Adult ******* has found out about my lifestyle

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I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
i am sorry you and your family have to go trough this stressful time right now. but i bet your ******* if she loves you will fully understand you in time and you can all move past this. stay strong
 
First thank you all for the nice comments from my family here on B2W :lips:. Ok well her and I spent a lot of time together yesterday afternoon and had a very adult talk about my lifestyle and her *******'s. I told her that we are still very much in love with each other and nothing was going to change that. I'm not going to go into details but I pretty much said I have a high sex drive that her ******* can't satisfy and he's good with it and that I like being with black men. Of course there was a hell of a lot more in between and hours of talking. She left with an understanding that I enjoy what I do and she was fine with it :love:. The most important thing was she didn't tell anyone else, which I was very happy with. Were good
A few months from now don't be surprised if, dear ******* cautiously ask about the Lifestyle especially with BBC playmates....
 
Try to convince her everyone has different taste what you will do in personal life that will be solely based on your personal decision so let us live in our way.
One of my freind stop talking to his parents its10 years now just because his parents was involved in lifestyle in there youth and he knows that fact from childhood. Be careful
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
Hopefully you and her can talk after she calms down and let her know it’s a lifestyle choice you chose. Doesn’t change the mom you always been to her
 
Try to convince her everyone has different taste what you will do in personal life that will be solely based on your personal decision so let us live in our way.
One of my freind stop talking to his parents its10 years now just because his parents was involved in lifestyle in there youth and he knows that fact from childhood. Be careful
If my children, as adults, decide to stop talking to me because of my participation in the LS or being polyamorous then that’s their choice. It would suck but wouldn’t change my lifestyle at all. I only have one life and I’m going to live it in a way that makes me happy.
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
Oh that sucks,best of luck to you. I'm the end what you two do in your relationship consentually is no one's business so hopefully she will get past it and pretend she didn't see it. But I know it has to be a trying time.
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
I tend to be more old school about parents and their offspring. Mom and Dad don't owe the ******* any explanation about their sexual lifestyle.
 
For a significant portion of the members on this site, this community is just porn with extra steps. They don't see the person on the other side as a person but a character in an erotica. They're aren't worth paying attention to.

I have almost certainly been one of "those people" and it disgusts me that I have allowed the erotica part of this get the better on my human side, I do apologise to anyone who my actions have caused any distress to on here over the years. Its not OK or cool to trample over the feelings of others, so I do apologise for any behavior that has caused any distress, for anyone.
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
Sorry to hear that you're having to deal with it but it's better for her to find it that way that most other ways. Thankfully she's an adult and will understand that your preferences and partners don't have anything to do with your relationship together
 
I left my computer on and on this website last week. My adult ******* came over to use it and seen everything and was shocked and upset. So I've been dealing with that and haven't been on here. Trying to explain hasn't went well and has got me in a pretty down mood :(
Sorry to hear about this - you are one of my favorite people here! With all you have posted, I wasn't sure how much of your family knew. I have one ******* who knows everything, the other two and my ******* suspect, but don't know. Good luck in getting through this!
 
First thank you all for the nice comments from my family here on B2W :lips:. Ok well her and I spent a lot of time together yesterday afternoon and had a very adult talk about my lifestyle and her *******'s. I told her that we are still very much in love with each other and nothing was going to change that. I'm not going to go into details but I pretty much said I have a high sex drive that her ******* can't satisfy and he's good with it and that I like being with black men. Of course there was a hell of a lot more in between and hours of talking. She left with an understanding that I enjoy what I do and she was fine with it :love:. The most important thing was she didn't tell anyone else, which I was very happy with. Were good
See there! At the end of the day as long as both of her parents are happy it simply comes down to:
"it ain't nobody's business about grown folks doing grown folks business"! 😂♠️🤣
 
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