Anyone Noticed This Over Years In The Lifestyle?

[superdick33]

Anyone notice for the Blackmen on this site.
That if you deal directly with the “WIFE” you have way more chances of actually meeting them. I noticed this in the last 10+ years every time I deal with the Female half of the couple meeting is wayyy easier and less back and forth so with that said and this is on multiple sites also. If you can deal with the “Female” half you have 90% chance of meetings.

Here AFF/SDC/FETLIFE…etc most of the females actually try to meet.
So the Hubbies are usually the issue/factor for meeting.

 

[AnonymousRob]

My wife refuses to chat until I have screened a guy first. If he meets all our requirements, and isn’t an arrogant asshole (something we’ve run into a lot), I immediately forward them onto her and they chat for a while before we meet. It’s worked out for us.

 

[B Brown]

Bro, you're on point, as usual. More times than not, you may run into at least these two kinds of situations with husbands.

1) The wife may be very willing, and that is an understatement, but hubby is NOT, so that woman has but two options. None of them right. They are:

a) Cheat, if she's the kind of person who can or will do that, or . . .
b) Swallow it up. Meaning, watch her life, youth, and beauty go by, the years when she can enjoy the most of her sexuality, when she looks most appealing. Watch that go down the drain because of the man she opted to get married to, one who doesn't really turn her on. If he does so at all.
c) Get out of the trap if she can. But can she/they? Chances are the answer is no. The price(s) to pay is likely too high. Meaning the cost of living for the woman, the potential breakup of a family, etc. So, such women are caught between a rock and a hard place. Stay married but live a life of enduring frustration. Frustration to the max.

Another situation is:
2) The hubby may be more interested in being fucked than the wife or just as interested. Now if you're straight, you deffo want no part of that.

These are real life situations as you know. Honest and factual, stated because you know I'm not into the fantasy BS that's so prevalent around here. I tell it as it really is.

 

[superdick33]

My wife refuses to chat until I have screened a guy first. If he meets all our requirements, and isn’t an arrogant asshole (something we’ve run into a lot), I immediately forward them onto her and they chat for a while before we meet. It’s worked out for us.

Cool some hubbies are cool like you but the vast majority I dealt with just go around in circles a lot. But you get my point.

 

[superdick33]

Bro, you're on point, as usual. More times than not, you may run into at least these two kinds of situations with husbands.

1) The wife may be very willing, and that is an understatement, but hubby is NOT, so that woman has but two options. None of them right. They are:

a) Cheat, if she's the kind of person who can or will do that, or . . .
b) Swallow it up. Meaning, watch her life, youth, and beauty go by, the years when she can enjoy the most of her sexuality, when she looks most appealing. Watch that go down the drain because of the man she opted to get married to, one who doesn't really turn her on. If he does so at all.
c) Get out of the trap if she can. But can she/they? Chances are the answer is no. The price(s) to pay is likely too high. Meaning the cost of living for the woman, the potential breakup of a family, etc. So, such women are caught between a rock and a hard place. Stay married but live a life of enduring frustration. Frustration to the max.

Another situation is:
2) The hubby may be more interested in being fucked than the wife or just as interested. Now if you're straight, you deffo want no part of that.

These are real life situations as you know. Honest and factual, stated because you know I'm not into the fantasy BS that's so prevalent around here. I tell it as it really is.

Exactly that’s why I started this thread because 90% of women I meet is when I talk to them FIRST and then they ask their husbands and then i talk to the hubby after at a meet and greet. So point is I can build attraction with the wife and then when hubby is onboard things go smoothly. Vetting happens at a meet and greet. No time wasters.

 

[AA23]

You’re right on point bro

 

[beenblackened]

That's why I'm the one on here and hubby stays away. Besides I'm the one that started this lifestyle not him.

 

[B Brown]

That's why I'm the one on here and hubby stays away. Besides I'm the one that started this lifestyle not him.

You are very fortunate
There are women who would love to have a hubby like yours.

 

[superdick33]

Good to see y’all agree my best meets are directly with the WIFE! Attraction from jump and if not I just keep it pushing. Hubbies waste time with the back and forth well at least 90% of them.

 

[Orion Pax]

Anyone notice for the Blackmen on this site.
That if you deal directly with the “WIFE” you have way more chances of actually meeting them. I noticed this in the last 10+ years every time I deal with the Female half of the couple meeting is wayyy easier and less back and forth so with that said and this is on multiple sites also. If you can deal with the “Female” half you have 90% chance of meetings.

Here AFF/SDC/FETLIFE…etc most of the females actually try to meet.
So the Hubbies are usually the issue/factor for meeting.

Now that I agree with you.

 

[superdick33]

Now that I agree with you.

 

[superdick33]

Note: I forgot to add this: Also the hubbies tell me their interested and come find out they have damn IDEA that they are on these sites. Like this happened to me last month on SDC. Hubby gave me wife’s number so I texted a clean and decent message and she was like “ Who Is This” and she had no idea hubby gave me her number so she cussed his ass out!

 

[Orion Pax]

There is a influx of gay men here. That has change the game

 

[superdick33]

There is a influx of gay men here. That has change the game

Yeah man you right it’s ridiculous bruh

 

[Orion Pax]

Also there many couples here insisting you be bi to interact with them. Do not go down this path black men

 

[KBOZ69]

I used to screen all the guys first but after a while she would sit with me as we chatted and once she saw the pattern she just took over . For the best in the long run as we found out as the guys would speak more openly to her and she could weed out the bad ones quicker

 

[KBOZ69]

Hubby is bi but would rather watch or hear about my fun when I return home .
Some guys want his interaction others don't, either way it's not up to hubby .

 

[Orion Pax]

I generally avoid the bi male couples. It's just not my preference.

It's not about just this site. Have seen you the lastest trend in porn over the last couple of years?

 

[Orion Pax]

I barely watch porn these days, so I haven't. Enlighten me, please.

Chicks with dicks. And straight men being with them. I don't watch porn either very disgusting. And the interracial porn is degrading

 

[superdick33]

Also there many couples here insisting you be bi to interact with them. Do not go down this path black men

Exactly