You best guess on how many girls like cuckolding

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  1. Weakwhitesmall

    Weakwhitesmall New Member

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    Question for cuckolds who have been succesful in getting ordinary girls to cuckold them or single girls who are hypothetically open relationship with in their mid 20s with a fit regular guy, would you say 20% or girls would he open to this, all assumptions welcome
     
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  2. gisade

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    I was cucked unknowingly by an old girlfriend. When I discovered what was going on, I found that I was turned on by it. From there, Ive been cucked by all but one serious GF.
     
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  3. Weakwhitesmall

    Weakwhitesmall New Member

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    Do you ask them to? Is it always black men?
     
  4. gisade

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    Ask them? Not really. Its more like me setting the atmosphere that leads to it. Starts with hot talk during sex, then 3sum porn, then cucks watching, and eventually making the fantasy a reality. Many women are turned off by it so its not for everyone.

    As for black men, the first black man was with my wife and we've been black since
     
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  5. Weakwhitesmall

    Weakwhitesmall New Member

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    I wish my girl would but its against her morals to be with another man, but she flirts with them online while I eat her out and she tells me stories while playing w me
     
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  6. Miamicouple

    Miamicouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I'd say the percentage of women that would go for this is extremely small. It's just not what most women want in a relationship. Especially in a new relationship. You have to have a very very strong foundation to even consider this lifestyle. Also, it's more of a male fantasy than it is for women!! Just look around this site if you think that's note true.
     
  7. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I would guess there are many more women who cheat then those who cuck their men.
     
  8. hotwifecouple78

    hotwifecouple78 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Your comment is so very true...contrary what most of the men on sites like this fantasize about, the hotwife lifestyle is just not what the majority of women are interested in doing. And most of the women who do start the hotwife lifestyle probably started because their husbands initiated it.
     
  9. Miamicouple

    Miamicouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    All true. Another women actually made a comment that I thought was a bit true. Most women would cheat before chosing the lifestyle. This lifestyle is geared torward an older established couple who have been through a lot together. I would never recommend this for a young couple in their 20's. You are not quite mature enough to handle this. This never entered my mind. Never. My husband initiated it all. But it's in my brain now. Lol
     
  10. Lv2cleanup

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    Bravo well said
     
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  11. hotwifecouple78

    hotwifecouple78 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You are so right. Most younger couples in their 20s would not be interested in this at all and even if they thought they might be, are probably not mature enough and developed in their relationship to be able to handle it. I think this is a fantasy that usually develops in many men as they get a little older at least in their 30s and often in their 40s or 50s. Of course many men do have this fantasy for a long time before they get the courage to bring it up with their wives, if they ever even do so. There are always exceptions of course, but I think men begin to have interest in this as they get older and are comfortable in their relationship with their wife and are not as threatened by it. I know in our case my husband brought it up to me when he was in his 40s and I was in my 30s and even then, we discussed it and role played doing it for a few years before we did it for real. This is something we like to do together now to enhance our own sex lives and to add variety and excitement to it.
     
  12. Miamicouple

    Miamicouple Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Sounds like we have a lot in common! As I learned and discussed with my husband. Years ago our fantasies were pretty tame. But as we matured and we learned more and more about each other you just learn to feel each other out and if you are very comfortable and in love. You try and keep things very exciting. This definitely didn't happen over night. If you ask my husband straight up why he would ever consider sharing me? He'd straight up say he loves me. Worships me. Wants me happy and wants all my fantasies fulfilled. So I'm not going to fight him on it. Lol. But it does make our sex even that much better. I am sure your experiences are a bit similar. I hope all your experiences are positive ones.
    Linda
     
  13. Kuno

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    The biggest problem with the whole cuck scenario is the whole sissie or little aspect. It's hard to imagine even 1% of women finding that to be some kind of turn-on.
     
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  14. hotwifecouple78

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    You are correct. As much as being a submissive or humiliation sexual excitement thing it is for some men (definitely not our thing at all), the truth is almost no women find that to be a sexual fantasy and the wives who do it are almost always doing it to please their husbands.
     
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  15. wahoosurfer

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    We must be the exception. I am 43 my wife is 26 and we are full on into the swinging lifestyle. We were married a year ago and been a couple for 3 years, we started swinging after about a year and it has made us closer for sure. We are with BBC's about 75-80% of the time and with couples the rest. I brought it up first and at first she thought it was some sort of test or something but eventually figured out I was for real and let herself go and we have not looked back. We talk about EVERYTHING, bad or good, likes and dislikes and are HONEST with each other above all else! Communication and honesty are key in this lifestyle for sure! Oh, and make all rules and boundaries beforehand and stick to them!! We both couldn't be happier!
     
