Angelyn’s Article: The difference between male and female fantasies

Angelyn

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Angelyn’s Article: The difference between male and female fantasies

Hello everyone

I have been lurking for a while, with minimum posting. But now I feel like posting some of my thoughts.


Brief intro of myself:

female, slim-mish without being outright skinny, small breasts and butt, holding both white and Asian identities, more than 40 years old, never married, professional academic and real-life nerd. Sexually adventurous but having only a fairly mediocre sex life. Currently I live in a country where I can’t really find an outlet for my fantasies. I am an avid consumer of interracial porn, but also not really that satisfied with most of the porn. My best friends are sex toys, because I’m not really sexually fulfilled by most men I meet. I am not a lesbian at all, yet I really enjoy sexual contact with women.


Why am I posting?

I need a sexual outlet. I fantasize a lot, but my nerd-side tells me to be careful. I can’t just abandon myself and run risks. Women’s sexual fantasies are difficult to fulfill safely. So I yearn for stuff that is often extreme, and which I frankly admit I dare not do in practice.

OK, to the meat of my story. I’m just gonna post my views, maybe not in completely organized format, and maybe in future I will correct or alter or rewrite my post until I’m satisfied. Some of my fantasies have taken place in real life, and others are imagined.

What I want:

I have intense fantasies about interracial sex. Big black men. The biggest black cocks. Muscles. Athletic dominance. Totally jet black skin that contrasts with mine. These are not real life black men/ African-American men but fantasy characters.

I want to be dominated, conquered, mastered and taken. I want to feel feminine, submissive, small. I want my master and I want to obey.

Hardcore porn is so close to what women want, yet it is subtly different because of male biases. The porn establishment aka biggest porn providers of interracial porn always fail in small but important ways to give white / Asian women what they want and need.
 
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Women As Sex Objects/ objectified


Women portrayed in submissive poses on porn covers

I find it very arousing to see women in submissive poses, but not in the same way as male porn consumers.

Men like to look at women. Women don’t really care about looking at women. I don’t appreciate breasts and butts at all. Especially since most pornstars have way more butt and breast than me, which I am turned off by.


What turns on men, turns off women. We’re critical of each other’s bodies, as well as our bodies. A man can enjoy watching a man with a bigger dick having fun. But I really can’t enjoy watching women with bigger breasts or butts having fun.



What turns on women however, are the SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS displayed. It’s a subtle, but telling difference.

So I don’t really care if the woman is beautiful or blonde or curvy or what. You guys can look at the woman and lust after her. I actually prefer if the woman is slimmish, with flattish chest and bottom, since I identify more with a woman like that.


Porn appeals to men’s fantasies about being masculine and powerful. But it also appeals to women’s desires to be submissive in the presence of virility and genetic strength. We women won’t be surrending our bodies to receive losers and weaklings’ sperm, would we?

I really find it arousing to see a white woman facing the camera on her elbows and knees, ass up and ass facing a bunch of black men in heavy jeans and boots and huge bulges in their pants.

Or a white woman squatting next to black penises at her eye level.

Or kneeling at some black men’s legs, with her clothes partly in disarray.

I like it when the white woman is being sexualized. She’s naked or scantily clad or being exposed (eg by having her skirt lifted up by black hands). The black men should be dressed in power – either suits or construction worker outfits or military uniforms.

What I don’t like is the sight of a woman alone – eg with her legs wide apart, or bent over submissively, or taking part of her clothes off. That’s wrong. It’s not that I don’t fantasize about posing or exposing myself to men when I want sex. But women generally do not like the idea of being merely looked at. Men will sit in a dark room and watch women strip, but women want audience participation when we are doing the stripping. When we want sex, we want a response. We want to be catcalled or something.

Too many porn covers feature some woman alone, posing. To turn on women, you need to show the woman posing with legs wide apart at the feet of strong black men. Or a white woman bent over as a black man gropes her. Or a white woman whose clothes are being removed by a black gang. That gives it social context. Women want social context. I don’t enjoy the thought of spreading my legs in some empty room. I want to imagine that room is full of lustful black men. So I want the porn cover to show this white woman spreading in front of these black men!

Social context is subtle, but it makes the difference between selfish male centered porn, and porn that women will enjoy.
 
Lack of female POV.

Female POV is...

I consider it one of the HUGE failings of porn that blowbangs and bukkakes and forceful blowjobs are never offered from the female POV. Please, we girls need it. Where’s the female POV? Why is it always offered from men’s viewpoints?

Have you ever considered that many women really love being degraded and humiliated and the subject of male sexual aggression? We’re primed to receive your power and sperm and urine. Just do it right, damnit!

I want to see lots of dicks aimed at me. Just like men are turned on by the sight of women’s holes (vaginas), I’m very turned on by the sight of men’s holes – dickholes/ urinary meatus. I want to suck and lick on it. More importantly, I love seeing these explode on my face. It’s a bit nasty and uncomfortable if it hits my eye, but the very act of ejaculation (or pissing) is intensely arousing to women in general. But why if there is a 100 man bukkake, do we girls not get to see 100 dicks spurting on our faces? Everything is taking place from a 3rd person perspective. Which men might identify with. But which women don’t!

Male pornographers tend to be the ones wielding the cameras, which is probably why they don’t like getting their precious cameras covered with sperm. But all women who are getting facialled will see the sperm emerge and hit our faces and maybe slide off our fields of vision! Cum on camera is very important for the purposes of producing porn suitable for women!


I do find it quite exciting to see third person POV of BBC next to or pointing at white faces. Lots of interracial porn features black cock bigger than white faces, and it is so terrifying yet exciting. But that would be nothing compared with a first person POV.
 
Dick Size

I’m not a size queen. And a lot of women are not size queens. Seriously, how many who post on this site are real women? If you are real, do you have some kind of pain fetish, or have you had so much sex that your pussies are loose? We like to be filled and stretched by dominant men. We don’t like to be hurt. I’m sorry, but talk about tearing holes apart is an enormous turn-off. When you are the asshole being penetrated, if the man isn’t good, it really hurts, and not in an erotic way at all.

