Advice Needed: Next Steps...

[shady311]

UPDATE:

So I came completely clean about my fantasy and things did not go as well as I’d hoped. She thought it was strange I’d want to see her with another guy… She told me if she wanted a black guy she would’ve done it in college. Evidently she was hit on and asked out by a top basketball player at her school. She said she was “attracted to him” but denied him because she assumed he had a big dick and thought it would’ve hurt… I love the fact she commented on her assumptions on his size, but not very promising on getting her to make the leap.
Any thoughts/ suggestions?

 

[soon2becucked]

I'd say she didn't totally shut you down, and she admitted to having been attracted to a black guy! She basically has moved a step nearer, I think. I would let it lie low now for a month or two. Then raise it again, from a different angle, the issue of size hurting, ask her if any guy has ever hurt due to size, and say that you think it's all down to foreplay, being turned on, etc. and ask if that's the case. Just seem interested, don't push the black angle too hard.

 

[shady311]

I'd say she didn't totally shut you down, and she admitted to having been attracted to a black guy! She basically has moved a step nearer, I think. I would let it lie low now for a month or two. Then raise it again, from a different angle, the issue of size hurting, ask her if any guy has ever hurt due to size, and say that you think it's all down to foreplay, being turned on, etc. and ask if that's the case. Just seem interested, don't push the black angle too hard.

I totally agree if she’s turned on she can take anything and an athletic muscular black man would absolutely do the trick. Just need to get to that point.

 

[Wife4Black77]

UPDATE:

So I came completely clean about my fantasy and things did not go as well as I’d hoped. She thought it was strange I’d want to see her with another guy… She told me if she wanted a black guy she would’ve done it in college. Evidently she was hit on and asked out by a top basketball player at her school. She said she was “attracted to him” but denied him because she assumed he had a big dick and thought it would’ve hurt… I love the fact she commented on her assumptions on his size, but not very promising on getting her to make the leap.
Any thoughts/ suggestions?

You are in a much better position than you think. She has already admitted to being attracted to a black guy. That is huge.

Now you need to reassure her of many things to get her on board:
- Tell her that your fantasy is all about watching her get maximum pleasure, that’s what gets you hot.
- This fantasy makes you crazy horny and makes you desire her more (look up sperm competition to understand the dynamics yourself)
- As hot as this fantasy is, and it is scorching hot, you don’t want to lose her so even if this has to be fantasy only, not be realized fully that’s ok.
- Tell her this is a very, very common fantasy (you can show her stats, hell my therapist says she has numerous couples where the men have this as their top fantasy), but it’s still very embarrassing for you and it took tons of courage to share it with her and you want to be her partner for life which is why you took the chance.
- Many men have fantasies about other women (many act on those fantasies), that’s not you. She is your ideal mate and even in your fantasy life it’s all about her.
- Even if you don’t do it in real life the fantasy play between the two of you will be so hot and your naughty little secret.

Next up tell her that you’d like to watch some adult videos together after some drinks to just play around a little. DO SOME RESEARCH AND PICK SOME HOT VIDEOS THAT WILL APPEAL TO HER AND FEMALE SENSIBILITIES. Don’t pick the standard guy videos where it is just in and out slapping uglies with the obligatory cum shot on the face, anal, or extreme with hubby in womens underwear or cage. Should be large black guy in great shape with large cock, fucking married cute white woman who is having a hell of a good time.

Buy a black life like dildo but don’t overdo it by getting the biggest one you can. My wife at first balked big time because it was bigger than she had ever had but I promised to go slow and use lots of lube, which I did. I fucked her with it slowly while I fingered her clit and talked dirty to her. I thought she was in pain so I had to ask her a couple times. She finally exclaimed “it feels FUCKING AMAZING!!!” Which she never liked to cuss at all. She came so so hard.

Good luck and keep us posted.

 

[Wife4Black77]

You are in a much better position than you think. She has already admitted to being attracted to a black guy. That is huge.

