A question for the guys ...

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Mariposa blanca, Jan 30, 2013.

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She wants it gentle, you want it rough. What do you do?

  1. I give it to her gentle. I want to please her.

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  2. I stay away from her. I'm not interested if she doesn't want it rough.

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  3. I tell her I'll be gentle and then give it to her rough regardless. My pleasure is what matters.

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  1. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    If the woman wants it gentle (for real, not just playing coy), but you like things rough, what do you do? Give it to her gentle because you ultimately want to please her? Stay away, because if she doesn't want it rough, then you're not interested? Or tell her you'll go gentle and then give it to her rough anyway, because you're the boss?

    Interested in your feedback and opinions. :). All of this is pretty new to me.
    Thanks.
     
  2. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    No one out there in cyberspace willing to share their opinion?
     
  3. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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  4. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you! :) appreciate the feedback.
     
  5. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You're welcome, anytime.
     
  6. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I will give it to her the way that gives her the most pleasure, women tend to come back to your bed if you can curl their toes but not if you cause them more pain than pleasure. When it doubt it never hurts to have the woman ride cowgirl. Quite often she will start out gentle and once she gets used to my size will fuck the hell out of me. Large bulls can cause physical damage to a woman if they are too rough early into the sex session
     
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  7. jay22

    jay22 Active Member

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    Gentle of course.
     
  8. sico_tiko

    sico_tiko Active Member Real Person

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    i will give it to her gentle and after a couple of times we talk getting lil bit rough and if she likes the way i do it gentle she always wanna make me happy so she gives me what i want as i do to her
     
  9. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thanks for the feedback, guys! I appreciate all of your thoughts and opinions. :)
     
  10. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    I've always let the woman set the pace. What she considers gentle might actually be your medium and your gentle too gentle for her or vice versa.
    I found that no matter how gentle things start out, the woman will always escalate to rougher and more intense sex as time goes on.

    Of course, there are always the exceptions who want to start out rough and get rougher as well! :bounce:
     
  11. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Very good points. It is true that everything tends to be relative.
     
  12. HornyHubby

    HornyHubby New Member Real Person

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    As usual willsrvu hits the right chord. It's all about serving the Queen Bee. Since we've been married so long it's like choreography; once intimacy and gentle loving has lubricated the gears of pleasure - it's off to the races. At times though she is playing coy to bring about a ravishing. One HAS to keep one's eye on the ball so to speak.
     
  13. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thanks for the input!!
     
  14. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Last I checked, the ladies still had a monopoly on all the pussy, and I was still unable to suck my own dick. That said, I'll give it to them the way they want it, or at least TRY too, anyways. :)
     
  15. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    LOL, love it!
     
  16. hazardous

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    Gentle !!
     
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  17. thickbbc

    thickbbc Active Member

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    gentle!!! give her what she wants, and she'll keep cumming back;)
     
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  18. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I gotta say that I'm loving hearing these responses. Getting a very good feeling about how guys treat their woman. :)
     
  19. thickbbc

    thickbbc Active Member

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    if you treat them nicely and please them in bed, men shouldn't have a problem banging them again later;), but if you have a small cock, all bets are OFF:)
     
  20. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I can just speak for myself, but lovemaking is not just intercourse. Yes, that's a major part of it, but pleasure can be found from many different sources.
     
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