I love it but it has to be the right two or more men. The men have to agree that it is being done for the woman's pleasure and done safely. It looks easy but it does take cooperation and compassion for what the woman is providing the men. I have been involved, where the men loose self control and I get up and leave right away. My husband supports me and understands what it takes to pleasure all involved. My hubby has the final say on who and where we play. If you can not live by those expectations then I, we are not for you.