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  16. Kuno

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    Yeah, the appeal of humiliation is a bit of a head scratcher. It seems to turn up in a lot of threads here. Within the context of IR, certainly some of the dom/sub can generate some excitement. If the man has ownership with the dom/sub aspects while maintaining masculinity, is sensitive to the woman's desires and fantasies, the younger girls especially are more open to the idea. It's about about being actively involved, and not just watching.
     
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  17. hotwifecouple78

    hotwifecouple78 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You're not so much of an exception in regards to age to get involved in the hotwife lifestyle since you are early 40s. Although your wife is in her 20s, it often seems that many men married to younger women get involved in it and it was pretty much that way with us. We started in the lifestyle when my husband was in his 40s and me in my 30s.
     
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  18. hotwifecouple78

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    Well humiliation and submissiveness seem to have that strange crossover regarding feelings like jealousy where men can sometimes turn it into sexual excitement.
     
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  19. SteelRat

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    My girlfriend and I were both in our twenties. We started via swinging. But never got into, sissy/humiliation stuff.
    Just people having fun and great sex.
     
  20. Alpha_Beta_Male

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    This is certainly not meant to enable any fantasy expectations of the real world or to give you something to jack off about.. It is just based on what I have seen and experienced...being single, involved, single again, involved, etc over a number of years:

    "Girls?" Maybe 20 % already like it or would be open to it...definitely. I'm gonna go ahead and say ages 15-20 for girls. I have a hard time with the "girl" term extending beyond that age range. There are many sadistic younger girls out there and that trend is growing. They like destroying guys in one form or another (for fun-at least so I tell myself). This can range from - one I knew who wanted ever so much to genitally mutilate me. I endured some punishment but when the word cutting was uttered, I found I could no longer partake. - to a less extreme (rather mundane to me now) example of one I knew that seemed to relish in placing sexual restrictions on me and taking every opportunity to mention how a different guy does not have the same restrictions and why he doesn't. I accepted that for a while too. That is a large range of motivation and an individual range of experience, but an indicator of a larger truth. Whether bossing them up or crushing a dude's spirit, the girls are loving it more by the day. Perhaps I deal more with the girls in the venn diagram where modern "millennial" feminism and modern sexual kink-desensitization converge. Basically everyone is a fringe element in something and maybe I play with the fringe more often than some, but that doesn't make my estimate % any less legit. 20 is clearly not majority, so don't start assuming every girl you meet is down for all the nasty shit you have on your mind.

    I probably should clarify that I view cuckolding differently than many here...I don't think a male can actively choose cuckoldry. That is not up to him. In order for it to be true cuckoldry, it must originate from a female and then be enforced or schemed into practice. Something the cuckold believes he must accept for various reasons. Maybe he ends up appreciating it and enjoying it and that is lucky for him, but it is not guaranteed to be the goal. It must be her singular kink or part of her kink collection. Feminine-driven cuckoldry contains elements of sadism, power play, domination, exhibitionism, and yes occasionally the thrill of fucking alpha men guilt-free while being in at least a somewhat stable relationship with another dude. Yes, many more girls are involved in all this or desire it than you might realize. It has definitely been a surprise to me...for a long time a very unpleasant one.

    I want to point out none of this necessarily applies to serious "traditional" relationships though. Those numbers would obviously be less. But the OP is implying open relationships, which start and are rather dependent upon one or both partners being ready, willing, and able to...play well with others. So the realm of "relationship" I am applying numbers to refers to the dating "hunting" stages through to open marriages and polyamory.

    Women? Maybe 15%
    There is a certain thrill of wielding sexual power. It seems the older and more experienced a woman gets, the more likely she is to indulge in embracing this particular thrill when there are opportunities. Older and more experienced often brings more open mindedness, even if they did not grow up ever expecting to be involved in some of the things they end up involved in.
    Also the concept of being watched fucking another man and being adored on that physical and sexual level is a rather unsurprising bit of satisfaction to many women who begin to age and perhaps are beginning to lose a bit of the positive self-image they once had. More power to them. Some actually regain a lot more confidence and begin a healthy cycle of inner strength due to the lifestyle.

    I am certainly not like many on here who seem to have a fetish for a woman basically just cheating in a "controlled" manner. A lot of addicts and masochists here. Many males here also seem to be rather close to having a homosexual desire for black men. My perspective is coming from a very different place I guess. Not saying you are wrong for yours, it's just something I don't completely understand.
    I have been an asshole who has had a rampaging ego in the past and preferred having my way through a large part of my life...but through several years and several experiences, I have had this beaten down into a much more humble shape. Personally, I admit it has been good for me..healthy. I am sure that too may be different for others.
     
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