Yet women also are excited by big cocks. These represent male sexual desire for us. It makes us feel wanted. It establishes male domination and power and virility. I love porn scenes where white women are kneeling in front of BBC. Especially when there are many BBC pointing at her from all directions. I would be so horny!

I can’t claim to speak for all women, but I definitely have my preferences.


I prefer small dicks in my ass. It takes too long to prep for big dicks that it loses all its fun. You can ‘ream’ me fast if your dick is small. And I really mean small. You guys can laugh, but 4 inch dicks are great for anal sex. The sight of a monster black cock stuffed in a tiny white anus is exciting to me, but it’s hard for me to identify with the white victim of such penetration because I would be imagining myself in extreme pain. And remember, women IDENTIFY with the female actress. You can’t turn us on if we identify with discomfort and pain.

I’m ok with midsize dicks in my vagina. Not really particular about size, since really the technique is far more important than the dick size.

But I’m crazy about sucking and licking big dicks and balls. I love cocks that are very big in my hands and at face level. They are very exciting. You guys need to understand that when you watch porn which is normally made by male directors, you can often see a big dick penetrating a woman. Well, that’s the male POV. What’s my POV? I can’t see anything. Sex for a woman is a moving ceiling. Or a male chest. Or the bed or pillow that my face is being mashed against. Moreover, if a man has poor technique a woman often can’t tell how big his dick actually is/ she doesn’t get that much enjoyable sensation. So the only way for me to appreciate a big dick, is when I’m holding and licking it or being dickslapped.
 
Dirty, demeaning, degrading talk.


There are many different kinds of sex. But one of the most straightforward and common is that of male-dom, female-sub. And I have this need. I need men to express and establish dominance, power, control so that I feel feminine and fulfilled.

Language is a big part of it.

In my daily life, I do not want to hear dirty, demeaning, degrading talk. Men want sex all the time, but women don’t, and I am not any different from most women here. 95% of the time I am really not looking for sex at all. I have just zero interest/ I am sexless.

When I do want sex, then I do want to respond to what men say. And what men want, is what women want also.

When I am in a sexual mood (eg on a Friday night when I’ve had some good wine), I am very turned on by the dirtiest talk. In this sense, the porn caption makers or people who prepare the covers of porn videos have it right.

However, I do not like most of the conversation inside a porn movie. Most of it is unbelieveable crap.

I’m not sure why, but captions advertising white women for sex turn me on so much. White Bitch Sandwich (I prefer the idea of a white bitch sandwiched by two large, strong black men.) Talk about assholes. About ass to mouth. Talking about our bodies like we’re here to be mastered and crammed into, such as references to white holes and white snatches and white cracks. Forceful talk about penetration and cum and gapes and abuse. I feel very sexual, very feminine, when I’m the target of male aggression.

Yet inside the movie, I don’t want to hear nonsense like white girls discussing their sexual fantasies on camera. Come on, women don’t do that. Not realistic. It’s too ****** and artificial. I can hide behind my computer and talk about my sexual fantasies all day, but do you think I would do so in front of my friends? Let alone a camera for the world? Real women feel embarassed to display submission. Submission and surrender are what takes place behind closed doors (even if the venue is a semi-public one like a black club).

I submit because I feel I have no choice. Because I’m being totally dominated. I submit when the atmosphere is so charged that I can’t think straight and can only receive orders no matter how humiliating and utterly degrading. I can’t sit on a sofa and talk about my fantasies as though it is the most normal thing in the world. Are you kidding?
 
Ass to mouth and other fun stuff


I’m intensely turned on by ass to mouth. I fantasize about it all the time. I literally drool when I see some white actress position her face next to another white girl’s ass, then the black man fucks the other white girl’s ass and puts the BBC into the white girl’s mouth for periodic cleaning. It's gotten to the point where I expect to see ATM every flick I watch.

Ass to mouth is one of the most humiliating and submissive things possible. It’s really submissive and intimate at the same time. You really know another white girl when you rim her or do ATOGM on her. This is what it means to have intimate female friendships and sisterhood – to be one of a pair or group of white and Asian girls who suck black cocks out of their friends’ assholes!

Yet despite how crazy I am about ATM, I would never say in the middle of a sex session, “I want to taste my own ass”.

I want to taste my own ass? ARE YOU KIDDING?

Who in her right mind wants to taste her own ass? No matter how clean it is, it is still so nasty! The idea of doing such a forbidden thing is, eeuu, irkkk, yucckks!

No girl will ever tell her girlfriends that she loves tasting her own ass. Even the cleanest asses taste really nasty because of the lube.

Ass to mouth is so exciting because it is about submission and domination!

EG, a scene where two white girls are on all fours in front of two or more BBC. The girls are facing opposite ways and have submissive, receptive looks in their eyes. The black men get to do as they please to the girls, no matter how humiliating. The girls do not resist PTM and ATM. They do not protest as a bunch of dominant black men go around (round robin fashion), invading all their holes without limit. The girls do not fight their superiors. They are anxious to satisfy their masters and have surrendered all self respect.

That is what Ass to Mouth represents. The white girls surrender their individuality and become just holes to be penetrated (And satisfied). They give up any hope of self respect. It’s not about tasting your own waste. ATM is great when you’ve really cleaned out your entire system via enemas and are ready for humiliation in a safe, non freaky way.

That’s what I love so much about ass to mouth. I love the look of surrender in the actresses’ eyes. I fantasize about being in her skin, being the girl kneeling in front of black dick and cleaning it orally. It’s about being feminine and submissive. Doing ATM for a black dick, confirms my white/ Asian womanhood in the face of black domination!

The correct way to do ATM, is to simply order the white bitch to do it. Or to pull out and just walk in front of her and push her head down towards the ass tasting dick. To act as though degrading herself completely is the most normal thing in sex between black men and white cunts.

Agency is very important here. The white pussies should act like pussies – receptive and obedient. I absolutely hate and despise the scenes where white women are being assfucked, then they get off, say with faux eagerness ‘I want to taste my own ass’, and move to put the cocks into their mouths. That’s so wrong. In good ATM the black men must be absolutely dominant and make it such that the white women are unable to resist their sexual initiatives. The BBC do as they please, and the white girls submit and do their best to satisfy, no matter how nasty and humiliating. Be passive, not active if you’re the white pussy!

