Advice Needed: Next Steps...

[MacNfries]

Gotta feel comfortable having good & open communications with the spouse ... otherwise you're spinning your wheels.

 

[Carloslopez]

Cmon now. I really opened up on this post, if you don’t want to give me advice, at least let me know what you think of that ass. Lol

She’s super hot but maybe she’s not into man, if you try to ******* it or move to fast she might just get fed up and dump your ass.

 

[dollie]

Cmon now. I really opened up on this post, if you don’t want to give me advice, at least let me know what you think of that ass. Lol

looks like you might want to keep that ass for yourself !!!

 

[shady311]

looks like you might want to keep that ass for yourself !!!

Ha! Yeah it’s a tasty ass for sure. I never said I wanted to stop fucking her as well. I lined up a well built black guy I know to give her a massage. Will see where it goes...

 

[marco vittoro]

Ha! Yeah it’s a tasty ass for sure. I never said I wanted to stop fucking her as well. I lined up a well built black guy I know to give her a massage. Will see where it goes...

well, hopefully you've had that truly open & earnest conversation, & let her know you'll back her play...no matter wherever it goes, coz it will!

in the heat of passions, things happen, & everything changes...including reality. be ready to hold her hand & re-affirm your love & acceptance as unconditional. that's crucial, if you want the marriage to grow forwards.

 

[wannabee]

I've been slowly dropping hints that I would enjoy watching my wife get satisfied by a black guy for the better half of a decade. She has a condition that sometimes sex can be painful, however, in the past year it has been much more enjoyable for her & when she is in the ideal mood she really enjoys it. I am honestly terrified if I straight up tell her how she would react &/or think of me.... So I need advice on how to proceed. Below is a very small amount of the of conversations/incidents of note. I believe a lot of the seeds I have planted via interracial themed memes I send & other stuff has resulted in her thinking more about BBC.

-I bought her a black dildo, which she refuses to use because she would rather have sex with me. However, about 5 years ago I did get her to use it & afterwards she said "Well, I guess I can say I have been with a black guy now!"

-I mentioned a previous girlfriend had dated a black friend of mine before. I said it was weird (because he was my friend), she assumed and said "was it weird because he was much bigger than you".

-Her friend went on a mission trip to Africa & mentioned some of the guys just let their dicks hang out. My wife's response, "are the rumors true, are they all huge"

-Another friend has a black teenager & my wife mentioned that he will be a hot commodity when he gets older because "all the girls will want to find out if the rumors are true"

-At the gym one day the instructor told us the white ropes are smaller and easier & the black ropes are bigger and harder, her response "That's what she said"

-She loved the show Bridgerton, & every night when their was a sexy IR scene, she was extra ready in bed.

-One day I sent her a meme from a very popular homemade IR scene with a girl who is her doppelganger & told her I found the video if she would want to watch it. She was appalled and said thats cringeworthy & has no need to watch porn & thinks its just a thing for guys. So I have had zero luck in going that route, which mostly is just to get her worked up so I can have sex with her & get her fantasizing about BBC.

There have been countless moments like this, which gets me very excited. The problem is I don't know how to progress to the next stage & I know she is scared of taking on a BBC as she thinks it will be too big. She has specifically told me before, she would never sleep with a black guy because she would be terrified of a black penis. She has also said she is very content with me & I have nothing to worry about when I send her PG comparison types of things in messages. I really would love to find someone for an in home massage & see how things progress, IDK... She has a nice thick ass & I know she is curious, I think she doesn't want to hurt my feelings being too honest.

So any advice? Also let me know what you think of that ass.
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Ha! Yeah it’s a tasty ass for sure. I never said I wanted to stop fucking her as well. I lined up a well built black guy I know to give her a massage. Will see where it goes...

Your wife is hot and deserves a BBC!

Did anything happen yet with the black masseuse?

 

[shady311]

Your wife is hot and deserves a BBC!

Did anything happen yet with the black masseuse?

It went really well. Nothing happened that I know of but setting up another day next month for another massage. Almost certain that it at least got her a little horny. A few hours after we had sex and when I first went down on her she was super wet and ended up having an unusually long and strong orgasm as I fucked her. So that’s a win for both of us I would say.

 

[wannabee]

It went really well. Nothing happened that I know of but setting up another day next month for another massage. Almost certain that it at least got her a little horny. A few hours after we had sex and when I first went down on her she was super wet and ended up having an unusually long and strong orgasm as I fucked her. So that’s a win for both of us I would say.

Thanks for the update, keep us posted!

