A question for the guys ...

[Mariposa blanca]

If the woman wants it gentle (for real, not just playing coy), but you like things rough, what do you do? Give it to her gentle because you ultimately want to please her? Stay away, because if she doesn't want it rough, then you're not interested? Or tell her you'll go gentle and then give it to her rough anyway, because you're the boss?

Interested in your feedback and opinions. . All of this is pretty new to me.
Thanks.

 

[Mariposa blanca]

No one out there in cyberspace willing to share their opinion?

 

[bm_from_southjersey]

Gentle

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Thank you! appreciate the feedback.

 

[bm_from_southjersey]

Thank you! appreciate the feedback.

You're welcome, anytime.

 

[Torpedo]

I will give it to her the way that gives her the most pleasure, women tend to come back to your bed if you can curl their toes but not if you cause them more pain than pleasure. When it doubt it never hurts to have the woman ride cowgirl. Quite often she will start out gentle and once she gets used to my size will fuck the hell out of me. Large bulls can cause physical damage to a woman if they are too rough early into the sex session

 

[jay22]

Gentle of course.

 

[sico_tiko]

i will give it to her gentle and after a couple of times we talk getting lil bit rough and if she likes the way i do it gentle she always wanna make me happy so she gives me what i want as i do to her

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Thanks for the feedback, guys! I appreciate all of your thoughts and opinions.

 

[willsrvu]

I've always let the woman set the pace. What she considers gentle might actually be your medium and your gentle too gentle for her or vice versa.
I found that no matter how gentle things start out, the woman will always escalate to rougher and more intense sex as time goes on.

Of course, there are always the exceptions who want to start out rough and get rougher as well!

 

[Mariposa blanca]

I've always let the woman set the pace. What she considers gentle might actually be your medium and your gentle too gentle for her or vice versa.
I found that no matter how gentle things start out, the woman will always escalate to rougher and more intense sex as time goes on.

Of course, there are always the exceptions who want to start out rough and get rougher as well!

Very good points. It is true that everything tends to be relative.

 

[HornyHubby]

As usual willsrvu hits the right chord. It's all about serving the Queen Bee. Since we've been married so long it's like choreography; once intimacy and gentle loving has lubricated the gears of pleasure - it's off to the races. At times though she is playing coy to bring about a ravishing. One HAS to keep one's eye on the ball so to speak.

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Thanks for the input!!

 

[MacNfries]

Last I checked, the ladies still had a monopoly on all the pussy, and I was still unable to suck my own dick. That said, I'll give it to them the way they want it, or at least TRY too, anyways.

 

[Mariposa blanca]

Last I checked, the ladies still had a monopoly on all the pussy, and I was still unable to suck my own dick. That said, I'll give it to them the way they want it, or at least TRY too, anyways.

LOL, love it!

 

[hazardous]

Gentle !!

 

[thickbbc]

gentle!!! give her what she wants, and she'll keep cumming back

 

[Mariposa blanca]

I gotta say that I'm loving hearing these responses. Getting a very good feeling about how guys treat their woman.

 

[thickbbc]

if you treat them nicely and please them in bed, men shouldn't have a problem banging them again later, but if you have a small cock, all bets are OFF

 

[Mariposa blanca]

I can just speak for myself, but lovemaking is not just intercourse. Yes, that's a major part of it, but pleasure can be found from many different sources.