Ass to mouth and rimming and assplay and felching and cumfart cocktail eating are all the same here: it’s about humiliation and complete surrender with no inhibitions remaining. I love the intense scenes where white assholes are cummed in and other white girls clean the sperm out of their sisters’ rectums. Because when you do something so disgusting, you have really surrendered yourself to satisfy black men's dirty fantasies.

I certainly do not fantasize about ATM because I have any desire to taste my own feces!
 
Girl on Girl Action

I'm a big fan of GoG for my own reasons. I actually lost my virginity at a pretty great age (don't want to admit when). Most of my youthful experiments with sex, was with other girls because we felt safer/ it was kind of permitted by parents who turned a blind eye to the possibilities that ******* parties might become same-sex orgies. But because of that, to me GoG is a necessary part of all sex.






One of the things I enjoy least from real-life sex parties, is the presence of multiple women who are not comfortable with girl-girl action. A lot of married women really stiffen up when other women try to get intimate with them. They get all bitchily hetero. It really spoils my mood.



I like the Sineplex orgy scenes where white girls prep each other and play with each other before the black men come in. To me that is very crucial. I don't really get turned on by black men abandoning their superior status - such as Franco Roccaforte licking white asses, which he really seems to like. To me, degrading acts are reserved for the white or Asian girls and the white or Asian girls alone. White tongues must have no self respect – they freely travel into forbidden places like other white girls’ assholes, black men’s assholes, or clean dildos used to expand other white assholes, because the girls are being commanded by black men offscreen and want to satisfy their disgusting black masters’ fantasies.

I don’t even like to see black girls and white girls performing sexual acts on each other. Maybe it’s because I come from a rather exclusive background where there were no black girls in my close circle and therefore no black girls that I conducted sexual experiments with during our ******* parties. I’m not turned on by the idea of black girls as equals and partners. Call it a racist thing, but to me good interracial porn degrades the white (or Asian), so I only want to see black domination. EG, black men making a white girl clean the ass flavored cocks out of a black girl’s ass. Or white girls eating the cumfarts from black mistresses’ asses, then sharing the snowballs with other white mouths.

I definitely love the idea of being in a black club where the white girls are all performing sexual acts on each other, on their knees, crouching, lying on top of each other, writhing on each other, etc on divans, tables and mini-stages/ mini-platforms. The black men stand tall and erect and rarely kneel. They are mostly dressed still, unlike the whites who are all naked or in a near-total state of undress, sometimes only wearing gloves, or high heels, or dog collars. The black studs keep their dignity and power, we surrender our dignity and give in to sexual stimulation. We have lost all inhibition; they retain absolute control of our bodies.

A lot of interracial porn video covers show white women wearing collars or black men holding leashes. But inside, there’s not enough use of the leashes and collars. Good acting can definitely use these props very well. Demonstrate your dominance and control of fertile white bodies, black bulls!
 
BDSM, tied hands, blindfolds, dog dishes

See my avatar photo? I have always been very turned on by the idea that I may be led blindfolded and hands tied, through a black club while all the black men give me attention. It doesn’t have to be actual sex from any penis, just the threat that untold and unnamed depravities may be inflicted on me.

I would probably be creaming and soiling my panties with juices in such a situation.

Oh, and you can most certainly put articles of feminine underwear (or hygiene) into my mouth! I love it!

Holding my own panties (or some other white bitch’s panties) in my mouth makes me feel very feminine. As though I’m readying myself for more submission and humiliation. At the same time, let me stress that I don’t really care for dry cotton. It sucks the saliva out of my mouth and makes my mouth dry, so is not erotic at all. Don’t just stuff panties into someone’s mouth without adequate prep!

For a panty gag to work, it needs to be wet and have a sex-taste. Polyester works better. Silk is also nice, but I’m not that keen to have an expensive silk panty destroyed like this. I have once had a panty gag soaked with another woman’s cunt juice, and it was so intimate and nasty and erotic. But most girls can’t really soak an entire panty with their secretions. I can soil my own crotch, but it really does not get as dramatic as what you see in some porn movies. So a panty gag is best soaked with a mix of male urine, semen and beer. Maybe take off another girl’s panties, masturbate and pee into it, pour a bit of beer to complete the soaking, and just push it into my hapless mouth!

The smell of macho-man pee and sperm really makes me dizzy and want to gag even before the panty is stuffed into my mouth. I know it’s sick, and I haven’t done this too often (actually, had it done to me only once when I was tied up), but I can’t explain it, it’s just overwhelming, but in a sensory-overload, orgasmic way. My partner waved my own thoroughly degraded panty in my face and held it in front of my nose for a while before gagging me with it. Disgusting as it sounds, it makes me just crave more sex, more male smells, more male secretions and ejaculations. Kind of like smelling 1000 t-shirts soaked with male scent at the same time?

Anyway... now that I have been gagged with panties impregnated with black men’s scent...

I like the idea that lots of nasty fingers are exploring my vagina and anus as black men make all kinds of comments in ebonics dialect. I’ve cleaned out my rectum with no food consumed for the past day, so now it has become a playpen also. Anything (not too large or sharp, of course) may be safely poked into my gaped butt which is now defenceless against the depredations of uninhibited black men.

Fingers are repeatedly put into my mouth. I am totally unable to tell if the fingers came from my vagina, anus, or other white girls’ pussies/ butts/ mouths. I lick everything without restraint. My helplessness and the threat of the unknown is very erotic here. Maybe I didn’t actually do any ATM. But I won’t know, would I?

As part of the festivities, I also get bottles shoved into my bottom holes.

I am very enthusiastic about bottle sex. Mind you, I’m not a size queen. I only want to be poked with the bottle necks, not the bottle bottoms! But bottles are some of the smoothest, safest yet hardest commonly available things to masturbate with, if you’re a woman. Some dildos, especially ribbed ones, are painful or uncomfortable when shoved into my anus without much prep. But generally, bottle heads are fine. Not too long, not too wide, smooth and hard and strong – I don’t need to prep for too long before my ass is ready to be violated with a bottle.