Now you need to reassure her of many things to get her on board:
- Tell her that your fantasy is all about watching her get maximum pleasure, that’s what gets you hot.
- This fantasy makes you crazy horny and makes you desire her more (look up sperm competition to understand the dynamics yourself)
- As hot as this fantasy is, and it is scorching hot, you don’t want to lose her so even if this has to be fantasy only, not be realized fully that’s ok.
- Tell her this is a very, very common fantasy (you can show her stats, hell my therapist says she has numerous couples where the men have this as their top fantasy), but it’s still very embarrassing for you and it took tons of courage to share it with her and you want to be her partner for life which is why you took the chance.
- Many men have fantasies about other women (many act on those fantasies), that’s not you. She is your ideal mate and even in your fantasy life it’s all about her.
- Even if you don’t do it in real life the fantasy play between the two of you will be so hot and your naughty little secret.

Next up tell her that you’d like to watch some adult videos together after some drinks to just play around a little. DO SOME RESEARCH AND PICK SOME HOT VIDEOS THAT WILL APPEAL TO HER AND FEMALE SENSIBILITIES. Don’t pick the standard guy videos where it is just in and out slapping uglies with the obligatory cum shot on the face, anal, or extreme with hubby in womens underwear or cage. Should be large black guy in great shape with large cock, fucking married cute white woman who is having a hell of a good time.

Buy a black life like dildo but don’t overdo it by getting the biggest one you can. My wife at first balked big time because it was bigger than she had ever had but I promised to go slow and use lots of lube, which I did. I fucked her with it slowly while I fingered her clit and talked dirty to her. I thought she was in pain so I had to ask her a couple times. She finally exclaimed “it feels FUCKING AMAZING!!!” Which she never liked to cuss at all. She came so so hard.

Good luck and keep us posted.

I reread the post and see that you already got her a black dildo. From all of her comments it’s totally clear that she thinks bout black cock and is intrigued. The thought probably makes her wet. She may be scared but again mention going slow, lots of lube, and realistically women can and do give birth every second of every day and women's bodies adjust to accommodate.

Tell her you know that she doesn’t “need” porn but this is your biggest fantasy so can she be accommodating for your sexual satisfaction? Guaranteed that her watching other white wives taking and losing their minds in ******* on large black cocks will make a world of difference. Again, tell her that lots of men fantasize about other women but that’s not you. Your sexual satisfaction is all about her. And at the very least can she gift you some hot sex talk with this theme? You aren't asking for much, and I’d have to wonder how much she cares if she can’t oblige you.

 

[shady311]

I reread the post and see that you already got her a black dildo. From all of her comments it’s totally clear that she thinks bout black cock and is intrigued. The thought probably makes her wet. She may be scared but again mention going slow, lots of lube, and realistically women can and do give birth every second of every day and women's bodies adjust to accommodate.

Tell her you know that she doesn’t “need” porn but this is your biggest fantasy so can she be accommodating for your sexual satisfaction? Guaranteed that her watching other white wives taking and losing their minds in ******* on large black cocks will make a world of difference. Again, tell her that lots of men fantasize about other women but that’s not you. Your sexual satisfaction is all about her. And at the very least can she gift you some hot sex talk with this theme? You aren't asking for much, and I’d have to wonder how much she cares if she can’t oblige you.

I really appreciate your thoughts and agree with what you are saying. Definitely reassuring!

 

[shady311]

So last night an old high school friend of hers she has not talked to in years sent her a message. She doesn’t know I saw it, but it said “I CAN’T BELIEVE you ended up marrying a skinny WHITE BOY!?”

There has to be something there?!

 

[Longandthick88]

I hear ya. There is a very popular amateur cuckold/Hotwire video I found that has a wife who looks amazingly very similar to her. It’s my go to, so far we have not watched it together...

Wondering what video this is? Can you share the link? Thx