I just feel like ranting a lil bit on the topic of "real" and "fakes".
Kate and I have been playing in this lifestyle for several years now. We have been stood up, we've been lied to, we've been tricked, (in person) I might add.. we've been shown so many times that there are people out there who get their kicks by seeing how far they can go with misleading someone else. It all just makes us wiser, and better prepared for vetting the next one.
HOWEVER, just because someone didn't take the time to "verify" or become a "real" person, doesn't mean they aren't real !!!
I'm not saying getting verified has no value.
If you can't seem to make things happen, sorry but, maybe its you.
We have met, became friends, and had great times, and even made videos with some guys on this site who have not been "verified".
I understand there are perverted guys here posing as a "couple".. and all sorts of anything you can imagine, but I'm saying there are also people here who are legit, that just do not care enough to go through the trouble of proving to anyone that they know how to crumple a pc of paper and take a pic of it.
Heres a possibility, just maybe, that person just isn't really into you after seeing a face pic.. or maybe the wife of the couple is being reserved while the husband is trying to get her interested, and then before shes had time to process hubby's wild ideas, you gave up and decided they must be fake?
I'll say this, 9 times out of 10, when you finally meet the person behind the keyboard, you'll find out they are more down to earth and "genuine" than you imagined, "verified" or not.
In general, its my opinion most people are humbled when they are looking you in the eye. By that time, all the bullshit is out the window.
Be real, treat every person as if you could actually be meeting them this coming weekend, don't pretend to be something you're not, don't be afraid of the truth, don't talk a bunch of stupid ******* you can't back up, and don't be so damn judgemental towards others !
Its not really complicated ! You may send us a message and we just simply not be interested based on what we see on your profile, or what we read in your postings, or better yet, you're 8 hours away.
We also understand that it goes both ways !
A lot of you are very quick to call someone a fake.
Just my 2 cents.
There are some good people hiding in the shadows that never say much.. mostly because they don't have the patience to weed through the dumb *******.
Point is, just because you didnt score, doesn't mean that person is fake.
Kate and I have been playing in this lifestyle for several years now. We have been stood up, we've been lied to, we've been tricked, (in person) I might add.. we've been shown so many times that there are people out there who get their kicks by seeing how far they can go with misleading someone else. It all just makes us wiser, and better prepared for vetting the next one.
HOWEVER, just because someone didn't take the time to "verify" or become a "real" person, doesn't mean they aren't real !!!
I'm not saying getting verified has no value.
If you can't seem to make things happen, sorry but, maybe its you.
We have met, became friends, and had great times, and even made videos with some guys on this site who have not been "verified".
I understand there are perverted guys here posing as a "couple".. and all sorts of anything you can imagine, but I'm saying there are also people here who are legit, that just do not care enough to go through the trouble of proving to anyone that they know how to crumple a pc of paper and take a pic of it.
Heres a possibility, just maybe, that person just isn't really into you after seeing a face pic.. or maybe the wife of the couple is being reserved while the husband is trying to get her interested, and then before shes had time to process hubby's wild ideas, you gave up and decided they must be fake?
I'll say this, 9 times out of 10, when you finally meet the person behind the keyboard, you'll find out they are more down to earth and "genuine" than you imagined, "verified" or not.
In general, its my opinion most people are humbled when they are looking you in the eye. By that time, all the bullshit is out the window.
Be real, treat every person as if you could actually be meeting them this coming weekend, don't pretend to be something you're not, don't be afraid of the truth, don't talk a bunch of stupid ******* you can't back up, and don't be so damn judgemental towards others !
Its not really complicated ! You may send us a message and we just simply not be interested based on what we see on your profile, or what we read in your postings, or better yet, you're 8 hours away.
We also understand that it goes both ways !
A lot of you are very quick to call someone a fake.
Just my 2 cents.
There are some good people hiding in the shadows that never say much.. mostly because they don't have the patience to weed through the dumb *******.
Point is, just because you didnt score, doesn't mean that person is fake.