Bottles are also generally safer than fingers. They may be a lot bigger than fingers, but problem is many men are unhygienic and don’t properly clean their fingers/ trim and file their nails. I can’t fantasize in peace if I feel a bit of roughness/ possible nicking of my inner ass from some nasty (and not nasty in a good way) man’s improperly manicured fingernails. A bottle sterilized by alcohol on the other hand, is perfect for penetrating my body.

What makes it extra erotic is the seemingly casual way by which depravity can be inflicted on me without risking serious injury. As I am marched and paraded and pushed and dragged through the black bar, people make all kinds of obscene comments, then they use their beer bottles to fuck my ass and cunt. And to add to the humiliation (and my arousal), they make me ******* from the same bottles after they’ve been used to poke my cunt and ass. My god, I’m being left with no dignity... the ideal situation for a white/ Asian woman in a black club!

My face would be utterly red by now. My nipples are sure to be erect. My chest will be flushed. I’ll probably have goosebumps all over and my ears/ back of my ears will feel ultra sensitive. The nape of my neck will feel electric. My knees will hardly be able to support my weight...
 
OK, now I come to the dog dish thing. I find it very erotic to be made to lick sperm from a dog dish. However, for a woman there is a subtle difference from normal male directed porn flicks.

I don’t really like to see the woman pick up the dog dish and lick from it on her own. It doesn’t come off right.

Dog dishes are meant to be placed on the floor. And a white bitch is supposed to confirm her bitch status by crouching and lowering her head to floor level to lick up the sperm. It would be even more fun if the dish is big enough so that she can put her face down, and get some sperm on her face while licking. It would feel more natural if the black master used his foot to push my head down.

I like to watch women lick sperm from floors in porn, but would never do it myself in real life due to the hygiene problem. A dog dish on the other hand, can be properly cleaned, so yeah, I would lap submissively once ordered to by my nasty black master.

Crouching like that also causes ******* to rush to the head, which is kinda stimulating on its own and makes me a bit dizzy- just dizzy enough to feel erotic.
 
BDSM, tied hands, blindfolds, dog dishes

See my avatar photo? I have always been very turned on by the idea that I may be led blindfolded and hands tied, through a black club while all the black men give me attention. It doesn’t have to be actual sex from any penis, just the threat that untold and unnamed depravities may be inflicted on me.

I would probably be creaming and soiling my panties with juices in such a situation.

Oh, and you can most certainly put articles of feminine underwear (or hygiene) into my mouth! I love it!

Holding my own panties (or some other white bitch’s panties) in my mouth makes me feel very feminine. As though I’m readying myself for more submission and humiliation. At the same time, let me stress that I don’t really care for dry cotton. It sucks the saliva out of my mouth and makes my mouth dry, so is not erotic at all. Don’t just stuff panties into someone’s mouth without adequate prep!

For a panty gag to work, it needs to be wet and have a sex-taste. Polyester works better. Silk is also nice, but I’m not that keen to have an expensive silk panty destroyed like this. I have once had a panty gag soaked with another woman’s cunt juice, and it was so intimate and nasty and erotic. But most girls can’t really soak an entire panty with their secretions. I can soil my own crotch, but it really does not get as dramatic as what you see in some porn movies. So a panty gag is best soaked with a mix of male urine, semen and beer. Maybe take off another girl’s panties, masturbate and pee into it, pour a bit of beer to complete the soaking, and just push it into my hapless mouth!

The smell of macho-man pee and sperm really makes me dizzy and want to gag even before the panty is stuffed into my mouth. I know it’s sick, and I haven’t done this too often (actually, had it done to me only once when I was tied up), but I can’t explain it, it’s just overwhelming, but in a sensory-overload, orgasmic way. My partner waved my own thoroughly degraded panty in my face and held it in front of my nose for a while before gagging me with it. Disgusting as it sounds, it makes me just crave more sex, more male smells, more male secretions and ejaculations. Kind of like smelling 1000 t-shirts soaked with male scent at the same time?

Anyway... now that I have been gagged with panties impregnated with black men’s scent...

I like the idea that lots of nasty fingers are exploring my vagina and anus as black men make all kinds of comments in ebonics dialect. I’ve cleaned out my rectum with no food consumed for the past day, so now it has become a playpen also. Anything (not too large or sharp, of course) may be safely poked into my gaped butt which is now defenceless against the depredations of uninhibited black men.

Fingers are repeatedly put into my mouth. I am totally unable to tell if the fingers came from my vagina, anus, or other white girls’ pussies/ butts/ mouths. I lick everything without restraint. My helplessness and the threat of the unknown is very erotic here. Maybe I didn’t actually do any ATM. But I won’t know, would I?

As part of the festivities, I also get bottles shoved into my bottom holes.

I am very enthusiastic about bottle sex. Mind you, I’m not a size queen. I only want to be poked with the bottle necks, not the bottle bottoms! But bottles are some of the smoothest, safest yet hardest commonly available things to masturbate with, if you’re a woman. Some dildos, especially ribbed ones, are painful or uncomfortable when shoved into my anus without much prep. But generally, bottle heads are fine. Not too long, not too wide, smooth and hard and strong – I don’t need to prep for too long before my ass is ready to be violated with a bottle.

Bottles are also generally safer than fingers. They may be a lot bigger than fingers, but problem is many men are unhygienic and don’t properly clean their fingers/ trim and file their nails. I can’t fantasize in peace if I feel a bit of roughness/ possible nicking of my inner ass from some nasty (and not nasty in a good way) man’s improperly manicured fingernails. A bottle sterilized by alcohol on the other hand, is perfect for penetrating my body.

What makes it extra erotic is the seemingly casual way by which depravity can be inflicted on me without risking serious injury. As I am marched and paraded and pushed and dragged through the black bar, people make all kinds of obscene comments, then they use their beer bottles to fuck my ass and cunt. And to add to the humiliation (and my arousal), they make me ******* from the same bottles after they’ve been used to poke my cunt and ass. My god, I’m being left with no dignity... the ideal situation for a white/ Asian woman in a black club!

