Oh what a great young lady. I love modern white women.She left with an understanding that I enjoy what I do and she was fine with it. The most important thing was she didn't tell anyone else, which I was very happy with. Were good
Adult ******* has found out about my lifestyle
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Ignore these other fools and their fantasies. I'm glad your family is intact and that hopefully everything will be okay.
dikklittleboy
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Good to see you have had that chat and hope matters are sorted for you bothFirst thank you all for the nice comments from my family here on B2W. Ok well her and I spent a lot of time together yesterday afternoon and had a very adult talk about my lifestyle and her *******'s. I told her that we are still very much in love with each other and nothing was going to change that. I'm not going to go into details but I pretty much said I have a high sex drive that her ******* can't satisfy and he's good with it and that I like being with black men. Of course there was a hell of a lot more in between and hours of talking. She left with an understanding that I enjoy what I do and she was fine with it
here's wishing you and ******* all the best
If shes an adult, put some color in her life lol... She will thank you later, continue the brotherly love down the line
I had a similar situation yes they shock was upsetting for her she was 19 but once we could talk things got better and she came around to see it from my point of view
Everything will get better with time
Very true
So happy it has worked out. Also love how supportive most of the members of this community have been.First thank you all for the nice comments from my family here on B2W
Now that the shock is over and things are good it may make your relationship with your ******* even stronger, even if this is never mentioned again. Just having had that difficult conversation she knows she can confide anything with you now.
Wish the best for everyone in your life.
Thank you sweetie
And here is another one thinking with his dick. What the hell is wrong with you. Offer some consolement- not turn it around into some kind of bizarre sexual twist that now her ******* is at home fantasizing about your created fetish. This poor lady has had a very emotional time and yes it is a big deal for a family member to have Pandora's box opened wide to the scrutiny of their children. This is the kind of stuff that seriously makes me think of not participating on the forums any longer.
It is just stunning isn't it? No regard for someone's turmoil and mental anguish just feed my petty little sexual twist I make up in my own little world. Pathetic.
It's really embarrassing and gets in the way of people trying to work things out for themselves
ThkBBC4wf
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Santa Claus.
The tooth fairy.
The Easter Bunny.
Our perfect parents.
These are the myths of our lives, and when they are shattered. We are shattered.
I'm glad you had time to talk to her. With time, and as with all myths, she will come to see reality and accept it. Who knows perhaps she will even embrace it.
Few of us said, I won't perpetrate that Santa Claus myth. Nope, we jumped right on the band wagon.
Perhaps she will as well.
Thanks for sharing as I think there is value here for all.
The tooth fairy.
The Easter Bunny.
Our perfect parents.
These are the myths of our lives, and when they are shattered. We are shattered.
I'm glad you had time to talk to her. With time, and as with all myths, she will come to see reality and accept it. Who knows perhaps she will even embrace it.
Few of us said, I won't perpetrate that Santa Claus myth. Nope, we jumped right on the band wagon.
Perhaps she will as well.
Thanks for sharing as I think there is value here for all.
Everyone has choices and NOBODY does well emotionally wrapping themselves around other people's choices. Train her to understand that she can choose to get spun by "your decision" or respect you enough to recognize "your decision" has nothing to do with "her decision". Sometimes people, regardless of who they are to you, need to be reminded to stay in their own lane. You can't control how she looks at you, so stop trying.
@beenblackened You were one of the first b2w 'regulars' I unofficially 'followed' when I signed on to this site. I can only imagine how hard that hit you when you realized your secret was out to your *******. I am heartened to see your subsequent post that you two have opened up a constructive dialog about this and that things seem headed to a great path.
Keep hanging in there. Your b2w family's supporting you.
Keep hanging in there. Your b2w family's supporting you.
GrandTorino
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For a significant portion of the members on this site, this community is just porn with extra steps. They don't see the person on the other side as a person but a character in an erotica. They're aren't worth paying attention to.
GrandTorino
Male
Glad to hear it worked out between the two of you.
As I previously stated, I brought my ******* into the lifestyle and she has never regretted the decision. After sharing some wine, I decided to tell her the truth and she appreciated my honesty and as they say the rest is history.
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