Anyone Noticed This Over Years In The Lifestyle?
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Any situation with the husband going on an on with email or wanting to chat is one that's going nowhere. I'm speaking from experience. Know the signs. Don't waste your time.Exactly. The amount of endless emails I get with the male half is damn near insane. I remember I had a couple in my city, and the male half had me talking with them for damn near two months, only for them to flake the night we were supposed to meet.
Just stringing you along dog
******* i thought i was the only one who felt like over the year's seems like it's a common problem that waste most of the time plus the rise of Bi hubbies is an issue for meetings to. I'm just not down to swing in that direction and more dude's letting themselves go gay for play. Oh Hell Naw!
You're not the only one. A rule and not the exception is, chances are if you experienced something, you're not the only one.
It is what I is. I learned to respectfully tell the woman, look . . . you're down but your hubby is not. He is not a cuck. The thing to do after that is bounce, because any more talk just means wasting more of your time.
So it's plain old vanilla sex for them onward. None of your business.
And that gay or bi stuff is deffo out of the question.
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Yes, it's mostly a gay website now. Call it bi or whatever. You know what I mean. It's a gay couples site.
I know there is a percentage of people here. With no respect for themselves. And will degrade themselves for pussy or dick. And content. That's you. Whatever floats your boat. But don't ******* people down your rabbit hole of perversion
We were swingers for a long while during our time on this planet, I loved watching and talking,and encouraging my Wife in Her pursuit of sexual pleasure.
I also had my fair share of sexual encounters with other woman.
All through the time My Wife discovered the joys of sex with well endowed black men, I have never been aroused by any of the guys as a man to man relationship.
I loved having sex with my wife, without any mention of Her other lovers just about our long term relationship, which after some 50 plus years of marriage, We still cherish in our 70,s.
However I also loved seeing Her have other men, and at times She enjoyed watching me have sex with other woman.
Sometimes we both joined in.
So the point I am trying to make is that not everyone wants to lick other Mens cocks or clean up, as some people put it, but If that’s what floats your boat then ok.
I admit I love watching Her in action, I love talking to Her about all the different sexual adventures Her and Her black/coloured boyfriend had over the years.
On the occasions I was invited to watch the proceedings I enjoyed it very much, also afterwards having sex with my wife, just the two of us.
We have had a long and Happy Marraige , although as we now get older, and see the changes in the lifestyle, I must say, We both would like to be in what We both see as much more enlightened times as to those We played in.
I also had my fair share of sexual encounters with other woman.
All through the time My Wife discovered the joys of sex with well endowed black men, I have never been aroused by any of the guys as a man to man relationship.
I loved having sex with my wife, without any mention of Her other lovers just about our long term relationship, which after some 50 plus years of marriage, We still cherish in our 70,s.
However I also loved seeing Her have other men, and at times She enjoyed watching me have sex with other woman.
Sometimes we both joined in.
So the point I am trying to make is that not everyone wants to lick other Mens cocks or clean up, as some people put it, but If that’s what floats your boat then ok.
I admit I love watching Her in action, I love talking to Her about all the different sexual adventures Her and Her black/coloured boyfriend had over the years.
On the occasions I was invited to watch the proceedings I enjoyed it very much, also afterwards having sex with my wife, just the two of us.
We have had a long and Happy Marraige , although as we now get older, and see the changes in the lifestyle, I must say, We both would like to be in what We both see as much more enlightened times as to those We played in.
That makes sense bro
Yeah, odds are if you're dealing with the husband/bf she isn't completely on board with the idea or she doesn't even know. For some reason a few of these guys think life is like a porn movie where you come around the wife and she'll just be okay with having sex with a stranger with no heads up.
Exactly and they don’t want to listen bro I just flat out ignore 99% of couples these days and it’s sad it has gone down this path in the last 5 years. Everyone coming out the closet now.
Real Talk bro
This happens on SDC a lot I notice and the hubbies are 99% of the issue in meetings with the wife because most have no idea. I been meeting more if I’m talking directly with both or the wife.Yeah, odds are if you're dealing with the husband/bf she isn't completely on board with the idea or she doesn't even know. For some reason a few of these guys think life is like a porn movie where you come around the wife and she'll just be okay with having sex with a stranger with no heads up.
Dont see why they would unless all talk, I dont like to mess about if my wife said I want to do it it would just be a case of finding the guy and getting on with it.
Quick story: met the husband half of a couple on CL (so yes, this was a while back). He and I messaged online, said he was trying to get someone to play with his wife but she was unsure about it. He and I hit it off really well. He arranged for me to meet her in person without him (she was taking classes at a place where I taught, so I met her after my class in the parking lot). She was all in once we met. Next message I got, dude had all kinds of rules for the meet. The switch was hilarious.
Note: I forgot to add this: Also the hubbies tell me their interested and come find out they have damn IDEA that they are on these sites. Like this happened to me last month on SDC. Hubby gave me wife’s number so I texted a clean and decent message and she was like “ Who Is This” and she had no idea hubby gave me her number so she cussed his ass out!
But… if she was clueless on who you were, how’d you find out he got in trouble? I wouldn’t think that he’d go and tell you he was in trouble for passing along unsolicited number… 
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