My face would be utterly red by now. My nipples are sure to be erect. My chest will be flushed. I’ll probably have goosebumps all over and my ears/ back of my ears will feel ultra sensitive. The nape of my neck will feel electric. My knees will hardly be able to support my weight...
Love each you said and find it very erotic and hot.
 
Ass to mouth and other fun stuff


I’m intensely turned on by ass to mouth. I fantasize about it all the time. I literally drool when I see some white actress position her face next to another white girl’s ass, then the black man fucks the other white girl’s ass and puts the BBC into the white girl’s mouth for periodic cleaning. It's gotten to the point where I expect to see ATM every flick I watch.

Ass to mouth is one of the most humiliating and submissive things possible. It’s really submissive and intimate at the same time. You really know another white girl when you rim her or do ATOGM on her. This is what it means to have intimate female friendships and sisterhood – to be one of a pair or group of white and Asian girls who suck black cocks out of their friends’ assholes!

Yet despite how crazy I am about ATM, I would never say in the middle of a sex session, “I want to taste my own ass”.

I want to taste my own ass? ARE YOU KIDDING?

Who in her right mind wants to taste her own ass? No matter how clean it is, it is still so nasty! The idea of doing such a forbidden thing is, eeuu, irkkk, yucckks!

No girl will ever tell her girlfriends that she loves tasting her own ass. Even the cleanest asses taste really nasty because of the lube.

Ass to mouth is so exciting because it is about submission and domination!

EG, a scene where two white girls are on all fours in front of two or more BBC. The girls are facing opposite ways and have submissive, receptive looks in their eyes. The black men get to do as they please to the girls, no matter how humiliating. The girls do not resist PTM and ATM. They do not protest as a bunch of dominant black men go around (round robin fashion), invading all their holes without limit. The girls do not fight their superiors. They are anxious to satisfy their masters and have surrendered all self respect.

That is what Ass to Mouth represents. The white girls surrender their individuality and become just holes to be penetrated (And satisfied). They give up any hope of self respect. It’s not about tasting your own waste. ATM is great when you’ve really cleaned out your entire system via enemas and are ready for humiliation in a safe, non freaky way.

That’s what I love so much about ass to mouth. I love the look of surrender in the actresses’ eyes. I fantasize about being in her skin, being the girl kneeling in front of black dick and cleaning it orally. It’s about being feminine and submissive. Doing ATM for a black dick, confirms my white/ Asian womanhood in the face of black domination!

The correct way to do ATM, is to simply order the white bitch to do it. Or to pull out and just walk in front of her and push her head down towards the ass tasting dick. To act as though degrading herself completely is the most normal thing in sex between black men and white cunts.

Agency is very important here. The white pussies should act like pussies – receptive and obedient. I absolutely hate and despise the scenes where white women are being assfucked, then they get off, say with faux eagerness ‘I want to taste my own ass’, and move to put the cocks into their mouths. That’s so wrong. In good ATM the black men must be absolutely dominant and make it such that the white women are unable to resist their sexual initiatives. The BBC do as they please, and the white girls submit and do their best to satisfy, no matter how nasty and humiliating. Be passive, not active if you’re the white pussy!

Ass to mouth and rimming and assplay and felching and cumfart cocktail eating are all the same here: it’s about humiliation and complete surrender with no inhibitions remaining. I love the intense scenes where white assholes are cummed in and other white girls clean the sperm out of their sisters’ rectums. Because when you do something so disgusting, you have really surrendered yourself to satisfy black men's dirty fantasies.

I certainly do not fantasize about ATM because I have any desire to taste my own feces!



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My Favorite Themes in sex, no particular order and not exhaustive list:






1. humiliation in all forms.






2. crawling. The sight of a white woman with upper body on floor and ass up, crawling between legs of black thugs, is extremely arousing to me. I really do get wet looking at a certain website’s blowbang series where there are a bunch of angry black men in suits chanting slogans, a filthy floor, a wall covered with sexual murals featuring white sexual submission, and every white girl (victim) in a new episode always gets the full benefit of crawling across this line of black men in some state of humiliating undress even as the black men add to the verbal abuse.


The crawling, more than any bukkake or actual sexual contact in this website’s flicks, turns me on.






3. leash, handcuffs, restraints. Possible chaining to various forms of BDSM equipment, but I have very little real experience with actual BDSM props. (But some experience being chained or tied to gym equipment, construction equipment.)


I also like this Czech series where women are stuck in walls, helpless, as other men take them by their bottom holes or compel them to perform oral sex (or both taking place at the same time). The combo of helplessness, humiliation, inability to see/ unknowing what is going on at one’s loins but being able to feel physical sensations – extremely exciting!






4. forbidden-place to mouth contact. Pretty much all forms of ATM and PTM and ATOGM and PTOGM.


I very much like scenes where the pornstar is on all fours on a couch with buttplug stuck up her ass. She looks at the camera and is issued commands by some offscreen master. She eagerly smiles submissively, then pulls out the buttplug and proceeds to suck on it like candy while looking into the camera.


There may be no female POV in actions like this, but it drives me crazy all the same. As long as there is adequate domination, of course. As expressed in the sound effects. This kind of scene DOES NOT WORK if the pornographer has left the woman to perform in silence or to accompanying music without a male master with a forceful voice. Who’s going to suck their own ass-flavored butt plugs alone? You need a nasty master to please, DUH!


I hate to link to this website, and don’t want to promote it. But there is a site called HeatherGangxxxxGirls/ HeatherCreamxxxGirls which has done an incredible job in doing promotional marketing for their website. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t want to promote them. I had purchased some of their work before. Their actual films are much, much, much less hot (and poorly produced, with bad production values and even worse directing and the worst sounds in the industry) than the web pages promoting their films.


Anyway, this website has interracial oral enemas as a feature in many of its films. I don’t know why the mainstream porn or humiliation movies on kink.com haven’t done this yet, but surely there is a substantial market for films where some white bitch is captured by black thugs, taken to a motel room, tossed onto the bed, gangbanged and creampied and mudpied, and then made to clean her holes free of sperm using an ******* tube after which more black thugs get to pump sperm into this bitch?


