after i told my wife. now what?

notblackedyet said:
ive completely opened up to my wife about my interracial fantasies. she is confused and reluctant to entertain the idea. after showing her a small collection of interracial pictures that i put together, she seemed to be at a loss of words and slightly disgusted with me. she said she felt sorry for some of the girls (one gif in particular of a young white girl being gangbanged). i felt so stupid afterwards for showing her the pictures. she doesn't even like porn and here i am showing her a collection of some of the most hardcore ******* on the internet! granted, not all of the pictures were hardcore gangbangs. it was a mixture of softcore images like a sexy white women receiving a massage from a glistening, well-hung black man, and multiple pictures of white girls in awe at the sight of a huge black cock. either way, she was definitely shocked, confused, a little upset, and im sure a wide range of other emotions that i couldn't make out. we talked a lot that night after her initial shock wore off. she doesn't feel like she is enough for me and is worried that my sexual appetite is something that she cant keep up with. she loves our marriage and our sex life just the way it is and doesn't want to pull this thread. she's worried that it will take us down an unhealthy path and wishes i didnt think about things like this. i have expressed to her that i dont want this in real life which i think eased her mind a litlle and i also told her that the interracial gangbang is just a small, occasional fantasy that i have and its the most extreme. i dont think of anything past that. also, i let her no that she is at the center of all of my fantasies. i dont think about other girls. i dont want any other women. i think that eases her mind as well but she's still a little uncomfortable with whole thing. its been a few weeks since i shared all this with her and since then we've moved along with our lives and everything seems to be normal but there's still the underlying reality of my confession hanging over us. we haven't really discussed it any further. i told her that im going to keep these fantasies to myself because i know it makes her uncomfortable and thats the last thing i want. she's glad that i was open and honest with her tho and she knows that i love her with all my heart. i think she just wishes that i didnt have these thoughts..

side note:
we just had our 3 year wedding anniversary an we went to St. Augustine. we had a great time. one night we went to a small burrito shack. the line was supper long and we happened to be behind a group of three young athletic black guys. one the guys was extremely fit! it looked like he had twists or dreds and his shirt was off and he had on tight underarmer looking shorts. i know my wife was checking him out. lol she whispered to me "omg look at his butt. i jus want to pinch it!" and she pretended like she was about to punch his ass. he didnt notice but his friend saw her and quietly laughed. while she was pretending to pinch his butt she whispered again, "should i do it?" i tried to play it cool and said, "go for it baby. what are you gunna do when he turns around?" she jus giggled and said "idk." and put her hand down. my heart was pounding!!! also, another thing happened that i thought was instresting. like a week after we discussed my fantasy, she brought up some of her old boyfriends and said, "since you're into that whole black thing i think you'll get into this." and she started showing me pictures of some of her old boyfriends and guys she's hooked up with and she show me a picture of a mixed guy that she fucked in college. idk i just thought these were some notable incidents that happened after our talk.

ohhh!!!!!
one more thing! she has also rekindled an old friendship with her best friend in college who started dating black guys while they were friends. she said they drifted apart once she started dating black guys. she said she starting changing and they didnt have the same interests anymore. my wife randomly texted her last week and apologized to her for not being a good friend to her when she started changing. i think they're going to meet for lunch this weekend. i told my wife that didnt mind if she talked to her about my fantasy. i kno she doesnt have anyone that she can talk to about this and i want her to have a girl friend that she can vent to and help her process everything that ive shared with her.

anyway, that's where im at.

any advice, criticism, guidance, or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

thank you everyone!
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She obviously has a liking for black guys, at least she isnt turned off by them. So just keep quiet and play it cool. My wife commented a couple of times about black guys. Believe me, once she has tried she will want more
 
Robnjenn said:
But you wish she was though huhh?? You would absolutely ******* if one day she said she had been thinking about what you said and she took it upon herself to do it and she sent you some pictures of her gaped pussy with cum dripping out of her and a BBC in the picture with it!!
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yeah i would probably cum all over place lol but truthfully; i dont think i would ever want it to actually happen. i really just want us to fantasize about it together and role play and watch ir porn together and play with toys and *******! mabye a little teasing and like, watch her flirt when we go out
 
UPDATE:
ok. so its been a while sense my last post and a few notable things have happened that i would like to share and receive feedback on.

first things first... she can be such a little slutty tease!!! i fucking love it! she's surprisingly articulate when it comes to playing with this fantasy. like, idk where she picked it up from but she really knows how play the hotwife role.

