Angelyn’s Article: The difference between male and female fantasies

[Angelyn]

I have said in the past, and reiterate it here. Alphaness in men exists separate from politics. I am sure that many of you know guys who dominate their company or organization or government. These guys can be total jerks. But they're alpha still.

P u t i n is an alpha male.

You don't have to like him or trust him to recognize that. I certainly do not like him nor trust him. I regard him as generally bad for the world. And only so-so for the Russians, since he leads an illiberal Russia that has regressed in many ways in order to have stability and social order. A very high price to pay. But it doesn't change the fact that P U t i n is alpha. Which his Ukrainian rival isn't. I'm sure most people haven't even heard of Poroshenko. If I were not a well read academic, I would probably not know this person existed either.

 

[eyespy07]

Wow, you're right. No idea who would do that. Think that's a first ever on here.

 

[Angelyn]

Nope, it is not by human agency. I've figured that this is an automatic thing, probably the work of some programmer having fun. Try spelling the name of the Russian leader and see if you can actually post it on this site without it being changed to the name of the Ukrainian leader.

I'm also going to try putting Rasputin the mad monk, lets see if I can post it without changes.

 

[Angelyn]

OK, as long as you don't spell the 5 letters out in a separate word, it can be posted.

Rasputin
Putina
Putinova

 

[Rikard]

very nice thread. I will follow this thread now.

 

[Angelyn]

Angelyn’s discussion of a fantasy scene in her mind, inspired by a Dutch and Spade music video If You Want It, followed by a porn move labelled Double Addicted BBC starring Jolee Love and May Thai with a bunch of BBCs.

This is my fantasy. It is not totally fiction, since parts of it are real and have happened to me at some time before, but I’ve never had hot sex that brings together all the elements together. So I’ll discuss the different elements and why they turn me on, and how some pornographer can make a video that addresses my needs. I know I’m hoping for a lot, since lots of these porn making guys are semi-literate fools, but one can hope, right?






I found that Dutch and Spade’s music video was quite exciting and very suitable content for the members of our site.


It basically consists of several narratives spliced together. There are black rappers with their usual moves singing and making hand gestures, black women lounging around in bikinis, scenes where a white girl is lying on a table as food is placed on her body and she is toyed with, and scenes where two white girls are on the ground playing with each other. Sometimes the black rappers stand over the white girls.


This is so hot because it hits all the right notes, pun intended.


I liked the sexualization of the white girls. It is very blatant.


All the black men are dressed, and they are standing or sitting for practically the entire video.


All the black women are wearing something – usually bikinis, although it could be underwear. They are also upright for most of the video, even if they often have sexual gestures such as sitting astride a motorcycle or swaying seductively.


The two white girls on the ground are horizonal and totally naked except for their heels for the entire video. They toy with each other shamelessly, often fingering and masturbating each other or licking cunt. They writhe on each other explicitly.


They start out making out on the hood of the car, but spend most of the time on the floor. They sometimes crawl naked on the floor at the feet of black men. Those who have followed me probably remember me gushing about video covers where the white actress is in some sexually suggestive position on the ground at the feet of black men.


There are scenes where a third white girl is lying on a table and writhing and playing with her body as a black man places food on her, removes her bikini and gropes her. Like the other two girls on the floor, this girl is naked and horizontal for the entire video.


As I have said before, status and social relationships are very important for women. Eroticism is dialed up when the white girls are reduced to the status of playthings. The body language clearly says in this video that the black male rappers are in charge and control. Their regular molls and lovers are the black women. The white women are just entertainment, scenery, sex objects. Obviously this is not what I want to see in real life. But when I’m in a nice private club and the theme or purpose of this club is sex, I can’t say how much I enjoy being able to leave my regular uptight self behind and be nothing more than a toy for lustful and dominant black men for hours.

 

[Angelyn]

This is the music video from the blacks' POV

 

[Angelyn]

This is what is going on for the two white girls on the floor. Pure abandonment of one's dignity to have sex sex and more sex

 

[Angelyn]

This is what is going on for the white girl on the table. She also abandons all her normal inhibitions

 

[Angelyn]

And this is what the blacks are doing. Notice how they are upright for the entirety of the video?