This kind of stuff gets me off all the time, anytime. (Including when I masturbated in my office in school during office hours! I have really creamed my panties very badly before, just surfing Heather’s website. Let me stress, don’t buy their stuff, it’s gonna be a gigantic disappointment.)






5. Social relations that are a total inverse of my daily existence.


The way I put this sounds oddly academic and formal, but I suppose that’s exactly the point. I am an academic. In daily life I lecture men, nearly all of whom are much darker than me. I debate with men. I am treated with respect. I have status. I speak and people listen. My life is led ritually, formally, governed by social norms which do not permit my sexual fantasies.


Anything that turns on this upside down, turns me on.


One of the tropes that I don’t see much of in any porn, but which is very arousing, is the sight of a white actress being stepped on by black men. I’m not talking about the stepper putting any weight on his foot of course. I’m not there to get hurt. One foot on the floor, one foot on the whitey’s face or body part, preferably ass. I never understand why when extreme porn is so commonly available for free online, someone does not shoot at least a few takes’ worth of black men wearing dress shoes stepping on white whores’ faces, or some white cunt crouching at an entire platoon of black soldiers’ feet as the commanding black officer puts his foot on her ass in a triumphant gesture.
 
I’ve written about this in a post that I haven’t posted. (I write on Word first.)


But basically, there is substantial overlap between male POV and female POV that could be arousing to both sexes. By default all DVDs or feeds could be programmed to show this mainstream content.


Then there is stuff that is arousing to only one sex. And very often, a turnoff to the other sex.


In our digital world it is now possible to produce porn from, say, 10 different cameras discreetly hidden at different angles. Then channel the different POVs to different markets or use different selections to organize them.


For instance, the ‘look up the skirt market’.


The ‘upskirt underlings’, as I like to call them, are one porn subsection that is a huge turn off to most women.


Voyeurs are losers and cowards. Women hate losers and cowards. Even the most dominant women hate losers and cowards. There are many porn covers which feature men kneeling at women’s feet looking up at her crotch, and it is just wrong. A turn off. Creepy.


This doesn’t mean that it’s always wrong to have scenes where men are positioned lower than women. But you need to set up the scene correctly. EG I can imagine a very thrilling scene where a black general or African dictator snaps at a bunch of white maids, who snap to attention immediately. The general announces that his top officers have all rights to inspect the maids, and in due course skirts are lifted and pussies licked. The white or Asian women are still in a submissive role, even if they are standing while uniformed black men kneel and lick them from below. That’s because they are standing to attention/ standing in anticipation of commands/ standing and waiting.


There are many women who fantasize about forceful or degrading sex. But almost none fantasize about having their skirts peeked up by men who are too timid to make their sexual demands known. If you want to look, duh, make it known to me. With a strong male-gaze look full of cocky confidence that I will submit. Do the right thing, and I’ll open my legs and give you all the upskirt you want.
 
The following post is very incomplete. I’m basically evaluating porn video covers. Remember, in the days before it was easy to get pirated porn online, I would have to actually go to a shop and look. This was the ‘videotape days’ when you actually had to press down on the remote control to fast forward, and couldn’t skip to the next scene with just one click. Also I didn’t have the money or time to buy 1000 videos, figure out what was good, and dump the 950 lousiest ones. So it was very important that a video cover be attractive yet adequately representative of the contents.






What I find so erotic (and not so erotic) about various interracial or hardcore porn covers:


Gangbang Girl 22: Dina Jewel is in bikini, posing sexily, surrounded by firefighters.


Good: woman the center of attention, exactly what I want to see in a gangbang. Her bodily is sexily posed. I’m not turned on looking at her per se, but I am turned on thinking that it could be me sexily posing waiting for a gangbang at the hands of macho firefighters! Men are dressed in macho outfits.


Bad: the men only touch her below the knees. This is clearly a male-centered picture that tries to display maximum female flesh for visually oriented guys. From my (and female) POV, we want to be touched, not to be held at a distance and displayed!






GBG30: Kacey skimpily clad, men fully dressed. Correct. I don’t get turned on by the woman, but I do identify with the actress, and I want to feel that she’s the subject of sexual attention. I am not turned on by another woman’s tits being visible through her underwear, but I want the sense that she’s displaying herself and getting ready for sex.


Bad: the guys are dressed in low status, non dominant clothing. Cheap gray shirts? Pathetic!


Bad: no physical contact, no reassurance that they’re taking control of the bitch.






GBG31:






GBG32: Gauge in cheerleading outfit holding up her skirt, surrounded by men in helmets.


Gd: display of sexual availability. Her crotch/ panties are at the center of the cover. It’s all about being a woman and being targeted.


Gd: the guys are dressed in macho uniforms.


Bad: they don’t look dominant and they don’t take control. They look like they’re kneeling around some porn goddess, not quite daring to touch her.






Gangland 1: Chloe is nearly naked surrounded by 3 black men with menacing looks.


Gd: surround the woman; she should be the one exposed.


Bad: the men are not dressed in high status, or high machismo clothing. And Chloe has her hands on their waists, as though she’s the dominatrix taking them and not the other way around. It doesn’t help that she’s wearing black leather panties. Would look better if she was wearing vulnerable looking, feminine looking white lace panties, in juxtaposition to the black men’s black clothes.






Gangland White Boy Stomp 1: Adina Jewel is surrounded by white men. One touches her pussy, one her right tit, one her left thigh. She is in a short and revealing dress.


Gd: exactly, take control of the bitch. Show what you want – her body. I didn’t watch this because I don’t identify with black girls and don’t care to watch white guys bang black girls. But cover is right – they’re acknowledging her sexually.


Bad: loser outfits on the men. Why do porn dorks like to wear t-shirts so much? No T-shirts! Morons!






Side comment: IF YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO DRESS LIKE A DOMINANT MAN, YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO BE A DOMINANT MAN. IN WHICH CASE YOU SHOULD JUST FUCK OFF.






Gangland 2: Tricia topless and surrounded by black men.


Not sure why, but this doesn’t do it for me. The expression on her face seems too posed.






