel comfortable embracing who they are. Personally, I have come to terms with being a cuckold however, I know this was not easy. It was not easy understanding the progression of it neither was it always easy explaining how I really felt with my wife. Not because she was not accepting, it was because I had to overcome what I had been taught. As more and more couples get involved in cuckolding the understanding of a cuckold as a sexual orientation and not simply a "kinky game" some people get into will hopefully emerge and be understood.
 
I am a 51yo cuckold, and every single partner, gf or wife I have ever had has either cheated on me or seeked sex outside of what i've been able to offer. Even as a teen, I would date girls yet get no sex at all, (I was a virgin until 22yo) yet was still happy to buy them gifts, help them with things and was totally understanding if they wanted to end the relationship to date someone else that became sexual.

This whole time I was masturbating 4-5 times a day, but was never angry or upset that they didn't want me sexually. I dated a girl for 6 months and all I got was to eat her pussy, suck on her tits and finger her. From memory she gave me a few hanjobs, but never put my cock in her mouth or her pussy. Yet, I was totally ok with it, and its been like that for me ever since, for the last 35 years, masturbating is 99% of sexual release for me and I know always will be.

I remember the first time I was properly cuckolded, my stomach was tied in knots, but I would jerk off to the most amazing, powerful orgasms and although they became very addictive and still are, I felt for the first time in my life, the planets had aligned and I discovered the true me. I haven't questioned it in the last 30 years and still to this day I still find it exhilarating and where I need to be.

Eating my wifes used pussy or going sloppy seconds on her for me is the most honest and liberating act I know and always feel at peace once I've cummed.
 
Thought I should add a picture of my little penis. I think everyone will agree this is not a dick designed for sex.
Even erected, I barely hit the 3 inches, but you still probably smaller than me.
I totally relate to what you described, I am a great dad but my sex skills suck I am not only small, I ejaculate prematurely and I have never been able to pleasure my wife during intercourse (want to clarify she is the only woman I had have sex with, I was a virgin when we married), the only very few orgasm I have been able to give to my wive had been w my fingers and while licking her, and not always could make it happen.Trying to satisfy my wife sexually was too stressful for me and never really enjoyed it, since I accepted my condition, and let others to perform my sexual duties for me, I found out that I enjoy more just masturbating while watching my wife with others than having intercourse w her, and we decided to base our marriage on thet type of relationship, of course when we toke that decision we did not know anything about cuckolding, not even that is was such a common situation, but had
been our life style since our second year of marriage

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Evari Nico, Thanks for sharing and for the comment regarding my little dick! I always appreciate it when someone points out how small my penis is. Your experience is a lot like mine and many more cuckolds and it all confirms the fact that some of us are born to be cucks to our wife.
 
Evari Nico, Thanks for sharing and for the comment regarding my little dick! I always appreciate it when someone points out how small my penis is. Your experience is a lot like mine and many more cuckolds and it all confirms the fact that some of us are born to be cucks to our wife.

My God your tiny. I don't even know if that can be called a cock.

It's like a faucet nub.
 
I think I was. I've had many gfs and while I'm a great companion, I don't think I've ever given one an orgasm. I'm not built to be a sexual partner and cuckolding seems my natural place. From the first time I was exposed to BBC and cuckold I became obsessed. Plus, I've always loved humiliation, especially when its by my partner (I still remember and get off too when a partner of mine laughed out loud when she first saw me naked).IMG_1319.JPG
 
Here is a post I wrote earlier that I think applies to this discussion. You can tell it was in response to a question, but I think the point still comes across.
Is it natural, that is a good question. It is natural now because of integration. Hear me out on this. Cuckolding beta males is natural in nature. Alpha males provide the seed and beta males take care of the children and the women. So, years ago in Europe there would have been alpha males among white men. (Not alpha compared to black men, just alpha among their peers.) Now that we live in a society filled with black and white males the white males are quickly and naturally becoming cuckolds. Thanks to the Internet this is happening at an incredibly fast rate. So yes, in society as it is today we (white males) are clearly the cuckold males and will all be happier when we embrace our rightful role!
 
Here is a post I wrote earlier that I think applies to this discussion. You can tell it was in response to a question, but I think the point still comes across.
Is it natural, that is a good question. It is natural now because of integration. Hear me out on this. Cuckolding beta males is natural in nature. Alpha males provide the seed and beta males take care of the children and the women. So, years ago in Europe there would have been alpha males among white men. (Not alpha compared to black men, just alpha among their peers.) Now that we live in a society filled with black and white males the white males are quickly and naturally becoming cuckolds. Thanks to the Internet this is happening at an incredibly fast rate. So yes, in society as it is today we (white males) are clearly the cuckold males and will all be happier when we embrace our rightful role!
I agree. I am definietely a natural born one. I remember when I was younger and my ex-wife first started cuckolding me and when I discovered what a cuckold was and their place. Everything finally made sense to me and was finally at peace with myself. I thought I had to get laid as much as my male friends were and satisfy women sexually to be a considered normal, but I found out I was a cuckold, all of a sudden, for me it was ok to not succeed sexually and be fine with it. I realised alphas get pussy, beta less so and I came to terms with that 30 years ago, and still to this day I embrace it.
 