 

[OneAboutLife]

New here myself. I hope what’s best works out for you. I second and third some of the other contributions by saying take it slow and don’t let your desired end muddy up your means. About two years ago and very inadvertently I found out my wife almost exclusively dated black men to include frequent hook ups with her trainer about 6 months into us dating. When we moved in together it stopped but I was rather surprised. I know a rush to the end sounds good but I don’t think that’s meant to last. One night during a drunken getaway I got her to open up. Almost two years later and we still haven’t gotten to the step of her acting on it, primarily because we have been monogamous. She exclusively watches interracial porn, has a store full of black dildos, and whenever we get away from the ******* loves to role play interracial gangbangs with them. I think it’s like anything else in life where when it’s right the opportunity will be there. All that and we aren’t even there. She’s come close to pulling the trigger via hook up apps but it hasn’t happen yet. Hang in there and talk to her but don’t press.

 

[NECouple4BBC]

Though im still working on fulfilling the actual fantasy irl i have made progress with my wife. One.of the things i think that helped my wife understand my bbc fixation and watching her gettimg fucked.by someone else was when i explained that to me its like shes my own personal porn star, how when i watch porn i always lpol for gorlw who resemble my wife womce they turm me.pn the most and that id rather watch her than any other woman in the world. It made her feel sexy as hell and she even started requesting we watch more.bbc porn while fooling around which helped even more because it turned her on to think of me wanting her to be so grqphic and sexually outgoing. Basically try ti make her understand the fantasy and sexual act are still about just you and her and is a way to test the boundries of your sexuality and also helps you to get closer and build even more trust.

 

[shady311]

Though im still working on fulfilling the actual fantasy irl i have made progress with my wife. One.of the things i think that helped my wife understand my bbc fixation and watching her gettimg fucked.by someone else was when i explained that to me its like shes my own personal porn star, how when i watch porn i always lpol for gorlw who resemble my wife womce they turm me.pn the most and that id rather watch her than any other woman in the world. It made her feel sexy as hell and she even started requesting we watch more.bbc porn while fooling around which helped even more because it turned her on to think of me wanting her to be so grqphic and sexually outgoing. Basically try ti make her understand the fantasy and sexual act are still about just you and her and is a way to test the boundries of your sexuality and also helps you to get closer and build even more trust.

I hear ya. There is a very popular amateur cuckold/Hotwire video I found that has a wife who looks amazingly very similar to her. It’s my go to, so far we have not watched it together...

 

[Ihopeoneday]

Did you try befriending a relaxed guy thats black and have him coming over at the house. like a new workmate or something. than after a few times normal visits let him hit on her more and more, this route i would like to try myself but not many BBC on Madeira island where i live.
Anyway hope our wives will be blacked soon.

 

[robbiewillsuck]

To be a good BF or husband - you should be willing to do anything that makes her happy including becoming a bi sub sissy cd cuckold. I think all females need lots of cocks. Encourage her to fuck any cock she wants then offer to lick her pussy clean after her dates while she shares the details with you.

 

[soon2becucked]

If his wife was 13 maybe. But adult women who talk about a celebrity crush are not thinking in terms of holding hands. Women aren’t going to refer to someone so bluntly. “That’s the celebrity I’d like to get fucked by.” My wife’s celebrity crush is someone who she wouldn’t hesitate to have sex with. She refers to them as damn sexy not “cute” or “gentlemanly.”

The fact that her ex was Dominican makes me believe that she isn’t opposed to fucking a black guy under different circumstances (I.e. if she was single). The fact that her celebrity crush is also black again speaks to a greater willingness to explore attraction outside of her race.

BUT, the “hints” she is throwing off supposedly are way too vague/obscure/sketchy to put a lot of faith that she is anywhere close to realizing your fantasy. She sounds a bit like an uptight “traditional” wife.

By these standards my wife has thrown off insanely forward hints about fucking a black guy, and yet I’m no closer to making this happen than I was 5 years ago.

Your best bet is to confide in your wife about what your fantasy is, and see where you stand. You guys have an active sex life so she doesn’t sound frigid. Just tell her you are showing a lot of trust in her sharing this fantasy and to please be respectful and discreet. Tell her you won’t ******* her to do this fantasy but you didn’t want to hide your desires from her.

This sounds like great advice. Basically your wife is giving a few very hopeful light green lights! As long as you are nice about it, I think you may succeed in getting her to open up to the idea.

 

[robbiewillsuck]

This sounds like great advice. Basically your wife is giving a few very hopeful light green lights! As long as you are nice about it, I think you may succeed in getting her to open up to the idea.