Gangland 3: Inari Vachs with legs apart, showing panties, surrounded by black men.


Again it doesn’t work. The black guys look a bit more macho with their jackets, but the cutout nature of the video cover seems too artificial. I don’t get a sense of threat/ power. The black guy under the number 3 (third from left) seems too dorky. If Inari is wearing a skimpy black lace panty, it would look nicer if the guys had bulges in their pants pointing straight at her crotch.






Gangland 4: Jade Marcela in red underwear with four black men.


Bad: she’s touching their faces. Where is the domination? I have watched this before, I know the acting is much better for the scenes than what the cover implies. The lighting is too bright, so the black skins aren’t really dark and menacing or contrasting with her skin colour. It doesn’t help that she’s Asian so she’s practically the same colour as that ‘high yellow’ black guy on her left.


Good: one guy is holding her waist, and he happens to be the most aggressive looking.






Gangland 5: Dolly Golden crouching in heels in front of 3 blacks, legs wide apart and pussy exposed. Tits are popping out of her top. One black guy has finger in her mouth.


Good: I like this cover. Appropriate role for the white – to be open and available. I don’t need to stare at her pussy to get aroused unlike a man, but I want to see her pussy exposed while the men are in jeans and covered up. I, too, would like to be crouching with legs apart in front of 3 black men! Dolly is the one being ‘available’ and ‘on offer’ for an interracial fucking! The fingering of her mouth is nicely done – there’s not enough penetration shown on video covers.


Bad: the light skinned black guy on Dolly’s right is too skinny. I don’t like to see male bare bodies unless they are really macho. Otherwise I prefer the guys in dignified dress. It’s the white bitch exposing her body and offering it for men to savor!


I’ve watched this video before, the girls are all kept low/ crouching/ lying down/ on knees all the way. Entirely correct for an interracial video featuring black male virile domination and white female submission. So cover matches the inside.






Gangland 6: I’ve not watched this before. The big ass blonde turns me off – I hate big asses. Men don’t understand how particular women are with other women’s looks. You may appreciate pornstars with bigger dicks than you, but a big ass woman annoys me because I don’t have a big ass. But the poses are correct. She’s being pawed by a black man and a another man has her by her panties.






Gangland 7: Charlene Aspen skimpily clad, bent over a bit, submitting to one black man as another molests her butt. I like the overtly sexual nature, I like her facial and tongue expression; I’d like to be in her shoes/ high heels for sure! But once again there is the creepy sight of a black man positioning himself under her crotch. And the guys all look like losers and are cheaply dressed. Is it that expensive to dress the black actors either in military uniforms or business suits? You dorks are in California, there must be no shortage of props from the movie industry!






Gangland 9: White woman squatting in front of 4 blacks with her legs open wide, wearing hotpants and boots. Not too bad, but also too forward and aggressive for me. And these 4 guys look like losers to me.






Gangland 13: I find this a lot more arousing. I think it is about ‘what’s going on’ in the picture that turns me on. White woman (Nikita Denise) with her clothes in shambles, her breast grabbed by one black, another black with one hand between her thighs, and a third black lifting up her skirt to expose her butt.


I don’t get aroused by looking at other women’s butts, but I do find the exposure of female bodies arousing. It’s not looking at the body which turns me on, but the situation of the white female body – the fact that it is exposed to the lustful depradations of black men. I don’t look at all like Nikita, but I’m thinking, that could be me when I take a wrong turn and get surrounded by uninhibited, lustful black men.






Gangland 14: Candy Cotton with four black men. One has his fingers pressed against her labia. One has grabbed a breast. One her waist.


Very nice. If it was me, that would feel pretty hot. But the guys are dressed like dorks again. I really don’t feel like buying movies where the men look like dorks.






Gangland 20, 22, 26: I like it when the black studs are dressed and the white sluts are not. In good interracial sex, white sluts shed their dignity.






Gangland 23: Aurora Snow in a state of undress being pawed over by four blacks at the same time, a look of slightly nervous satisfaction on her face.


Bad: Aurora’s panties and butt are on display and two men look at her butt at eye level.


No matter how pretty Aurora is, and how nice her panties and butt look (even to another woman), I’m still not a big fan of men’s POV.


The entire voyeur thing, or inspecting women from the bottom up, is NOT exciting to women at all. It feels creepy or juvenile, like the guys in school who tried to look up our skirts.


What makes my heart beat faster, is when the woman is the one low down with men’s crotches at her eye level and menacing bulges in their pants.






Gangland 25: Jessica Dee with top pulled up and black hands restraining one arm, grabbing tits, pawing at thigh.


Fairly sexual, and the two standing guys have menacing expressions on their faces. But again, we have losers in the picture – the two black men crouching at Jessica’s feet with dorky looks on their faces. I don’t find this a successful video cover.






Gangland 24: Daniella Rush being supported by three black men, her panties down.


I don’t know what to make of this picture. I do like the guy in the cap – he looks macho and tough. But it doesn’t really feel hot.






Gangland 27: Cover isn’t consistent. Jessie J attempts to strike an authoritative policewoman pose, but she is being stripped by black men at the same time. They’ve cornered a superior white woman and are about to thoroughly fuck her, one has grabbed her hair and another has restrained her arm. Yet they don’t look as aggressive and forceful as they should be, and you have one man practically kneeling in front of her to worship her feminity. Doesn’t do it for me.






Gangland 28: I am turned on by this cover. Alana Evans is being stripped and exposed and there is a black hand molesting her crotch. She has her hair mussed up, which is probably how my own hair would look after being grabbed, groped and toyed with. Alana really looks excited, which I really appreciate because I tend to mimic the facial expressions on the actresses. But the black men don’t look too macho/ dominant. One is crouching at her legs and facing the camera – doesn’t look good at all, he’s not acting the part of an uncontrollably horny macho stud. Cover could still be better.






Gangland 29: Maxxx, camera angle and choice of actress to pose is all wrong. She comes across more like the boss of a bunch of black men, some kind of queen (especially with her tuff dress and her hairstyle), rather than as some white woman who made the wrong turn into an alley of black toughs. They should have selected Tammi Rose to pose for the cover.