ill post more when i have more time.. sry
 
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like i said, she can be such a little tease! it doesn't happen very often but i assume that's because it's still a relatively new idea to her and she's been somewhat hesitant to confirm her acceptance of this kink being such a turn on for her. it's like she knows that its a hot fantasy but she's almost afraid to admit it. like, she doesn't want to have this fantasy but now that i've shared it with her, she cant help but to think about it and she cant help that turns her on now as well.. if that makes any sense.
that being said, there have been quite a few instances when she allowed herself to drop her defenses and she surrendered to her lustful thoughts of black men and shared them with me. some instances have beem more explicate than others and some have been more casual. for instance, one night, while i was decorating the christmas tree in fact; we were watching the first season of AHS. We've watched this show several times and the first season seems to be my wife's favorite. in the show, one of the main characters is a white lady who is married to her white husband. her husband tended to be a little on the neglectful side. like, he cheated on her and they moved so they could "start over" or whatever.. you kno the story. but during the show, the wife started fantasizing about this black cop that was frequently call out to their house to investigate weird things that were happening to them. long story short, the wife asked herself why she was having these fantasies and without skipping a beat, my wife answered out loud, "because he's a strong sexy black man and you want he's big black cock"....
bruh....... i almost blew a load in my pants right then a there. i didnt however lol i jus played it cool and looked over at her with a smile and an expression on my face like 'omg i love that you just said that'. it was extremely exhilarating to say the least but still, that's probably one of the most casual instances we've had as a couple regarding our newly shared interest in interracial sex and black cock.
there is still much more i would like to share with everyone so there will be more post about our progress soon. please let me kno your thoughts and if you have any suggestion or advice, i'd love to hear from you.

thank you blacktowhite!! i wouldnt have made it this far without this site and the supportive members that have helped me come closer to making my fantasy a reality!
 
notblackedyet said:
UPDATE CONTINUED:

like i said, she can be such a little tease! it doesn't happen very often but i assume that's because it's still a relatively new idea to her and she's been somewhat hesitant to confirm her acceptance of this kink being such a turn on for her. it's like she knows that its a hot fantasy but she's almost afraid to admit it. like, she doesn't want to have this fantasy but now that i've shared it with her, she cant help but to think about it and she cant help that turns her on now as well.. if that makes any sense.
that being said, there have been quite a few instances when she allowed herself to drop her defenses and she surrendered to her lustful thoughts of black men and shared them with me. some instances have beem more explicate than others and some have been more casual. for instance, one night, while i was decorating the christmas tree in fact; we were watching the first season of AHS. We've watched this show several times and the first season seems to be my wife's favorite. in the show, one of the main characters is a white lady who is married to her white husband. her husband tended to be a little on the neglectful side. like, he cheated on her and they moved so they could "start over" or whatever.. you kno the story. but during the show, the wife started fantasizing about this black cop that was frequently call out to their house to investigate weird things that were happening to them. long story short, the wife asked herself why she was having these fantasies and without skipping a beat, my wife answered out loud, "because he's a strong sexy black man and you want he's big black cock"....
bruh....... i almost blew a load in my pants right then a there. i didnt however lol i jus played it cool and looked over at her with a smile and an expression on my face like 'omg i love that you just said that'. it was extremely exhilarating to say the least but still, that's probably one of the most casual instances we've had as a couple regarding our newly shared interest in interracial sex and black cock.
there is still much more i would like to share with everyone so there will be more post about our progress soon. please let me kno your thoughts and if you have any suggestion or advice, i'd love to hear from you.

thank you blacktowhite!! i wouldnt have made it this far without this site and the supportive members that have helped me come closer to making my fantasy a reality!
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My advice...don't push or ******* it. It may take time, but let her steer.
 
notblackedyet said:
what direction does she seem to be steering towards? in your opinion..
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If she made the comment, she may be thinking about it....but that's just one comment off of a tv show. If she makes a comment like that again then you can inquire about her thoughts. ASK about her thoughts... Don't get all excited about it. You will ruin your chances if you do.
 
Bigfunfun said:
And sometimes go for it!
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True that is. Each couple is unique and only the husband has the best knowledge about his wife.

There’s been plenty of posts elsewhere in this group on where cuckoldry and hot wifing went bad. The OP should read those before going to far.
 
syscom3 said:
True that is. Each couple is unique and only the husband has the best knowledge about his wife.

There’s been plenty of posts elsewhere in this group on where cuckoldry and hot wifing went bad. The OP should read those before going to far.
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I think or hope a want to be cuck knows that when you play around their are always risks.
 
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