 

[Kuno]

Hegre Art seems to have made effort to appeal to women. They have featured IR.

 

[Angelyn]

Hegre Art seems to have made effort to appeal to women. They have featured IR.

Nope just slim women posing in sanitized, isolated, context free environments. It's for the male eye. Quite a strong turn off for me.

 

[eyespy07]

Was about to say that looked like some generic rap video from the late 90s early 2000s but that looked hot! Why haven't heard of this group before? The ladies are gorgeous though are most likely porn stars. Btw, have you heard of 2LiveCrew? Back in the day, their music videos were pretty wild.

 

[Angelyn]

oh, back in the day I loathed lyrics like theirs. I was much younger then... had no interest for men who sounded like uncultured morons. But now, I think even their rap has a place. You should play this kind of music in interracial blowbang flicks.

 

[Kuno]

Nope just slim women posing in sanitized, isolated, context free environments. It's for the male eye. Quite a strong turn off for me.

To be fair, Angelyn, you may not like it, but there are other women who might. Just as there who like Blacked and the copycat sites. Everybody realizes it's fantasy. At the same time, the girls generally seem to be enjoying it, even if some of the action (and reaction) is exaggerated. Think the female audience for this type of material is nevertheless somewhat significant.

 

[GTtool]

Back in the day, Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 weeks was a pre requisite for all my white sluts to see, because this is the lifestyle they would live being with dom like me. So know, up front, nothing sexual will be held back. Your are exciting Angelyn. What else are you hiding?

 

[eyespy07]

Back in the day, Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke in 9 1/2 weeks was a per-requisite for all my white sluts to see, because this is the lifestyle they would live being with dom like me. So know up front nothing sexual will be held back. Your are exciting Angelyn. What else are you hiding

I'm sure she's hiding quite a bit.

 

[baldkate]

What you said. You are 100% not lesbian but you feel an attraction for Erin Gilbert. I'm a special lesbian. Still. I rewcognize in you the way most feamles are. You want sex with a woman because thew sex ios about intimacy and it is not complicated asd with a man. I have never been with a man and I do not want to get together with a man.

 

[baldkate]

This is what is going on for the two white girls on the floor. Pure abandonment of one's dignity to have sex sex and more sex

I saw some very pretty lesbian girls making love. Would love to join them if I could.

 

[Angelyn]

What you said. You are 100% not lesbian but you feel an attraction for Erin Gilbert. I'm a special lesbian. Still. I rewcognize in you the way most feamles are. You want sex with a woman because thew sex ios about intimacy and it is not complicated asd with a man. I have never been with a man and I do not want to get together with a man.

baldkate, don't you have submission fantasies at times? Men do have their uses, you know. And why do you call yourself a special lesbian?

I like that Erin Gilbert character so much because she is so much like me. I so totally appreciated the part where Erin Gilbert was really embarrassed by her past associations. I haven't gone so far as to publish a book, but yes I have had some eccentric associations with people who later turned out to be nuts. On both sides of the political spectrum.

I think what most men can't accept, is that women often have fluid gender needs. Most women can have sex with other women without feeling guilt. And we're a lot better at stimulating each other. But it doesn't make us lesbians.

The funny thing is, I can't imagine myself being Lesbian. I mean, at significant times in my life, I feel I really need a man. I need a man to do certain things, to lean on, to carry my stuff. I've joked with my friends that I basically think of men as tools- ranging from the dildo part to the shopping cart and credit card part. But as silly as it sounds, my need is there. I don't know which part of my hetero brain is demanding for it, but I still crave men for their strength.

I can accept a lesbian pair where one is butch with the stereotypical short hair, deep voice, firm tone and the other is more feminine. But I still can't understand lesbian pairs where both are about the same. Without dominance and submission, without a leader or decision maker, I don't know how a pairing could work in the long run.

I think there are quite a lot of people like me who are tolerant of LGBs, but still unable to handle the social dynamic if they are equals. I have no problem calling the dominant lesbian a 'husband' and addressing her as Mr, but when both are wives who want equal quality time with their babies, I don't know how to react.