Gangland 30: One of the best covers in this series. Angel Long is great whenever she appears! The men all look predatory. Even if two of them are at her butt level, they are showing teeth and look as though they literally want to eat her up.


Angel looks perfect – pretty, scared, intimidated, vulnerable. She is being pawed, stripped nearly nude next to men in wifebeaters and her white flesh exposed and black fingers are stuffed in her twat. Great sex, that’s what Gangland is supposed to be like.


I look absolutely nothing like Angel Long (except roughly the same skin tone). But yeah, this turns me on a lot. And yes, I have this video, and it is one of my favorites.










Gangland 38: Ashley Moore staring at the camera with legs wide apart while four black men paw her, stick money into her skimpy and disarranged underwear. Pretty hot, but once again it has the same old annoying male bias.


You see, men like SEEING women. More than they like touching women.


Women like to be seen, but they enjoy being touched a lot more.


Looking at Ashley Moore is satisfying. She’s gorgeous, and I would like to be experiencing the same level of lust from a bunch of BBC. Someone sucking at my tit, someone fingering my pussy, etc. But it is still nowhere near female POV.


What is real female POV? All 4 men grab and embrace and take Ashley Moore for themselves. Unfortunately that’s not happening. Thanks to men’s need to see female skin, they’re not touching her as much as they should. If I were making a woman-focused porn flick, I would insist on all 8 hands and 4 mouths being in contact with Ashley’s body. Now that’s what it means to be the focus of desire.
 
OK, now I come to the dog dish thing. I find it very erotic to be made to lick sperm from a dog dish. However, for a woman there is a subtle difference from normal male directed porn flicks.

I don’t really like to see the woman pick up the dog dish and lick from it on her own. It doesn’t come off right.

Dog dishes are meant to be placed on the floor. And a white bitch is supposed to confirm her bitch status by crouching and lowering her head to floor level to lick up the sperm. It would be even more fun if the dish is big enough so that she can put her face down, and get some sperm on her face while licking. It would feel more natural if the black master used his foot to push my head down.

I like to watch women lick sperm from floors in porn, but would never do it myself in real life due to the hygiene problem. A dog dish on the other hand, can be properly cleaned, so yeah, I would lap submissively once ordered to by my nasty black master.

Crouching like that also causes ******* to rush to the head, which is kinda stimulating on its own and makes me a bit dizzy- just dizzy enough to feel erotic.
Male perspective here. For me, more erotic than the act itself is the fact that the woman must wait submissively for the man to deposit his seed. He must then direct her to lick it up. A point of the finger or a firm grasp of her hair or neck will serve this purpose. She should not do it without this assent from her master.
 
Lack of female POV.

Female POV is...

I consider it one of the HUGE failings of porn that blowbangs and bukkakes and forceful blowjobs are never offered from the female POV. Please, we girls need it. Where’s the female POV? Why is it always offered from men’s viewpoints?

Have you ever considered that many women really love being degraded and humiliated and the subject of male sexual aggression? We’re primed to receive your power and sperm and urine. Just do it right, damnit!

I want to see lots of dicks aimed at me. Just like men are turned on by the sight of women’s holes (vaginas), I’m very turned on by the sight of men’s holes – dickholes/ urinary meatus. I want to suck and lick on it. More importantly, I love seeing these explode on my face. It’s a bit nasty and uncomfortable if it hits my eye, but the very act of ejaculation (or pissing) is intensely arousing to women in general. But why if there is a 100 man bukkake, do we girls not get to see 100 dicks spurting on our faces? Everything is taking place from a 3rd person perspective. Which men might identify with. But which women don’t!

Male pornographers tend to be the ones wielding the cameras, which is probably why they don’t like getting their precious cameras covered with sperm. But all women who are getting facialled will see the sperm emerge and hit our faces and maybe slide off our fields of vision! Cum on camera is very important for the purposes of producing porn suitable for women!


I do find it quite exciting to see third person POV of BBC next to or pointing at white faces. Lots of interracial porn features black cock bigger than white faces, and it is so terrifying yet exciting. But that would be nothing compared with a first person POV.
Mistress T does some stuff that might fit the bill for you. She wanks off a powerful bull’s cock over the viewer’s “face”. Of course the intent is cuckold humiliation, but I imagine this imagery would be powerful from a female perspective.
 
A question for you.
Rimming scenes. Is it preferable for the woman to appear eager to perform the act (eg Holly Michaels) or to be performing it against her will and feeling degraded (think Lexi Love in Black Crack Addicts)?
I find both hot, but there’s a very clear “sticking it to the white man” dynamic to the Black Crack Addicts series which is part of its appeal.
 
A question for you.
Rimming scenes. Is it preferable for the woman to appear eager to perform the act (eg Holly Michaels) or to be performing it against her will and feeling degraded (think Lexi Love in Black Crack Addicts)?
I find both hot, but there’s a very clear “sticking it to the white man” dynamic to the Black Crack Addicts series which is part of its appeal.

I can't answer this question consistently. The reason being my own mixed origins. So I don't identify with conventional white guilt/ reparations, and neither do I get excited by the idea of 'sticking it to the white man'.

For instance, I'm incredibly crazy about the idea of being marched blindfolded and naked through a party of black thugs and nasty tastes put into my mouth. But it really does not have to be ATM or rimming anything even close. You could just give me different things to taste - bitter melons and gourds, chilies, uncooked tofu, grape twigs, bay leaves.

Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke nailed it in 9 1/2 weeks with their fridge scene. I've never met a woman who didn't like the scene.

You don't need dirty ATM or dirty rimming to notch up the eroticism of taste.
 
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This interraction with the cuckold in professional porn. I would be interested to know if anyone at all is turned on by it. It’s so staged it’s just a joke to me. At least with the black guy and white woman, you know that pussy is being stretched regardless of whether it’s pro or amateur. Perhaps the cucks on the forum are into it, but I don’t need to see white guys when I watch interracial porn.
It’s all about the black master, white slut dynamic for me, and your turn ons from a female perspective are not so far from what works for me.
A savvy director could easily satisfy all of us.
 
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