Good for you slinky it is very liberating to accept yourself for who you really are. I am happy for you! And there is nothing wrong with either of us. We actually provide our wives with everything they really need. Support, companionship and the wiliness to understand that we lack the ability to provide she is able to get elsewhere! And by doing so she is supporting the strong sexual needs of black alpha males, who deserve access to multiply women. I think every strong black man should have as many white wives as he desires. And this becomes possible when those wives have cuckold husbands to come to. The more you think about it the better it is!
 
Good for you slinky it is very liberating to accept yourself for who you really are. I am happy for you! And there is nothing wrong with either of us. We actually provide our wives with everything they really need. Support, companionship and the wiliness to understand that we lack the ability to provide she is able to get elsewhere! And by doing so she is supporting the strong sexual needs of black alpha males, who deserve access to multiply women. I think every strong black man should have as many white wives as he desires. And this becomes possible when those wives have cuckold husbands to come to. The more you think about it the better it is!
Agree. There is no doubt in the world my mental health would have suffered had I had to pretend to be anything other than a beta cuck, to live a lie is no good for your mind or soul. My wife is the main bread winner, I do all the domestic chores, I get very little sex in return and yet I live a very happy existance. I still mastubate a lot, but she is always encouraging of that, so I don't suffer any real sexual frustration. I think beta cuckolds have existed in a lot species for millions of years, so if you are naturally one nothing feels more right that living that life.

I have spoken to bulls who also have this primal need to breed other mens wives and argued its not something they can switch off, many have told me the feeling they get from impregnating a woman who is married and needing to breed her goes beyond a kink thing.
I think part of the driver for them as alphas is being able to impregnate a woman and then knowing they can move on to the next one while not having the responsibility of looking after the baby and knowing their offspring will be raised safely. I'm sure this is primal need/ urge for the cuck, the bull and the hotwife that goes back thousands/millions of years.
 
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gif_balloon.gifI won't disagree that a man, born with a small cock, is potentially more likely to become a cuckold in male-female relationships, BUT, there are probably as many, if not more, men with bigger than average cocks who have wives screwing around with other men as well. Folks, morality has drastically nosedived over the decades, and accelerated with the internet injection of sexual fantasies. Plus, its not just black men with large cocks who are Alphas simply because they have large cocks. Women are more liberalized these days and simply are doing "openly" what men have been doing openly for centuries ... desiring multiple sex partners and cheating. The white illegitimacy birth rate was just 2% back in 1950's ... its now well over 46% and increasing as fewer people get married, or marry late. Anyone can be a cuckold in a supposedly monogamous marriage ... hell, these days blowjobs are as frequent as a good night kiss after a hot date ... sex is enjoyable and people are doing it earlier and more often. I just read an article that said 1:7 girls in the US, under age 8, are entering puberty now. Everyone is exposed to more sex, and more varieties of sex, and the internet has made it much easier to hook up with like-minded people. So, let's not give too much credit to the mischiefs of mom nature and genetics. Society is changing and we're simply in the middle of what's changing.
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Wanted to add to this post and share a clip from another post I made that applies here. Also, Slinky thanks for sharing. And MacNFries agree to disagree.

Husbands should encourage them to embrace this natural desire. In high school my wife felt the huge erection of a young black man on her body while dancing. Having only seen a few white dicks all of which were small, she was overwhelmed with desire for his cock. She told me that the feeling and thought of his big black cock was all she would masturbate about for years. Having marred a typical white man she would have gone through her entire life never knowing the experiencing of fulfilling sex. Just imagine how many times she would have finished herself off (because my little dick was not able to get her) thinking, dreaming about his big cock! Well, thankfully she married the right man, because I did not want that for her. We started watching interracial porn, both enjoying the sight of bbc and the pleasure they provided. And before long she embraced me as her cuckold! One of the happiest days of my life, when she told me. We were in our car after a great date and on our way talking about sex, she opened up and said, "I know you want me to cuckold you. I know you are a cuckold. (I really loved her say that!) And, I will. I will cuckold you." Before long she did and it was great for both of us. So, white husband listen up, you should encourage your wives to cuckold you!
 
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