Start licking her pussy after you have fucked her then on the fourth time - tell her that you fantasize while you lick her pussy. If she ask what you are fantasizing about - door is opening. Same thing with cumming on her tits.

 

[toolman2c]

Cmon now. I really opened up on this post, if you don’t want to give me advice, at least let me know what you think of that ass. Lol

hey i enjoyed thecread and ur wife is real sexy, lobe 2c her naked or n undies. U a lucky man, im trying 2 figure out what advice 2 give U.

 

[toolman2c]

Reading your words, my advice go slow. She's already expressed more than once how put off she is by some of your suggestions. The dildo episode you described may not be what you think. You might have gotten the same reaction from any large vibrator, you stated she's loved every one you've tried. The color might not mean anything to her. She might just be feeding your fantasy because she knows it turns you on and she's being a good wife in her mind.
It sounds like your wife has had many years of instilled values, one being you don't sleep with other men when married. That often comes with a great deal of guilt and fear of rejection. Usually including the collapse of marriage. Remember society has always treated the female differently where sex is concerned. The single male who sleeps around is a stud, the female is a tramp or worse. Females see, hear, and are taught that from the starting gate. In what your wanting making her convinced what you ask will not backfire and cause all she's been taught is your biggest obstacle. Remember what most guys get turned on by she's been taught is forbidden.
Watching a porno or buying a black dildo will not remove those deep feelings. Her interest in them merely a hint that with assurance of no anger or rejection by you exploring is a safe option. I think it would be safe to say the more secure she feels in your relationship the easyer it would be to get her to explore. Something you will be doing together as a couple. Something to try with a understanding at first it's a mutual experience . Even including the option of it being a one time thing until discussed after. That way either has the opportunity to decide to proceed or not.

i so love how U explain things, ur a real HONEY, nothing hotter than a real honey that loves 2 fuck and cant get enough cock.

 

[toolman2c]

I've been slowly dropping hints that I would enjoy watching my wife get satisfied by a black guy for the better half of a decade. She has a condition that sometimes sex can be painful, however, in the past year it has been much more enjoyable for her & when she is in the ideal mood she really enjoys it. I am honestly terrified if I straight up tell her how she would react &/or think of me.... So I need advice on how to proceed. Below is a very small amount of the of conversations/incidents of note. I believe a lot of the seeds I have planted via interracial themed memes I send & other stuff has resulted in her thinking more about BBC.

-I bought her a black dildo, which she refuses to use because she would rather have sex with me. However, about 5 years ago I did get her to use it & afterwards she said "Well, I guess I can say I have been with a black guy now!"

-I mentioned a previous girlfriend had dated a black friend of mine before. I said it was weird (because he was my friend), she assumed and said "was it weird because he was much bigger than you".

-Her friend went on a mission trip to Africa & mentioned some of the guys just let their dicks hang out. My wife's response, "are the rumors true, are they all huge"

-Another friend has a black teenager & my wife mentioned that he will be a hot commodity when he gets older because "all the girls will want to find out if the rumors are true"

-At the gym one day the instructor told us the white ropes are smaller and easier & the black ropes are bigger and harder, her response "That's what she said"

-She loved the show Bridgerton, & every night when their was a sexy IR scene, she was extra ready in bed.

-One day I sent her a meme from a very popular homemade IR scene with a girl who is her doppelganger & told her I found the video if she would want to watch it. She was appalled and said thats cringeworthy & has no need to watch porn & thinks its just a thing for guys. So I have had zero luck in going that route, which mostly is just to get her worked up so I can have sex with her & get her fantasizing about BBC.

There have been countless moments like this, which gets me very excited. The problem is I don't know how to progress to the next stage & I know she is scared of taking on a BBC as she thinks it will be too big. She has specifically told me before, she would never sleep with a black guy because she would be terrified of a black penis. She has also said she is very content with me & I have nothing to worry about when I send her PG comparison types of things in messages. I really would love to find someone for an in home massage & see how things progress, IDK... She has a nice thick ass & I know she is curious, I think she doesn't want to hurt my feelings being too honest.

So any advice? Also let me know what you think of that ass.
,built for bbc?! Thanks!
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she is soo sexy, im swelling as i read ur post n dreaming of putting my bare naked cock up inside her treasure, ur hot for it 2 happen do U think U could handle watching her split wide n deep on a new cock?

 

[Gogugogou]

I am looking forward for your post..I would love to see your wife taking her fisrt bbc at least pics if not video.Good luck!

 

[Gogugogou]

Any update?